Should I start a long distance relationship, should I continue a long distance relationship?

I'm a long-distance relationship and my boyfriend just came to my city last week and ended up living in a "long-distance" life.

I would say that the pain and hardship are for sure, but if everything is worth it, then why wait? I see that many netizens on the Internet are saying how bad long-distance relationships are, telling people not to do this or that, in fact, it can be imagined, it is because their long-distance relationships are failures, or give up, but we don't generalize, you have to look at people, not forms, if the character of the person you love is not good, then even if you are together every day, it may not be a good ending, so why blame it on the "long-distance relationship"?

Long-distance relationship, for girls, is mainly because of insecurity, girls are delicate, emotionally sensitive, and it is easy to worry a lot, I just keep telling myself that he has given so much for me, I see it in my eyes, and all I can do is trust and wait.

Moreover, even if things don't go well in the future, my sister will not delay her future. And, if you have survived 2 years, you have a certain foundation in Beijing, and you can also help your brother's development in Beijing, whether it is funds or interpersonal relationships, etc., you are more familiar than your brother, so why not?

Don't listen to what others say about the success rate, they are not in a long-distance relationship with your boyfriend, why should they lose confidence in their boyfriend when they see others fail???

Boyfriends are not afraid, what are you afraid of. Work first, it's not time to make a decision, and if you make a decision now, you'll regret it.

Give up your job and wait for your boyfriend to graduate, because you don't have a good job, your boyfriend thinks you are not worthy of him, and when you break up, you will regret not listening to your uncle back then.

Decide to give up love, and when you succeed in your work, you will think, how good it would be that I didn't give up that sincere feeling.

So now that your boyfriend supports you, you should go there to work first, and don't give up on love, it's not time for a crisis everywhere, if you really get to that point, you have to give up love or work when you decide again.

In fact, long-distance relationships are not so scary, I am in a long-distance relationship.

The success rate of long-distance relationships is not high, and the longer you are apart, the more likely you are to break up, so it is better to be together.

No matter what, there will always be a lot of difficulties, just see if you think it's worth paying! If it's worth it, it's worth it no matter how difficult it is!

I am also a person who is far away from home for love, and sometimes I am very homesick, but you better have your own career, because when the factor of not being able to go home changes from a single love to a double career, there will be less pressure, and it must be noted that your boyfriend must understand your behavior, because if he does not think so. Later you have fewer chances of going home and not being understood.

It depends on the specific situation, it is relatively normal to be in a long-distance relationship now, but you must make sure that the person you love must be in love with you and will love you in the future, otherwise, there will be a lot of things in the future, and you must accept this challenge and test.

From an objective point of view, it is unrealistic, and anything can happen in 2 years.

Don't be in a long-distance relationship.

It's hard, it's tiring, it's confusing, and the odds are low.

Why don't you look around? There's no one you have to choose.

True love is inseparable.

It depends. If the love is deep, then it can continue. Because deep feelings can solve all difficulties. Finally came together. If the love is not deep, it is recommended to give up, because it may not be successful.

There are still successful cases of long-distance relationships. For example, a friend I know is in a long-distance relationship, and her parents don't approve of her being with her boyfriend, and then the girl insists on being with her boyfriend, and her parents can't resist it, so they agree. They had a good life after marriage.

So a long-distance relationship can be successful. But it takes a lot of faith. If you have a firm relationship, then you can continue to be on the right side, because a long-distance relationship is just a hurdle, and if you are brave enough to boast about it, everything will be fine.

On the other hand, if you don't love each other very much, then don't continue, because there are too many dilemmas of long-distance love. You will not necessarily succeed.

A long-distance relationship means that one partner wants to live in the other partner's city away from their parents and friends. The sacrifice is still great. If you don't have a good plan, don't choose.

For example, a colleague I know who is in a long-distance relationship with her boyfriend. The sides are separated by two thousand kilometers. Their parents also did not approve of their marriage.

The girl didn't think about whether to continue with him, so she let it go. There is a saying that long pain is better than short pain. So it's better to let go if you don't want to be promoted, knowing that there is no result, then there is no need to stick to it and laugh.

In short, whether the long-distance relationship should continue depends on how your relationship is, if the relationship is deep, then you can overcome all difficulties and finally come together. If the feelings are not deep, then there is no need to continue, because the belief in love is not firm and may not be successful. Long pain is better than short pain, give up early, and neither of you will feel pain.

Everyone's emotional experience and emotional concentration are different, as for whether a long-term long-distance relationship should be insisted on, it still has to return to specific people and specific feelings.

