My mother is not satisfied with my boyfriend, and now a person with good conditions has appeared。。。。

It's up to you to choose which lifestyle you choose. Everyone's choices are different, and there are too many things to consider when facing a lifelong marriage. It is undeniable that your parents are from the past, and if your parents do not agree, then you really need to consider it, and your friends' opinions are also very important.

A person's character is very important, is filial piety? Responsible? Do you have one or two buddies who are like each other? If he's surrounded by friends who drink and drink, you need to be cautious.

You can meet the man first, maybe you're not satisfied?

You're right, there are many reasons to get married. You don't necessarily need love, aren't there many divorces who have love?

The question is, which kind of life do you need more? Are you determined to work hard with your boyfriend? You say he's not a hard-working type. That means you're going to have to work hard for a long time.

To be honest, men are actually the same, those who have money and those who don't.

Find a quiet place and think about what you need most.

The ex-boyfriend is in the blessing and doesn't know the blessing, don't do it, hurt you, annoy you, forget if you are rich, you don't have money to do this, even if you don't talk about this, how can he give you happiness! Everything is, as for the latter one, say goodbye before you meet, people don't know how, it's not enough for others to say it's not good, and you will see people's hearts over time. Over time, we will see people's hearts

I see that you haven't found the man you are destined to be, love has to be chosen by yourself, friend, you can't blindly think about his merits, I'm 18 now, my girlfriend and I have been more than 1 year, or I robbed it, but I regret it, because, she always said that I raised him, everything is a money word, if there is no money, it is nothing, looking for a girlfriend? Boyfriend? It's all fart!

Even if you marry the latter, but what do your parents mean, why? Because there is money. You can do whatever you want, why do you care about what others think, the first man, I don't want to say more, at least loving you won't hurt you, it's bitten like that, you're still like this, hey, slowly pay attention to the people in your life, maybe there are people who really love you.

The man will try him

If the two love for a long time, how can it be in the morning and twilight.

From the perspective of love, you can be ready to marry the first one, but it is better to bite lightly in the future, and not to bite. From the perspective of reality, you can contact the second, who can not be selfish? If you don't have goods, you don't have to lose, and you can also let them compete fairly.

If you really love her, don't care too much about his material conditions, rich material conditions and happy love can't be equated, and your future life depends on your own hard work. I am very grateful to my girlfriend for always giving me great support.

Men are not all fools, who doesn't want their wives to live comfortably, fight for their wives, I don't think you should leave your boyfriend, after all, love is priceless, he still has 2 houses, the conditions are not bad, you are both young and can fight on your own, even if you marry a rich man, but do you guarantee that he will be good to you after getting you, I have never believed in blind date love, it feels like gambling, marriage is a lifetime, if you choose love for money, I don't know if it is your sorrow, or the sorrow of love.

It seems that you are still very nostalgic for your ex-boyfriend, and I want to say that the ultimate killer of feelings is 'reality' If your life after marrying her is not guaranteed, don't talk about happiness, and you will have to buy a house and buy milk powder in the future, you need money, it's not that I think money is too heavy, it's that you can't live without money.

The above is just my personal thoughts.

Do you want material or love??? Now the little girls are worried about this!! Hehe.

People make money with their minds, and their future is not determined by diplomas alone! He is insecure and has a lot of self-esteem! My daughter is the best at thinking about a better future! Men can give up a good future and just want to be together

You have three blind male friends, and your parents are always dissatisfied with all kinds of things and threaten you, so that you can't enjoy the relationship and enter the marriage relationship. You don't want to listen to them, but you can't disobey them. You want to fall in love, but you are panicked because of the "threat", and you can't enjoy the sweetness of the feast.

Is that so? Parents are always unhappy with the person you are looking for. There are several reasons for this:

First, the object you picked is indeed not in line with the relationship between long-term choice, and they can see it as a person who has come over. Second, their personality is to be critical of others, for example, in other relationships, they are also very critical. Third, overestimate your conditions, thinking that you can find better ones, but the facts do not match.

Fourth, they control your life for a long time and only want you to make choices according to their wishes. Some children are indeed rebellious, looking for objects on the opposite side of their parents' wishes, looking for someone who is not suitable for them, in order to confront, but maybe the people who come over see the places that the children can't see, and the children themselves end up paying. And some parents are too manipulative of their children's lives, think very highly of themselves, overestimate their children's conditions, and always find a match as a result, and it is the children themselves who pay in the end.

So, I think you might be able to distinguish what kind of situation is causing your parents' dissatisfaction. At the same time, think clearly about your mate selection conditions, preferences, suitable partners, etc. Finally, take responsibility for your own choices, because you have to buy the order yourself anyway.

You're not looking for a partner for your parents, or you're looking for a partner for your parents. This object is to fall in love with you and live with you, and it should be a healthy, benign and loving relationship. You should be most aware of this process and your own feelings.

Not choosing, blaming parents for interference, and making passive choices are all manifestations of their own laziness and methods of not being willing to bear the consequences. You may end up blaming your father and mother (how you are, how I am), but the actual results of life are all borne by yourself. Instead of blaming your parents, it is better to take the initiative to choose and take the initiative

How bad is the so-called bad? If his parents, brothers and sisters have no problem with their character, but they are not financially good enough, or they are not as good as your family, then the problem is not particularly big. If the three views do not coincide, or if you expect to change your family situation through your son's marriage, a marriage that is not blessed by your parents will not be happy, I don't know if you believe it or not, I have also encountered such a situation.

