Is my boyfriend too strict?

Updated on society 2024-04-02
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Since ancient times, there has been a saying that men and women do not kiss each other.

    I'm sure your boyfriend knows that too.

    The fact that he says this to you shows that he cares about you.

    You should be happy.

    But from the perspective of generosity.

    He was a little stingy.

    Let's put it another way.

    If your boyfriend tells you that he's holding hands with so-and-so or something, or whatever.

    Beauty, do you feel good in your heart?

    If you don't want to have right and wrong in the future.

    It's best to bury the kindness of other people of the opposite sex to you in the bottom of your heart.

    When you have time, you can steal the fun alone.

    So that your boyfriend will not be jealous.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's not because your boyfriend is too strict, it's because he's jealous; You should think about it from a different perspective, if it was you, you would also be angry; Isn't it? At this time, you should take the initiative to explain to your boyfriend, from the perspective of your character playfulness and naughtyness, I believe he will understand. (My wife is the same as you, quite touched).

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    He loves you so much. If you see your boyfriend being intimate with a female colleague, will you be jealous? Say no, that's fake, because you also love your boyfriend dearly. When two people are together, in fact, the most important thing is to know how to communicate and understand each other more.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you think it's nothing, there's no need to tell him, if it happens to your boyfriend from another angle, what would you think, in fact, sometimes you can know the other party's feelings and why the other party is angry.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Men are also jealous, which shows that he cares about you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    But isn't your male colleague going too far? Even if you don't have a boyfriend, you can't be so presumptuous.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    That's right, if you don't love him, then go ahead and you'll regret it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Confused. That's a sign of loving you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I like you, that's it

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If I did, I would be angry.

    So

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Sissy, you're happy now. Look at everyone saying that your friend cares about you too much.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's all like this, which man is not jealous!

    Would you be angry if you watched your boyfriend shave another girl's nose?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    People are alive, family rules are dead, no matter how strict the family rules are, wouldn't it be okay if I don't violate them, don't ruin your beautiful marriage for the sake of any so-called family rules, and now many young people live by themselves after marriage, don't think too much.

    You said that you have waited for him for so many years, but you are still very young now, and there are still many opportunities, so you should be sensible and get out. It's really boring to be together like this. I don't think it's his parents who are strict, but his parents know that you don't like you together, so they deliberately manage it strictly, and it's normal for others to play late or something.

    Think about it sensibly.

    Because your boyfriend has a very strict upbringing, and his parents have a lot of restraint on him, this may damage your boyfriend's sense of self-efficacy and worth, and the nightmares, avoidance, and vigilance caused by the trauma can seriously deplete his psychological resources. He can persist until now, it must have been very hard and not easy.

    Hypnosis may help your boyfriend, but it is not the only way, dialectical behavior**, cognition**, etc. will help, it is important to invite him to start psychological**.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Hello, if the man's family is strict, you can ask your boyfriend to talk to his parents to see if you can ease up, after all, the two of you are not married yet, don't be too nervous.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hello kiss, my boyfriend is too strict with my boyfriend, and I am too possessive. In general, a man is too possessive of his girlfriend because he feels that he has no confidence in the relationship, is insecure, feels that he is not competitive in front of other members of the opposite sex around you, and has low self-esteem to the point of fear that he will lose control in a relationship. In this case, his sense of self-existence is impaired, and he already feels out of control and panic in his heart, and he sometimes chooses to help himself not be abandoned by you by controlling and dominating others, so naturally his possessiveness will become stronger, and his discipline will become stricter and stricter.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Summary. Your boyfriend's daily life should be managed, what kind of friends he makes, who he is with today, he should be properly managed, don't be too strict, if you are too strict, he may think you are very annoying and he has no personal space of his own, and you should also care about his family, and it seems that there is no care about it!

    What should and shouldn't be in charge of the boyfriend.

    Your boyfriend's daily life should be managed, what kind of friends he makes, who he is with today, he should be properly managed, don't be too strict, if you are too strict, he may think you are very annoying and he has no personal space of his own, and you should also care about his family, and it seems that there is no care about it!

    Boyfriends should be properly managed. The word "tube" does not mean that it is a constraint and limitation, nor should it become a derogatory term, but a positive and positive interpretation. Willing to interfere with others, in a way, to classify him as his own, even for boyfriends.

    If he has nothing to do with him, or is just a simple friend, then some opinions and thoughts naturally cannot be directly said, or tactfully persuaded, or simply not mentioned, so as to maintain a long-term and friendly relationship. And once the other person becomes his boyfriend, the two are inextricably linked, and he not only represents himself, but also affects each other's lives. At this time, the "management" is reflected in the care and love for the boyfriend, and also in the maintenance of the development of the relationship.

    After getting to know each other well enough, it is natural to regard him as a close and trusted person, and you can ask him many ideas that he could not mention in the past.

    It is best to follow the requirements and recommendations of some professionals. 3.It is best to keep a distance of 2 meters from people in contact and conversation.

    Don't spit casually, cover your sneeze with a tissue, etc. 4.To ensure a hygienic diet, it is best to eat hot food and get enough rest.

    5.Don't get rainy, tired, and so on, and all these things that cause your immunity to drop.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Summary. Hello, I'm glad to answer for you: Actually, if you're just together, then I think you can have a good talk with him, tell him that you don't like this kind of thing to happen, so that the two of you can balance a better way of getting along, otherwise you will definitely feel very uncomfortable after a long time.

    In fact, if he really loves you, when you go to him and talk about this, he should know what to do, after all, even if two people are in love, they need a certain amount of separate space, and they can't say that they are managed by another person all the time.

    What should I do if my boyfriend is too strict.

    Hello, I'm glad to answer for you: Actually, if you're just together, then I think you can have a good talk with him, tell him that you don't like this kind of thing to happen, so that the two of you can balance a better way of getting along, otherwise you will definitely feel very uncomfortable after a long time. In fact, if he really loves you, when you go to him and talk about this, he should know what to do, after all, even if two people are in love, they need a certain amount of separate space, and they can't say that they are managed by another person all the time.

    But if you have been with him for a long time, then I think a simple talk with him will not make any difference, but he may get angry with you and think that you have changed your mind. Because he has been like this for so many years, he is actually used to this model, if you resist with him at this time, he will definitely think that you have a heart for someone, so he wants to break up with him.

    Actually, the problem is that you should have stopped him from doing this from the beginning, but you didn't, so for so many years, he has thought that you should be like this, and that's how the two of you get along. So I think you should think about this kind of life, can you endure it for a lifetime, after all, you are not married, he is like this, if you are married, you are in charge of you all the time, staring at you, can you stand it?

    You should talk to him very seriously and let him know what you have in mind, and then come and see his reaction and make your decision. At least let him know what you feel in your heart, if he really cares about you, it's okay to change slowly, if he doesn't want to change, but thinks it's your problem, then I think you should think about it, whether you should leave him. Because life is very short, you have been like this in the past few years, and you think clearly that you will have to live like this for so many years in the future, won't you feel very aggrieved?

    In fact, if you love someone, you should choose a more comfortable way.

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