My boyfriend hid a lot of privacy from me! What to do?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-11
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The friend upstairs is right, people have a past, what matters is how much he loves you and how deeply you love him. If he loves you very much now and takes good care of you, that's fine. If you love him, then you muster up the courage to snatch him over, you have to treat him better than his cousin treats him, you have to help him achieve his career, you have to help him take care of his parents and family, I think you can do it, you will succeed.

    I clenched my right hand and raised it and pulled it down, shouting and shouting!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think this is a big or small thing, after all, your father is older than you, and I have to admit that sometimes the experience of the old man can see through some things better.

    You should go and talk to him properly. Although the relationship between a cousin and a cousin cannot have a marriage, it is possible to continue to be with your cousin if you marry and have children like you said. I've always thought that way, but as I write this, I suddenly have another idea.

    The idea is, his cousin, would he like to continue this relationship? If she is willing to continue to be a lover with her cousin after marriage, how long can she afford it?

    Would she be willing to maintain such a secret relationship with her cousin for the rest of her life? I don't think so.

    So, whether his family knows it or not, whether your boyfriend wants it or not, as long as the cousin sees it clearly, she doesn't want to, and everyone else is in vain.

    You can go on with your boyfriend all the time, after all, if you get married, you will have a new family, and everything will go for the better. But before you get married, you really need to think it through.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    People make mistakes, but fortunately it's just cousins, even if they really do well, there will be no result, you still have to think clearly, marriage is a major life event after all.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Everyone has a past, as long as he only loves you in the future, it is enough.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Fortunately, there is only one leg, which is not very powerful, and it does not reach the .. of two legsHey.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The past has little to do with the present, don't think too much, you just follow him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It won't be that serious! I think you're suspicious... He and his cousin should be related by blood! It shouldn't be possible for them to be together.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First of all, you should trust that he will not betray you.

    Secondly, you should believe that you can capture his heart on your own.

    In fact, sometimes he doesn't tell you and is really afraid that you will think too much.

    As long as he loves you, otherwise the tighter you hold on, the easier it is to lose.

    You just need to tell him what you really think, you should trust him more, of course, you have to stay sober, you can't believe what he says, and grasp the scale.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Believe is the foundation for building a relationship between two people! If you know your boyfriend, then choose to believe! And next time you go home, you can accompany your boyfriend to meet that girl!

    The tighter a man pushes, the easier it is to make mistakes! Trust him, don't guess him, and he won't hurt you easily!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You shouldn't really think about it, you just need to know that he loves you, provided that he really loves you, and that's enough. You can't be the only girl in his life.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Raising tigers is a problem, you can't be silent, you must come up with family law. Let me tell you this, if you plan to marry and live, then you must stop him! No matter what means are used, let him be afraid, let him scruple.

    If you let him do this this time, he will taste the sweetness, and he will inevitably be out of control, and you will not be able to control him from now on. Just like taming a horse, you must stand up and suppress him for the first time, otherwise, in the future, if he knows your submissive and indecisive character, he will eat you to the death, and your hard days will follow.

    Final advice: you must use all means to make him admit his mistake and let him promise that this will not happen in the future, anyway, whether you threaten or break up, you must stop him! I definitely advise you that love may seem romantic, but for the sake of love, some means are necessary.

    A woman who is afraid of men is not a good woman, and a man who is afraid of women is not a bad man. I'd rather let him be afraid of you and obey you, than let you obey him and be afraid of him, some things must be made rules.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    As a woman, you must know how to tap the potential of men, everything must be for the sake of men, men will give you a lifetime of love, but you are careful, but let your man look down on you, you rest assured to play for him, he always feels very uncomfortable, the more you look at him, the more boring he feels!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you love him, then believe that he is a good deceitful to you, this is to give him a chance and give you a chance. But sue him not to do this again, and if he always does this, then it's time to consider separating from him. May you be happy!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Everybody needs a little space, like if you were chatting with a guy and had a good chat, what would you do?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In fact, both of you have your own privacy, maybe I don't think it's necessary to be so honest with each other, as long as you love each other, it's better than anything else.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In fact, if it is feasible, try to live and work in the same city with him, this is the most promising and the most direct way to see whether it is suitable to go to the end. Although I am also a man, I still have to say that there are not many good men. It's true. I hope you are happy.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Maybe you should believe it, because he knows that you are easy to think too much, so he doesn't tell you that he is afraid that you will think too much, if you love him, you have to believe in him, believe in him...

