If you are not confident, everyone looks down on you, so you must learn to love yourself and rely on

It's not enough to be confident, you have to be strong. Be self-reliant. If you want others to be able to afford it, you have to be extremely strong.

Loving yourself is one aspect. But it cannot be understood narrowly. It's not realistic to rely entirely on yourself, and where there are people, it matters.

Of course, relationships are only one way to solve problems. When it comes to really doing things, you have to rely on yourself.

You can say that again! The mountains will fall, and everyone will run. Rely on your parents and your parents will grow old. Only on your own is the most reliable.

That's right, it's better to ask for others than for yourself. It's better to stand up on your own.

People come and go, just a kind of familiarity, goodbye to parting is also a kind of loneliness, goodbye parting is also a kind of scenery. Whose cut, whose dream, and whose miss are just a kind of scenery, but also a kind of confession, ignoring the perception of life, missing the most real years. A period of old age, a goodbye, floating into the play, a period of vicissitudes, a goodbye, is a life insight, but also has no chance to continue.

The person who parted, look away, let go, understand the goodbye of life, the person who forgets, the lost heart, hide good intentions, and be a person with a clear conscience. Maybe something you did broke his heart!!

It's good to have money in your own pocket, and it's better to ask for others than for yourself! Society is so cruel, it's better to be realistic. You are powerful and powerful, and you will be begged by others. Hope it can help you, and I wish you all the best in the end!!

Like, that's a really good thing to say, it's really like this, it's better to rely on yourself than to rely on yourself, and what you work hard to get out of is what really belongs to you.

Ego is the time when people value themselves the most, and at the same time, they don't bother with other people's values and emotions.

Nowadays people are self-aware of their knowledge, but they don't know their own self.

Self-confidence: I am like everyone else, self-confidence is a state of mind that makes you feel valued and important, while valuing the value and emotions of others.

No one will make you feel inferior without your consent.

We all have the self-confidence that we must have in life, but we should chart a line that we should not cross where the self began:

Thin lines of self-confidence and self-esteem can be explained by the following example: I can do it - self-confidence. Only I can do it - ego. When you feel like you're right – be confident. Hu Laowan: When you feel that only you are right - self.

I am a student of the 101st training camp, from **, is an audit director, I used to be not confident enough in myself, afraid of lack of professional knowledge, afraid of being scolded by the leader, so I am afraid to do anything, and Hanqin has become nervous and anxious in meetings, trembling when speaking, feeling that others are laughing at myself, and becoming unconfident! I was afraid of the meeting, I ran away from the pants if I could, I was very repulsive, I felt that the sky had fallen, and I felt pressure when I thought about it a few days before the meeting! Trying to find an excuse not to attend the meeting!

After signing up, I am not afraid to express myself in front of strangers, and now I like to study, and the more I learn, the more transparent and courageous I become. In the office, you must say when you should speak, express yourself, express yourself, and show your good side.

I am a student of episode 101, I am Shanxi *** and now I am working as a general worker in Shanghai Cosmetics Factory. I was an introverted child since I was a child, I didn't dare to play in crowded places, and I had low self-esteem. When I grew up, I didn't fit in with my colleagues at work, I often hid in the corner, I didn't have any friends, my mother-in-law didn't like me very much after I got married, and I didn't get along with my husband and didn't have a common language, so I wasn't happy at all.

I feel very uncomfortable after working in Shanghai, I feel very uncomfortable, once after the leadership accompaniment training, I was very nervous, the handwriting is shaky and the writing is ugly, I have never had this feeling before, since then I am afraid of writing, and it has become more and more serious in recent years.

Now, my thinking and life have been greatly improved, I am no longer pessimistic, I am more energetic, my mood is better, I also actively greet my colleagues, I am not nervous when I see the leader, and I dare to speak. Now the relationship with my family is very close, the mentality is better, the energy is high, I like myself after the change, thank you Zhang Jie for the company of the teachers and students who run the Life College.

True self-confidence depends on your unconditional acceptance of yourself.

Whether you are good or not, successful or not, beautiful or ugly, you can accept yourself, recognize yourself, and love yourself.

There are two types of self-confidence in people:

One is conditional self-confidence and the other is unconditional self-confidence.

Conditional self-confidence, the value of your tools, simply put, is the use you have for others to live in this world.

It can be tangible, such as how much income you bring to the company at work; It can also be intangible, such as high appearance and superior figure, giving people a pleasing feeling of taking the reed.

So, conditional self-confidence says that you only feel valuable and therefore have self-confidence when you can be of use to others.

This is also what most people are putting a lot of effort into cultivating: trying to improve their knowledge or ability in a certain area, so as to prove their own value. But once he loses support from the outside world, he loses his self-confidence.

So what is unconditional self-confidence?

Unconditional self-confidence, the value of your existence, simply put, because you are you, you are valuable in yourself, and you are good.

