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The son can't marry a daughter-in-law, but the parents blame the daughter for not paying the money and not buying a house for the son, I think this is irrational and immoral, because your son and your daughter are both human beings, why do you have to ask your daughter to pay for your son to buy a house?

I think there is no reason for the parents to blame this, the son can't marry a daughter-in-law, it's because the son himself is incompetent, what does it matter to the daughter? Parents don't have the ability, it's better to reflect on yourself.

The son is not a daughter-in-law, and the parents are used to the daughter, and the daughter did not pay to buy a house for the son? Even if the daughter's conditions are good, the parents can't be like this. It's brother and sister love for my sister to help you, and my sister can't do this if she doesn't help you, after all, you can control your own life.

How can you look at it, you don't care about such parents as soon as possible, there will be something for you to suffer in the future, and you will be asked for money to marry before you get married, whether you have to take care of everything after marriage, you are really sad to have such parents.

I feel that my son's own responsibility for marrying a daughter-in-law should be borne by the son, and I can't blame the daughter, after all, the person who wants to marry a daughter-in-law is a son, and it should rely on his own struggle.

The son does not let the daughter-in-law, but the parents blame the daughter for not having the money to do it, which is unfair, the son is the son, the daughter is the daughter, and the daughter is not obliged to pay for the son's marriage.

I don't think it's okay to have such a primitive family, my own son is useless, blame my daughter for not buying a house for my son, this family's patriarchal concept is too serious.

It's not right for parents to do this, they can't afford to give their son money to marry a daughter-in-law, why do they let their daughter pay for it?

I don't think there's really much to say about this kind of parent. In their hearts there is only the son.

Giving birth to a daughter is not to support your own son, many parents will have such thoughts, and we girls have no responsibility to support our younger brother.

Ignore him, you tell him. My brother is an adult and does his own thing. There is no obligation to help him, help him, just lovers, by virtue of us.

The son can't marry a daughter-in-law, but the parents blame the daughter for not paying the money and not buying a house for the son, I can't blame the daughter, the daughter is just because of the daughter, after all. Married people should be.

The son can't marry a daughter-in-law, but the parents don't pay for the daughter and don't buy a house for the son, what do you think I think your son can't marry a daughter-in-law, it's your parents' responsibility, and it has nothing to do with the daughter, the parents are not good enough, how can they rely on their daughter?

The son can't marry a daughter-in-law, but the parents blame the daughter for not paying the money and not buying a house for the son, I think such parents are very selfish and too patriarchal, so he will say such things.

The son can't marry a daughter-in-law, and the woman blames the daughter for having no money to buy a house for her son, such parents are really shameless.

Hello! Here's what you can answer.

1.The daughter has the right to fight for the house. If the daughter earns the house, in exchange for the anger of the brother, brother, sister-in-law, and sister-in-law, the family will not be harmonious from then on.

2.Parents buy a house for their son to prepare for their son to marry, which is a traditional custom of the Chinese, parents let their son marry in order to pass on the bloodline and let a certain surname be passed on from generation to generation.

3.According to Chinese customs, daughters are to be married, and the daughter's marriage house is bought by the boyfriend's parents, so when the daughter gets married, the biological parents do not need to buy a house for their daughter (parents will prepare a dowry for their daughter), so the daughter does not have to fight for a house.

4.Taking a step back, although the daughter can fight for the house (of the elder brother or the younger brother) or get the house, the daughter is not happy, and the daughter has a grudge and conflict with the elder brother and the younger brother's family. Because the parents only have the money they have worked hard to save, if the daughter takes away part of the house, it will cause financial losses to the elder brother and younger brother, and the conflict will arise.

Dear, for the sake of the harmony of your family, please don't fight for the house at home.

As long as the parents make it clear that they are buying a house for their son and buying a house with their own money, their daughter has no ability to change, and can only say that they have the right to fight for it, but the result will not be too good.

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Good morning, dear! Generally speaking, sons do not resent their parents, especially children who feel very sorry for their parents. They tend to be more considerate of their parents, because it's not just their parents' fault.

I don't have the money to marry my son, so will my son blame me?

Good morning, dear! Generally, the son will not resent his parents, especially the children who feel very sorry for their parents. They tend to be more considerate of their parents, because Yuan Yan is not just a parent's reason for this matter.

And you don't need to be too sad and gloomy because of this, the teacher understands the heart of the parents very well. They all hope to give their children the best they can give, there is no doubt about this. In reality, there are too many people who can't marry a daughter-in-law because of economic conditions.

The first is that the child has excellent ability or strong communication skills and can talk on his own, which may not require too much burden. The second is that we still work hard to improve the economic town bureau as soon as possible, and we have some ability to go to Yuzheng to try to find the right girl to marry.

Thank you. You're welcome! The top priority is to encourage the children to stabilize the mentality of the two of us, contact the girls more, and work together to get the marriage done.