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This thing depends on your attitude, if he really loves you, he won't do that, and what kiss marks have been left, it's really excessive, but you can't let go of him, you can give him a chance, and it's the last time, make it clear to him, feelings are not child's play... Let's see if he will correct it because of you in the future ...

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Distance is the killer of love, and of course it's wrong for him to hide it from you. Give him a chance and see the next one.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Open one eye and close one eye.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Trust him, don't guess by yourself, ask yourself for confirmation of anything, and don't listen to others.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You shouldn't believe him, everyone can live in this world, there are many good men, why should you love a pig unrequited? Time can heal all wounds, now you just have to do this, work hard, and that person will be waiting for you not far from you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Ask that girl out, the three of you make it clear in person, and you also ask your boyfriend what he thinks, and break it off as soon as possible.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Men should be given the space to be free, and if you want to hurry, you can't reach it, understand? But you have to let him know that you love him the most. This is more important than anything else, no matter what happens, have a forgiving heart, the heart of the house He is yours and can never run away.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Actually, it doesn't have to be that he has to tell you everything, just love you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Love is like fine sand, the tighter you grasp it, the more you want to take it for yourself, but the other party is like fine sand, the faster it leaks, and in the end there is only air in your hands Why not give the other party a certain amount of space.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    At this time, you should trust your boyfriend and don't think about it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    What's the situation?

    Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, so why bother to tell everything?

    Do you like him? If you are entangled in this matter, you should speak out, let him give up or provoke him to chase you harder.

    But if it's your bad experience, that is, it's just a personal problem, if you think that it will affect your relationship, I advise you to save your energy.

    In fact, there are some things that everyone may understand, but if you don't say it, everything is OK!

    However, after explaining it...The consequences are unpredictable....

    In my way of dealing with it: if I asked, I would explain it well, and if I didn't ask, I would hide it in my heart for the rest of my life....

    What about you? Once you've decided, don't hesitate, little sister...

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's best not to hide this, if it is known, it will be more troublesome, find a chance to make it clear to him, if he really loves you, you will understand you and tolerate you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Tell him if you're under pressure. If you can't tell him, talk to a friend.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If you really can't say it, talk to a friend or family member

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If it's not a malicious lie, continue this malicious lie to the end!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    In the future, you will remember that sometimes you have to play stupid.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    How to say it, everyone has their own space, as long as this privacy is not a high-voltage line such as someone outside, it doesn't matter, but secretly understanding his privacy without him knowing it is indeed a great insult and disrespect to him.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    If your boyfriend is a Libra or a Sagittarius, privacy is sacrosanct for them. Even if you accidentally touch a minefield, I suggest that you be as calm as you can.

    Don't mention it, don't bother with it.

    Even if he mentions it, he has to smile and pretend to be stupid, and say coquettishly, it turns out that it is your privacy....I didn't take it seriously....

    In this way, I believe, he will be helpless.

    It wasn't long before he didn't remember.

    But don't be impatient, you can't take it seriously. Otherwise....

    It's not easy to do.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Conscientious, we will not do anything to hurt each other, but that bit of privacy is to cover up, thus destroying the relationship of trust between each other. A grievance is about to appear.

    On the one hand, cooperate more with each other to do something meaningful, and on the other hand, try to have as little privacy as possible.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Still angry? Is education important to him or are you important to him? Does he want your education or your people?

    I can't figure this out, it's okay to divide it, such a man is not worthy of your love, girl, listen to persuasion, if he is really angry, you will not be happy in the future, he will always look at you from a superior perspective, you may be nothing in his eyes, and even think that you make him unable to raise his head in everyone and have no face.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    It's okay, it's not a big deal, learn about his interests and hobbies, and he will like you again. Love you forever!

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It shouldn't be necessary, but what if I really love you? It's not that he's hiding something big.

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