I broke up with him, and now that I think about it, my parents were right, he really wasn't the right person for me. If you tell your boyfriend about this situation, your parents are from the past, and your parents will not harm you, and it is right to listen to your parents.

<>I think it's not about looking at things unilaterally, the main thing is to look at the man himself, as long as he understands the world, has both ability and political integrity, is diligent and frugal, is good to you, rest assured that he will be attached for life, the man you marry, not the family, some family backgrounds are not good, what does it mean to be in the first three years? It's been 3 years since you established a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship? Or have you been in a relationship for 3 years?

If it's the former, maybe there's a choice, and if it's the latter, do you still have a choice?

A bad original family does not mean that the boy is not good, in fact, getting married and living with this person does not mean that he is not worthy of marriage if his original family is not good. As long as he is a good person, only the feet know whether the shoes fit or not, don't think about yourself, consider the problem objectively, relatives and friends should also consider, and you must also take good ideas.

Life is not romance and surprises, but day after day of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, countless trivial contradictions and quarrels, how many tears and tolerance, only after being a mother can you understand. If you can't get along, try to minimize contacts, remember to have filial piety in your heart, and don't forget your in-laws! I will definitely have a happy little family in the future!

After marriage, it's not about the two of us, it's about two families. We live with our in-laws, and our living habits, ways of doing things, and eating habits are different in all aspects. So the feeling is very painful, and you have to constantly adjust your mentality.

You should have a good chat with your mother, tell your mother what you think, and express your boyfriend's concern and love for you, as well as your two plans for the future in the future, so that your mother can change her mind.

For this situation, you should first analyze whether your boyfriend is a capable man, and then see if this man is considerate and caring enough for you, and whether he will deal with things. If you are satisfied, then you can give your parents a rebuttal and explain this to your parents so that they can understand.

You can speak more for your boyfriend, stand up for him, or maintain a firm attitude, don't change your opinion of your boyfriend because of your mother, this is your own partner, and it has nothing to do with your mother.

At this time, you should tell your mother that your boyfriend has special potential, and you believe that it will bring you the life you want, and you must tell your mother more good things about your boyfriend, so that your mother will have a certain change in her opinion of your boyfriend.

You can tell your mother about some of the boy's strengths, and let the boy show them in front of her mother, and tell her not to discriminate against others based on his strength.

Communicate with the mother when the mother is calm, and tell the mother that the boy is very good to himself and takes great care of himself, and should not look at the boy's family, and the two of them will live happily in the future.

If the boyfriend knows how to be motivated, then he will prove that he is excellent with practical actions, so as to change his impression in the mother-in-law's heart.

In fact, you should still persuade your own mother, the most important thing for a person is quality, don't look at other people's family background.

Let it be, this idiom I seem to have seen in a movie.

Indeed, in my life I can use a lot.

There may really be no answer to this question, and who knows what kind of "heart" you will be?

I have a former friend who was like this, when he was in college, he fell in love with his sister who was 1 year older than him, it was a sibling relationship, because the family didn't agree, she went to South Korea, and my friend stayed in his hometown, became a teacher, 20 decades later, that is, last year, they met again, and they still love each other, my friend, who had a girlfriend, but she was not married, and she had no children, and the woman was married and had a child, but they ended up together, although it was 20 years later, and the rest of the years could be spent with your lover, and there was nothing happier than this.

Some people ask what love is, some people say that love is actually a difficult emotional problem, and it cannot be expressed, and some people use words to express the attributes of the state of love, and they feel that love is connected with everything in the world, and they feel that love is an isolated and pitiful thing.

Love and emotional problems, maybe I could talk about it for one night, and I can't tell what it contains, go with the flow, accept it with your heart.

Now, in this modern society, what can a man with bad conditions give you?

Maybe he will fight for you, work hard to meet your material needs, and the time spent on work and time with you will gradually weaken The conditions are not good, can you really guarantee that your love is pure? Jews have a famous saying: When poverty approaches your home, love flies through the window.

That's how it works, and it's the same for both men and women, and you go upstairs and say it maybe you want it to be like that, but in real life, it's really hard to judge, maybe your mother's colleague might be doing a good job. Of course, I'm not asking you to give up your love.

I mean go with the flow and judge with your heart.

Don't be fooled by the happiness in front of you, the love of today may not really be love, and the misfortune of today may be the happiness of tomorrow.

I think so, men are all the same, there used to be many people who thought that otaku are really good men, but I think they are all the same, and you must not escape from sex, maybe I say this, I am too prejudiced against women, this thing, men and women, it just depends on how you accept it, love is like taking a driver's license, there will never be a perfect score, there will never be a complete love, I think love will change.

I told my friend's story above, and I think it's that love has changed, maybe they've been separated for too long, and they've always had a crush on each other, and this liking has been going on and on, imagining, fantasizing, and the cruelty of the current situation adds color to these fantasies.

The man will definitely need physical needs, so if you have a girlfriend, the woman will also need physical problems, so you find a man, and you get pregnant, and you have a baby, and now they look happy, but behind the happiness hides the tumor of the abyss.

Go with the flow.

What's there to be dizzy? I doubt you really love him? What's wrong with the family's disagreement....

If your friend is very good, Yin Qingye treats you very well, is not stupid and filial, and is principled, and you really love him, you can't live without him, then, Feng shouts to try to make your mother agree with you, and then try hard to convince your mother! If the above conditions are not true, then, let it be. However, no matter what, I firmly disapprove of the practice of breaking up with the family because of a boyfriend, or even eloping!