Let s talk about it, what is the experience of not falling in love in college?

Although there will be a lot of time to fall in love after going to college, and it's time to fall in love, but I don't want to fall in love for the sake of falling in love, I firmly believe in the iron law of breaking up after graduation, in order to make up for the emptiness and loneliness in my heart, I had to soak in the library every day, but I was also abused by the library. ‍‍

Actually, I didn't fall in love in college, I think your college is in vain, why don't you watch so many beauties.

Of the four people in the dormitory, I was the only one who didn't talk about a girlfriend! I can't see the other three people on the weekends, and I'm always with my girlfriend **or** when I'm in the dorm! Fortunately, my heart is strong, otherwise I would really be tortured to death!

If there's anything that no one wants to do, I'll have to go, it's easy, because you don't have to accompany your girlfriend! ‍‍

The mother and fetus are single, although they have confessed, but they are still issued a good person card. In fact, I didn't worry that I would be single all the time in college, because I was always telling myself not to rush, hoping to meet the right person, instead of? To fall in love for the sake of falling in love, you will eventually wait for someone who will accompany you to old age.

But as time goes on, my heart is still empty, and I can't be cheerful and lively in high school. ‍‍

I haven't fallen in love in the four years I've been in college, it's not that no one chases, it's not that I don't want to fall in love, it's just that I haven't met the right person, so I don't want to wronged myself. I don't think there's a need to deliberately fall in love for the sake of falling in love in college, and now that I've graduated, I look back at my original college life, and it's a little regret that I haven't been in love for four years. But I think I have a good attitude towards life, and I believe that there must be someone waiting for me. ‍‍

I just haven't been in a relationship in four years of college! The ratio of males to females in our school is 1:9, so it is really difficult for girls in our school to fall in love!

What's more, there are still a lot of boys who are robbing boys with us! In fact, I feel okay, I feel more independent, I have done a lot of things I want to do, I see some classmates around me falling in love, sometimes quarrels, I seem to be a trivial matter, and I am very glad that I am not in love, saving a lot of heart! ‍‍

Every time you see a couple on the road, you have to envy, envy and hate, and slowly ......Just get used to it. In fact, when I see the people around me falling into the little sweetness of love, I am still a little envious in my heart, but I really think about it, if I really choose to enter a state of love, then the original rhythm of life will be completely disrupted......With his own character, if he really meets the object he likes, it is estimated that he will be fluttering every day......It's a bit scary to think about this state of life, I can't study hard and go up every day! ‍‍

It's a great honor that I haven't been in love in four years of college. There are no regrets, it's much better than breaking up after graduation. The most important thing in college is to broaden your horizons, make good friends, and learn knowledge and skills.

Not many people in college fall in love to the end. So it's better not to talk about it. ‍‍

I don't think it's a pity.

Here's why:1Although campus love may be something that everyone yearns for, if you don't meet someone who makes your heart pound during your time on campus, it means that fate may not have arrived.

If you fall in love for the sake of a campus relationship, it will make each other's love cheaper, so there is no regret.

2.On campus, studying is still a more important thing, and if you always think about falling in love during school, you will always take care of one thing and lose the other, and it may be a good thing that you haven't talked about it.

Love is a beautiful and sacred thing, when you meet true love, you really cherish it, you don't have to meet, you haven't talked about it, there are no regrets, and there are better things to look forward to in the future.

It's no regret that although college students are adults, they should still put their studies first, and there is no need to focus on falling in love.

There are no regrets, it can save a lot of time.

College life is colorful, and it would be a pity not to talk about a vigorous love affair to nourish this green years. If you haven't been in love, is there something wrong with you? Next, let's take a look at how to correctly look at college and never been in love.

1. Maintain a good attitude

Whether you have a boyfriend or a girlfriend or not, you must have a good attitude. Life has to go on, although love is a very important part of our life, but it does not represent the whole of life, in addition to lover, we also have parents, brothers and sisters, and friends, when we do not find the other half, give them more energy and love. If you haven't waited for love, it means that your fate has not yet arrived, you have to believe that love is not as good as love, and he and she will always come to you.

Don't be impatient because someone else is in love, and don't want to be in love because everyone around you is in love. In fact, many people are like this, just because of the desire for love and want to fall in love, not necessarily really like that person and want to live with him and her for the rest of their lives. Love is always a matter of two people, if you want to fall in love, then you must learn to take the corresponding responsibility, and really take your other and her seriously.

Some people may say, just talk a few more times, maybe that's the case, but whether this seems rash or not, you do the experiment. The object is one person, not another, maybe someone who really likes you.

3. Many people are the same

It's actually normal that you haven't been in love in college, because in addition to you, there are many people who are the same, in addition to your class, your school, your city, there will be many "like-minded" comrades-in-arms around the world, you are not alone, they can all live well, why can't you.

4. Be well prepared

It is possible that you are not ready for the arrival of love, "opportunities are only reserved for those who are prepared", so, recharge yourself more, make yourself good enough, then you will also meet people as good as you, your life is wonderful, fate is coming, and when that day comes, you will not miss it again.

5. Enjoy the freedom of being single

As said in "The Siege", people on the outside want to go in, but people on the inside want to come out, just like when you are in high school, you want to go to college, you want to work early after college, and people who are in love will be nostalgic for the freedom of being single, so, while you are still single, walk around, enjoy the free time of being alone, maybe you will fall in love in the future, and you will never have a chance again, haha.

What are the precautions for college students to fall in love, I have listed them one by one above. So please fall in love, don't live up to this youth, and don't forget to plan to achieve your goals. Of course, if you haven't been in love, you're not panicked, it's not that you have any problems, it's just that the person you're expecting hasn't arrived yet.