At this time, your self-confidence is not affected by the outside world, it is your inner recognition of yourself, so I will also call it "self-confidence in your bones".

If you have unconditional self-confidence, then you will always believe that you are born worthwhile and that your value will not change because of what you do, regardless of whether you are smart, right, or capable, and whether others recognize, respect, or love you.

In love, sometimes you can't tell why at all, you just inexplicably attract someone and want to be with him, and inexplicably you won't like some other person no matter what.

There is no reason for love. It's just that you do have the right to love anyone who makes you feel happy in your heart, but you must not easily choose someone and treat him as the rest of your life.

Sometimes, liking and walking together at the end are really two different things. Some people you love him, he is really suitable for you, but some people you love him, he is not suitable for you to fall in love with you at all, or even get married.

There is a friend next to her, she used to be a very cheerful girl, but after being with a man she loves very much, gradually, she became more and more cautious and less confident.

Often she sent messages to that man, and she had to think about it for a long time, word by word, for fear that she would say something wrong and make him unhappy. Whenever that man snubbed her, she would be very sensitive, feeling that she was not good enough, and would try her best to please the other party.

Because she loves that man, she keeps lowering her bottom line, the man doesn't reply to the message and doesn't answer **, she chooses to tolerate, the man is unwilling to disclose her, she chooses to understand, the man is ambiguous with other members of the opposite sex, and she is still reflecting on herself.

She became more and more unable to assert herself, and only took what men said as a code of conduct, and then she became more and more unhappy.

Like this girl, there are always people who think that if you love someone, you should be unconditionally good to him, no matter how excessive that person is, you should not question it, but you should change yourself and match his steps.

You always think that if you keep thinking about the other person, the other party will see your goodness and become cherished by you, but in fact, the more you are like this, the more the other party will not cherish you.

Love should never be compromised, nor should it be for one person to give up oneself, but two people together, honest with each other, not only can they be themselves with confidence, but also can grow together and become better people.

A good relationship, what it brings you, will definitely be your achievement, and a relationship that always makes you lose yourself, a person who makes you more and more unable to find yourself, he will definitely not be the one who is suitable for you.

Don't love someone who makes you have no self-confidence. When you can't find yourself and can't be recognized in front of a person, then over time, your inner world will collapse, and you will live more and more tired.

All the feelings that make you unconfident are not a right relationship, once a relationship makes you humble and can't find yourself, then no matter how much you like that person, you must leave him quickly before he completely controls you.

When you love someone, you can make some concessions for them, but you must not give up on yourself because of him. If you don't take yourself seriously, then there is no one who will really respect and love you.

Because a person who can make you unconfident means that this person is unreliable and does not give you security, so never love.

Because if you don't have self-confidence, it means that he doesn't approve of you, and if you love such a person, you can only make yourself feel very humble.

Because good love, the right person, he will make you better and better. It will make you fearless, confident and beautiful in the face of everything. Instead of making you feel humbled.

Self-confidence will also be evaluated by others, but first you have to accept yourself to be confident, you can think about your strengths, what you have or what you have done that you are proud of. At the same time, you don't need to care too much about other people's opinions, because everyone looks at problems from a different perspective and knows how to analyze and deal with gossip by themselves.

Self-confidence is a wonderful attitude to life, when we achieve nothing, we will doubt our abilities, be defeated by the inferiority complex, so we feel that life is miserable and bleak; We build self-confidence, become optimistic and open-minded, and our lives become better. So as long as we have self-confidence, it will stimulate our life force, which is like fire, which can burn difficulties and illuminate wisdom. People must not lose self-confidence, otherwise the burden of life will not be able to be lifted, the road forward will be difficult to move an inch, and the hope in the heart will be dim.

Hello landlord:

Very happy to answer your question, self-confidence is of course to oneself, others give that is not called Thaksin, the key is this by one of the questions, that is, the cultivation of self-confidence needs to recognize some of their own achievements, freedom to achieve or can achieve the goal to cultivate self-confidence, as for inferiority, sometimes people can not maintain self-confidence at any time, there are periodicity, try to overcome yourself, I wish you a happy life, a happy life, I hope my answer can help you, Your adoption is the greatest encouragement to me.

Identify areas that make you feel less confident.

If it is a figure, then exercise more to maintain a good body, if it is an academic degree, then develop the habit of reading and learning, increase knowledge reserves, etc., self-confidence is a kind of personal charm exuded from the inside out.

If it's because of your family background or something.

Then it is completely unnecessary.

Self-confidence is really given to oneself.

Low self-esteem and self-confidence are complementary to each other, to have a proper inferiority, not too much inferiority, should be self-confident But too much self-confidence will lead to pride.

As long as you are confident and everything seems to be going well, you have to talk to others more, read more books, and increase your knowledge, so that you will not feel inferior when you talk freely.

Gain self-confidence by doing every little thing seriously.