My wife is going to work in another place, what should I do?

I think men can do this:

1. Communicate well with your wife to understand why she wants to go to work in other places.

Many men will think that if their wives stay by their side, no matter how hard and tired they are, they don't think this is the right idea. Now is an era of rapid development, every family needs money, if there is no money as a material basis, just to eat enough, such couples will definitely be eliminated.

If my wife wants to go to work in other places, I think her income in other places should be better than in the local area, otherwise she will not choose to go out, as a husband, you should understand your wife's thoughts, if it is reasonable, you should support her, because she will also drive you well.

Second, from the perspective of the development of two people, whether both of them go.

It is better for husband and wife not to separate, but it is understandable that one party wants to go to other places to develop and want to change the situation at home and improve the quality of life.

If you really don't want to separate, I personally think that it is best for both parties to stand in each other's perspective, consider where the two people will stay, and the development will be better. After a few years of hardship, it may be exchanged for a lifetime of food and clothing, which is also very good.

Nowadays, more and more women are working in other places, which can reduce the financial burden of the family, and secondly, it also reflects the economic independence of women, who can freely use their own money, and do not need to reach out to men to ask for money. In fact, it is not easy for women to work outside the home, and the employment area is relatively not as wide as that of men. For example, heavy physical work, dangerous industries, etc. are not suitable for women to work, so they can only find some jobs that are relatively light and suitable for women's career development.

A woman who has been working in other places for a long time and can't go home a few times a year will inevitably have less emotional communication with her husband, and as a woman's husband, can she rest assured at home? Let's hear what the three men have to say.

Xiaohong's husband, 46 years old, has been married for more than 20 years.

My wife Xiaohong and I have a good relationship, and we have lived together for more than 20 years and have never quarreled. Now, the two children are getting older and both are studying, and the family's expenses are getting bigger and bigger. Xiaohong saw it in her eyes and was anxious, and took the initiative to work in distant places, she said that working in other places to earn more money than in the local area.

I supported her when she went to work in other places, and her vision was broader outside, which just met her wish for many years.

She is working in other places, and I am still relieved of her. I remember the first few years, when she was working in a factory near our hometown, just a few months after she went to school, there was a man of her age in the unit who wanted to bully her, and she was deliberately looking for fault and wanting to get close to her, she saw the man's thoughts, and said to him confidently: "I am a family person, and I have a good relationship with my husband, please stay away from me in the future."

When the man heard this, he never approached her again.

Besides, the two of them have been together for so many years, so old, and the relationship between the two is very good. I understand her personality, she has principles and a bottom line, and she will not do anything that hurts her feelings. Therefore, she is working outside, and I am still relieved of her.

There must be a reason why your wife wants to work in a different place, because the family financial situation and some trivial matters should calm down and have a good talk with your wife, if the child is still young, you must take care of the child and let him work in a little more place.

Being away from home can lead to a breakup, and I feel like two people should be together, either leave her or you go along.

Everyone says that distance produces beauty, but distance produces not only beauty, but also estrangement and strangeness, I admit that there are some different places in the world, can join hands to whitehead, but the vast majority of us ordinary people, are unable to do this.

You may say that as long as you love each other, there is no problem in not being in the same city, but you must know that love is not only a verbal expression, spiritual communication, but also needs to be able to take care of each other and understand each other's difficulties.

If your wife goes to work in another place and you two have been separated for a long time. Who took care of her when she was sick? When she is wronged, whose arms will she lie in and cry? When she's upset, who takes her to a big dinner to make her happy?

You can't do all of this, and she can't do it for you. After a long time, there will always be another person to do these things, and the relationship between you will gradually fade.

Both parties agree on a consensus, as long as they calmly analyze the pros and cons (development, salary, the actual situation of the family in the year, etc.).

Then consider the overall impact on your family, whether you have the convenience of working in a different place, etc.

Hello, you have to talk to your wife about this situation, if it's because of the pressure of life, then you can go out to work together, if it's because of your emotional discord, then you can talk about it, after all, you still have feelings, only if the two of you are good to talk, you can solve the problem between you. If there is no problem with both of you, then you can communicate well, and neither of you is willing to go back, then you have to consider whether you want to continue this marriage. If you don't want to continue, then you can think about divorce.

If you want to continue, then you have to talk about whether you still have feelings between you, and if you both still have feelings, then you have to communicate well to see what else you can do with each other. You can solve all these problems, and the marriage between the two of you can continue, and don't let your wife work outside the home.

Hello, according to your description, I personally think that you did it wrong.

First of all, you are not a single person, you are an adult man, you are married and have a family, you are old and young, and you have a wife and children and parents on both sides to take care of...These are all family responsibilities that you should take on as an adult, and you should dare to take them on instead of being lazy.

Just imagine, our family has at least dozens of yuan of living expenses every day, which is a fixed expense, and you haven't worked for a year or two. Is it up to your wife to work hard alone?

For a long time, you don't take any responsibility, but ask your wife to pay for you, why does your wife work so hard? Wouldn't it be better for her to divorce you and live with her children and have one less person to raise?

If your wife wants to go to work in an out-of-town area, there are a few things you can consider to deal with it.

First, communication and understanding. Communicate openly and honestly with your wife about why she wants to go to work out of town. It could be that she wants to challenge herself to travel and seek better career opportunities, or maybe she has a strong interest in a particular industry or company.

You need to understand her motivations and goals, and respect her decisions.

Second, consider the needs of the family. If you have children or other family members to take care of, you need to think about how to organize the family. A reasonable plan can be made with the wife to ensure that the daily life of the family can be carried out normally.

You may consider finding a suitable nursery or home nanny to take care of the children, or negotiate with other family members to share household chores.

Third, support and encouragement. As a husband, you should support your wife's decision and encourage her to pursue her dreams and turn her blind eye. You can help her find the right job opportunities and provide help and support, such as helping her revise her resume, providing job search advice, or helping her schedule interviews.

Fourth, maintain good communication and connection. Even if you are separated, you still need to maintain good communication and connection. You can stay in touch through calls, text messages, etc., and share each other's life and work experiences.

You can set a time to meet at a time when you can meet at a regular time, such as once a month when you go home or your wife comes back to visit relatives for a while. <>