2020 is coming to an end, and after a year of walking in society and returning to school, in these only precious months. I imagined walking around campus, eating cafeteria meals together, and still not finding the person who went to and from class together. There were only a few days left before the year was over, and I panicked because I didn't have any accomplishments.

I spent 4,000 yuan in the month I came to school. I don't know how to spend it, I feel very scared. When did I spend so much.

I met a person on the Internet, and without establishing a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, I paid for the next meal when I went out, and she didn't mean to reply. It's a big difference from the campus love I wanted. I feel that my life is terrible, I have been in school for a few months, I have a lot of things on my back, my graduation license and driver's license, I didn't expect it to be so bad, I seem to have forgotten my mission, I forgot what I should do.

I don't know how to do it, but I know that I can't do it now, I want to change, and I have 10 days to prepare for the exam on January 8th, so good luck to me! Everyone has their own tasks, and I have to say, it's a pity that I haven't been in a relationship on campus.

1.I can't take care of my college schedule.

As an engineering student, I have too much to say. I studied computer science, and when I first entered college, I had a lot of good fantasies about school, but what broke my good fantasies was a full class schedule. Most of the freshman years are public classes, which are difficult and full of homework, for example, the subject of high mathematics is not suitable for Xiao Mengxin, who has just entered college, every homework is torment, and it takes more than half a day to write an assignment.

In the sophomore and junior years, with the in-depth study of professional courses, various courses, experiments, after-class homework, experimental reports and final exams, as well as the course design of engineering students are simply a headache. The senior sister once tried the life of full classes all day from Monday to Sunday and classes at night, and these classes do not include those who fail the course, they are all regular classes. The senior sister also tried to stay up all night without sleep.

2.Falling in love delays studying.

It's false to say that falling in love doesn't delay studying!!

When I was in love, I always thought about being greasy and crooked, and time passed quietly. Usually, when there is a quarrel and a contradiction, or when the two sides are cold and violent and deadlocked, they only think about quarreling and don't want to study. I have a friend who just doesn't go to the exam after a fight with his girlfriend before the exam.

3.Addicted to games and watching**Can't extricate yourself.

How fun the game is, what kind of love to talk about. "That's what my roommate who has been single for 4 years said. I usually play games in class, and I meet to play games after class.

I will gossip when I see the dormitory next door taking off my singles, and I will gossip when I break up, but when it's my turn, I always just want to play alone.

4..Because of poverty.

Many college students' living expenses are basically only enough for their own expenses, and they are reluctant to ask their parents for too much. It costs a lot to fall in love, and you have to go out to eat, play, and buy gifts on holidays. Some time ago, "a boy eats instant noodles for a week at the end of the month just to save money and buy gifts for his girlfriend" became popular, whether it is a boy or a girl or a girl in love, they want to give the best to each other, and if the money is not enough, they will be deducted.

And some people are too poor to take that step because they have low self-esteem.

First, it may be out of my own thoughts, and I don't plan to fall in love in college.

Second, it may be that you focus on your academic coursework and want to improve yourself and enrich yourself during your college years.

Third, due to the current employment situation, the employment rate of cash college students is very low after graduation, so when they go to college, they may want to try to make themselves stronger to meet the diversified needs of the market.

Finally, it may also be that there is no time to talk about it, and college students may be busy with various volunteer activities, clubs, student organizations, schoolwork, etc. When they have to go out to dinner with the object after a day of brainstorming, chat or something, pay attention to the words of the chat, for fear of misunderstanding the other party, be careful, it is better not to talk about it more relaxed.

Hope mine is helpful to you.

Dear, glad you asked.

It is normal for many college students not to be in love, most college students are alone in college, and whether they fall in love in college depends on each person's own ideas.

There are many college students who have never been in a relationship at all, and it is normal. It shows that these college students are very rational and use the four years of college to study hard and lay a foundation for their future future.

There is a reason for the ratio of men to women, and it is also possible that I didn't meet the one I liked.

It is not said that college students must fall in love, so there is nothing strange about whether to fall in love or not, everyone has their own choices and opportunities, and it will not be the same.

Nowadays, many college students have never been in a relationship at all, mainly because they both like to play online games and are reluctant to fall in love.

The main reason is that these students focus on their studies and take their own ** house in the book as their ideal.

Because I didn't meet the right one for me.

No, after all, college is still a student, and it is necessary to focus on academics, no one stipulates that college students who have never been in love are failed college students, and it is not better to study hard for the other half of the future, but there will be some regrets, they all say that they will regret four years of college if they fall in love, and they will regret it for a lifetime if they don't fall in love.

Just because you didn't fall in love in college doesn't mean you're useless, why do you have to compare with each other? Go your own way and let others say go, not everyone in this world likes money. Isn't it meaningless for a person to live in the world if he doesn't succeed......Although there are not many girls who come out of the mud and are not stained, there are still some girls、I think you didn't fall in love in college because you came out of the mud and didn't stain it.。

No. The university is considered to be a stage that borders on society. There is no purity of love in high school, and there is no reality of social love.

Many people may fall in love because everyone else is in love. But I don't think it's necessary, blindly following the herd is not something to brag about. You may think this way because you imagine other couples' lives too much or feel lonely, or you don't have anything to do lately.

I haven't been in love since college, it's definitely not useless. Maybe it just means that you haven't met the right person yet. Although it is said that some of the things that must be done in college include falling in love, love still depends on fate, and if fate does not arrive, it is naturally impossible to fall in love.

Another point is that if you like a certain girl, you must be brave enough to fight for it. But you also need to be cautious about falling in love in college, after all, there will be many problems after graduation that will become a hindrance for you to continue, so there is a saying of "graduation season, breakup season". Personally understood.