My husband wants to divorce me, my husband must divorce me, what should I do?

A small quarrel and friction will never cause such a big break and problem, many things can not only look at the final result and reason, because the big problems in the marriage are gradually piled up, just like feelings, deep feelings need to accumulate a little bit, and the big cracks in the marriage are also piled up little by little, until they can no longer bear it, and in the end, because a little thing completely erupts, it will become your current state.

Emotions and self are the root of all feelings and happiness, everyone wants to be loved, cared for, cared for, although both men and women are advocating equality, but in more cases, more women usually think that they should be loved, cared for, and concerned, so they endlessly ask their lovers to love themselves more, pay more attention to themselves, and be able to fight back, scold and not return the mouth, but people are people, men and women have the same needs, and the harmony of husband and wife is mutual understanding and mutual understanding, mutual giving and giving, rather than only venting by one's own emotions, is tantamount to destroying the foundation and trust of two people, destroying the entire mutual atmosphere, and ultimately leading to emotional alienation and deviation, leading to the increase of the other party's backlog of dissatisfaction and depression, and the outbreak of extreme emotions.

In fact, there have been messy and problems in your relationship, and you never realized that if there was no outburst this time, now you shouldn't complain about anything, be sad, and be sad, all of which have no effect, let alone apologize, because this is not a question of apology and forgiveness at all.

He has lost confidence in you to live together, and has reached a state of exhaustion, just like what you suspect, it is normal for him to be emotionally separated, because to a large extent, it is your original hesitation and contradiction that you push him, and it is caused by your thorough tilt towards your feelings, when encountering such a thing, there is no need to be overly anxious, because even if your lover is so resolute, it does not mean that there is no room for maneuver, nor does it mean that your feelings have completely disappeared, It's just that all the problems and grievances erupt at this moment, if you want to bring your relationship back to the original place, you must take a good look at your own problems, adjust yourself, and then patiently repair and build up your emotional motivation.

Happiness Bodhi Garden, the guide to happiness lost.

Why is there such a big reaction, are men a little more generous? If he wants to leave, he can leave!

Everyone's patience is limited, people need to understand and trust, anyone hates being vexatious, unreasonable, lazy, stupid, betrayal, what are you ** dissatisfied with him? The two sides sat down calmly and talked, and proved with practical actions that he changed what he was not satisfied with, believing that if he did not have other better women waiting for him, he would accept you. If he has a woman outside, he should also talk to him calmly, if he can save his marriage, he will save it, and it is not a good thing if he can't save it as soon as possible.

I wish you a happy day.

Don't leave, don't let that woman get her way.

Personally, I feel that things are not simple.

Like the first floor said, don't say anything for the time being, observe for a while.

Observing him silently for a while, it's not that simple, I guess there is a ghost in my heart

Calm down, after this period of time, you are also as cold as ice, try it, you can't tolerate a man and being ambiguous.

He's not a good man either.

Then you have to ask your husband why you want to divorce her, if he can convince you for this reason, then choose to divorce, if it is just vexatious, you should try to keep it, because marriage is not easy.

You should find an opportunity to talk to your husband, and also ask him to give a reasonable reason, if there is a shortcoming, you can make changes.

I think divorce is okay, but you must fight for your best rights, otherwise you will refuse to divorce.

Hello. 1. Think about it yourself, whether the relationship can be saved, if you can, the two people can communicate calmly, if not, find a way to protect your own rights and interests.

2. If the two parties disagree on relevant matters, they can go to the court to sue for divorce; Divorce proceedings are to deal with divorce, division of joint property, and child support;

3. For the division of property, the key is the definition of common property. It is recommended that when divorcing, the status of family property and clues of joint property should be investigated, and if necessary, the collection and fixation of evidence should be done to maximize the protection of one's rights and interests. At the same time, it is necessary to pay attention to the changes in property and debts, and prevent the other party from maliciously transferring property and forging debts;

4. On the issue of child custody, the court's judgment is based on the principle of "beneficial to the child's growth", and if you want to claim custody, you must present and cross-examine evidence from the two aspects of "your support is beneficial to the child's growth" and "his support is unfavorable".

5. It is recommended to entrust a professional lawyer to guide or help you collect and review evidence, and choose the most appropriate plan to maximize your legitimate rights and interests.

Article 1079 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China [Divorce by Litigation] Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Gambling and drug addiction and other vices that have been repeatedly taught;

4) Separated for at least two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between the husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

Article 1091 [Damages for Divorce]In any of the following circumstances, where a divorce is caused, the party who is not at fault has the right to claim damages:

i) bigamy;

2) cohabitation with another person;

(iii) Committing domestic violence;

4) Abuse or abandonment of family members;

5) Other gross faults.

First: Establish the reason for divorceMany boys are divorced, and the remarriage rate of children after divorce is due to the fact that the man has a third party outside, and there is also a dispute between the husband and wife. These two reasons, although not certain, account for the vast majority.

So why did your husband get divorced? If you want to save your marriage, you need to understand the reasons for the divorce, so that you can deal with the symptoms**.