If you feel that you have to do something, you won't ask if you can bury it or not, and the same is true for long-distance relationships, if you ask yourself if you want to persevere, then most likely you already feel that there is no need to insist in your heart. I have the answer in my heart, but I don't have a "legitimate reason", because after all, the other party has not done anything wrong, and there is no reason to break up, the relationship needs to get along, run in, and irrigate, and there is no opportunity to understand each other in a long time. When the day of the end of the long distance, you will find that in reality, he and the object of your previous love are not the same person at all.

If two people really love each other, try not to be in a different place, or try not to be too far apart. It's not that long-distance relationships are bad, of course, long-distance relationships also have good endings, it's just that because long-distance relationships are likely to push the originally good relationship to the edge full of fog, and there is no way out in the end.

Long-distance relationships spend most of the time in waiting, and only when we wait do we know what we need, for us in a long distance, being able to hold on to this hard-won relationship is what we need most at this time.

True love even if it is far away, I still know that you love me, and I will do my best to take due responsibility for this love, long-distance needs courage and faith, only with these two conditions, two people in a long-distance relationship can finally come together.

Hello, it is not for nothing that a long-distance relationship or separation between the two places can have a good ending in the end, but it is rare.

What I don't object to is that when we first met, we were in a different place. If two people like each other very much, they should not completely reject each other just because it is a long-distance relationship, but should give each other a chance.

If you really decide to be together or get married, try to go to the same place. What I firmly object to is that for some reason, couples who were originally together should be in different places. Many people may say that being in a different place is a last resort and there is no way to do it. Are you sure?

There really wasn't much to do about being away from home when I was a student. But if the college students really love each other, they should go to a city after graduation. Since then, for the most part, being off-site has become your own choice.

Special types of work, such as military personnel) will not appear in two places, a large extent depends on how you measure the relationship between two people and some external factors. The reason for being away from home is nothing more than work and future. But I think these things can really be solved.

If you can stay with your partner for a long time, does it matter if you take a little less money?

Is there a lack of trace keys for a little promotion? I use my own painful experience to tell you: if you are a partner who has or is about to get married, please must not choose a different place. When I first went to college in China, I had a bright boyfriend who was very nice to me.

But after two months of dating, I went to Singapore to study. At that time, laptops were rare, and you also needed a ** card to make international calls. It can only be said that the stacks of ** cards left behind are green.

Of course, it's not necessary, it's not reliable to fall in love now, and there is no result when you're together, let alone a long-distance relationship, it's even more unreliable.

It's better not to start, if you have confidence in each other, or if you want to give each other a little space and have some tests of your own, you can try it, if not, it's better not to.

It's up to you, if you feel like him, you can be together. But I think if you hesitate, if you don't like her very much, you don't have to be together. After all, long-distance relationships do.

It's not very simple. If neither you nor your partner are very determined. Then don't start.

Don't start a long-distance relationship unless it's deep and sincere, because it hurts as a result.

If the two of you can't leave each other anymore, it's okay, otherwise you don't have any feelings, and it will be even more indifferent

Don't start without starting.

I think it's best not to start a long-distance relationship, no one wants to live a life of separation between two places, long-distance relationships are too painful, that kind of lovesickness is very uncomfortable, and many long-distance relationships are either green or yellow.

The time has come to test your love. If you're in a deep relationship, even a long-distance relationship can be successful. If your relationship is not deep, any excuse may be a reason for your breakup. Whether or not you should continue depends on how deep your relationship is.

I know a friend she and her husband met when they were in school, and graduation did not become an excuse for them to break up, after graduation, the two lived in different cities, but the other party would get together on holidays or rest days, and they would live together in a world of two. Later, after getting married, the two lived in the same city. Although it was a long-distance relationship, they eventually became a couple.

So if the two have a deep relationship, a long-distance relationship can also be successful.

And the subject and boyfriend received jobs in two cities. This does not affect the relationship, you can get together on holidays, and if your relationship is deep, a long-distance relationship can also be successful. Of course, if you don't want to be separated, you can also work in the same city.

A city is not small, and two people can also work in the same city. You can find a job again, and a relationship again, but you can no longer find the feeling you once had. So love may be more important than work and love.

In short, as for whether love should continue to depend on whether your relationship is deep, a long-distance relationship may not necessarily be unhappy. Even if they are two places apart, as long as the relationship between the two parties is good, it will definitely succeed. In fact, the subject can have the best of both worlds, then work while in a long-distance relationship.

It's a bit hard, but that doesn't mean you can't succeed.