Second: Analyze the marital situationWhat is the situation of your married life today? It's cold violence, or it's an argument.

Different situations, there are different solutions, think about how you got to the point of divorce, and analyze the shortcomings between you. If you can't analyze the problem in all directions yourself, then you can ask for help from friends and relatives, and naturally, it is better to communicate with your husband well.

Third: Improve the use value of married life If you and your husband do not have sex how long can you divorce communicate, then increase the use value of married life. Since if you get divorced, the joint property of the husband and wife will be divided.

Calculate the money he wants to deliver after the husband's divorce, so that the husband can feel the work pressure of divorce and no sex how long can you get divorced. At this time, you have to be cruel to your husband, and he will carefully consider the divorce. Many men are divorced, in fact, all without careful consideration, if you calculate everything and let your husband see that the divorce is not good, the husband will have a good chance of reconciliation, in that case, the more time you have to save the marriage and keep your husband.

My husband wants to divorce you, is it because of your personality or work problems, so find the reason and adjust it. But if the husband already likes someone else, the chance of redemption of this situation is not very great. But I also hope that if you work hard, there may be another side.

What should I do if my husband wants to divorce me? I think my husband wants to divorce you today, which means that she has changed her mind, he has no good impression of you, and it is also a relief to divorce since he has no feelings.

If your husband wants to divorce you, then you must eat your husband and divorce you, then you must find your husband, play a good game, ask why you want to divorce, if your husband wants to divorce, there must be a contradiction between you, because there is no contradiction, he cannot divorce you, so you must resolve the contradiction between you, so that you can save your marriage.

First of all, you have to figure out why your husband wants to divorce you, if it's because of um, the personalities of the two people can't get along, you can change it, but if he is well, and he already has a new love, then I think there is no way, because this is like this situation, generally speaking, like a man who has taken migrant medicine. It simply doesn't make sense.

If the conflict is irreconcilable, it is recommended to discuss the division of property and child support, and the long-term pain is better than the short-term pain. If the reconciled relationship is not broken, calm down and think about their respective problems, coax him, live a good life today and think more about each other.

If there is no possibility of reconciliation, then it is good to leave, because feelings cannot be forced, nor can they be forced, and if there is no feeling, then leave, otherwise it will be painful to be together. Therefore, the long pain is better than the short pain, and it is better to start your life again when you leave.

I think my husband wants to divorce, and there is no other way to do this, if she decides to leave, you can't keep her heart even if you keep him.

Whoever leaves can live a normal life. The twisted melon is not sweet, and he has abandoned you very much, why should you be reluctant?

See what is the reason for leaving, if you say that you are doing something wrong, then you should take the initiative to apologize to your husband and strive for your husband's forgiveness.

Negotiate a solution first, if your man has to leave! There is no way, only divorced ......

Give 5,000 yuan a month for living expenses, leave the salary card at home, and take the children away! Just go if you want.

Why do you want to get divorced, have you found the reason, and only by finding the reason can you cure the root cause?

If he has someone outside who wants to divorce you, you can find a way to find that woman and talk to him personally.

You can communicate with him first to find out why he is angry. You can follow your heart and make decisions. It can be decided based on the relationship status of the two of you.

Many people say that my wife quarrels with me all day and night, and every time the two of us are together, I don't know what to do, I quarrel with him, and I can't stop arguing. My wife still has to be coaxed by me, don't quarrel with him, he keeps getting angry, and I have to coax him. I was reluctant to divorce him after divorcing him, and this kind of life every day was really depressing.

In fact, there must be many reasons why he faints and quarrels every day, you might as well ask him why he is angry? Why are you always angry? Are you in a bad mood these days?

Or do you make one for him every day? Fresh meals clean the house and make him happy, so that he will not be angry with you anymore and let him see that the house is so clean. There are also delicious and tasty meals back home.

He's going to be in a much better mood!

Communicate to find out why.

If you are the type of person who is very reticent, then you can talk to your wife. Communicate why and why are you angry? Will such a quarrel damage our married life, and will it break our married life?

Actually, your wife is in the time you quarrel. I won't think of this, but when he calms down, you communicate with him, he doesn't necessarily know why he is angry, when he calms down, you communicate well, and then correct each other's faults, each other's bad habits, which is also conducive to your married life, but also to your children's lives! You can also tell him some big things about whether this will have an impact on our children's lives in the future.

Do you want our children to grow up in an environment where parents are always arguing? Your wives will listen too.

There must be a reason why your husband wants to divorce you, if you are sorry for your husband, you should take the initiative to sincerely apologize to your husband and strive for your husband's understanding.

1.First of all, reflect on what caused the husband who once loved him deeply, but now he files for divorce. It has been said that happiness is the same, but misfortune is different.

If it's your own problem, then try to change it, after all, you were so happy in the past! If the husband has changed his mind, ask yourself.

2.Consider how divorce will affect you. Children, parents, and family property are all things you have to consider. After all, marriage is a matter of two people, but divorce is a matter of two families, and it must be considered carefully.

3.Now that you're going to get divorced, no matter how good it was before.