Why do you think junior high school students are so stressed these days?

Words from our intern teacher: If you can't get into a good university, you can compensate for it with the graduate school entrance examination in the future, but you only have one chance to be admitted to a good high school.

Because adults are stressed, it is projected onto children.

Because the enrollment rate of high school is too low, only one of the two can go to general high school, so the pressure is naturally great!

Because now the pressure of competition is getting bigger and bigger, and it is getting more and more difficult to rise at the beginning.

All kinds of interest classes Parents always feel that it is like a big loss to report one less class to their children, and other people's children should also follow the registration, otherwise they will lose at the starting line!

Nowadays, children have heavy courses, and some need to go to cram schools, which will increase the burden on children.

Because if you want to go to a good university, you must go to a good high school, and if you want to go to a good high school, you must have a good grade in junior high school. Now not only is there a lot of pressure on our work, but also the pressure on students to study, and we have to receive a lot of knowledge every day, and we also need to digest this knowledge in our own minds, otherwise it is easy to fail to keep up with the course.

Junior high school is to lay the foundation for high school, and only when you do a good job in junior high school can you enter a good high school and enter a better university in the future.

The amount of homework assigned by the teacher is too large for the students to complete on time; There is a lot of pressure to go on to higher education, in order to be able to get into the ideal and better high school; Parents' expectations are high, and every parent wants their child to have good grades; Don't dare to disappoint parents and teachers, who have high expectations of students. These are all causes of high academic stress among students.

Parents have placed more hopes on them, peers have unintentionally compared with each other, and now children generally mature earlier, so their pressure is relatively greater.

Because the competition is so fierce now, not only the competition between children, but also the parents are competing whose children are better. So it invisibly puts more pressure on the child.

Parents and homeroom teachers maintain good communication so that the teacher is clear about the child's personality characteristics. Whether I am attending a parent-teacher conference or a WeChat friend, I will pay attention to my child's performance in the class in a timely manner, so that I have an intuitive understanding of my child's performance in school. Through communication with the class teacher, inform the teacher of the family education and training work that you have entered at home, and ask the teacher to do a good job of cooperating.

Because of my honest attitude and the starting point of sharing the pressure of the teacher, the teacher is also very supportive and cooperative in my childcare work. In this way, children are encouraged to consciously abide by discipline in school, listen carefully in class, and maintain good relations with classmates after class, and there is almost no pressure at all. Sometimes, when grades drop, I will submit an analysis report to the class teacher so that the teacher can understand the specific reasons and encourage the child appropriately.

Junior high school studies to the third year of junior high school reached a peak, all disciplines are opened, many subjects need to be examined, some children in the first and second years of junior high school on the "blind", and then increase their studies, various exams one after another, all kinds of test papers emerge in endlessly. Some children really can't bear it. High school is also older and adaptable, so it is not as stressful as junior high school.

Getting from elementary school to junior high school is a big leap. Primary school is relatively less subject to learning, and the difficulty of learning is also low, so primary school students should take advantage of this stage to cultivate their study habits and subject thinking. In fact, most parents ignore the cultivation of children's learning habits and subject thinking, which makes it difficult for children to learn after entering middle school.

After entering middle school, the subjects and difficulty of learning will be greatly improved, so many children will feel a huge pressure to study. The increase in subjects is also very likely to lead to the occurrence of the phenomenon of partial subjects. From the primary school stage, the learning pressure is not great, and the learning is relatively simple, and when you enter the middle school stage, the learning pressure increases significantly, and the difficulty of learning increases significantly, so most children need a long time to adapt and adjust, so the junior high school stage should be the most difficult stage for every child.

Psychologically in a rebellious period! Many homeroom teachers say that junior high school children are the most difficult to manage. Elementary school is cute, high school is much more stable, it's junior high school, I feel like I've grown up, but in fact, my body and mind are still immature, and I often don't like anyone.

Coupled with academic pressure, it often erupts, sometimes with classmates, sometimes with parents and teachers.

Arrange your study and life scientifically. The more organized a child is, the more regular and unhurried his study and life will be. Including children's learning and life, there is a lack of scientific planning, so their learning and life seem busy and intense.

Learning and life are one, if you can't effectively coordinate learning and life, then children's learning and life will be a mess.

Parents have the wrong direction of training, which leads to children's learning difficulties. It can be said that the fundamental reason why the vast majority of children have learning difficulties and high learning pressure in middle school is that parents do not pay attention to the cultivation of children's learning ability in primary school. Primary school learning, relatively easy, learning difficulty is also low, is the best stage to cultivate children's learning ability, but the vast majority of parents patronize the child's present, and ignore the child's long-term training, for the child's fundamental education does not pay attention to.

With the increase in learning difficulty, the requirements for children's learning ability will be higher, and these children who have not undergone good learning ability training in primary school will inevitably have difficulties in learning after entering middle school.

Since the child enters junior high school, time management has always been the first priority. We all know that junior high school students are in adolescence, and the natural influence of physical development can lead to laziness and decreased self-control, so I made an agreement with my child that we would work together to manage time. In order to avoid the child's disgust due to urging and nagging, I synchronized the rhythm of life with him and used my rhythm to drive him.

When it comes to time management, I started formal training for my son when he was in the first grade, so I still haven't relaxed since I entered junior high school. The three time nodes of waking up in the morning, taking a nap, and going to bed late have not been moved. Especially at night, the time to go to bed must be 10 o'clock, 20:30 o'clock, and 11 o'clock on the third day of the new year.

Due to the optimized time management, the child is quite efficient in doing things and learning.

Do not judge children by their grades, and reduce pressure from parents. My son has been in primary school to junior high school for three years, and has not signed up for any extracurricular tutoring classes, I have been cultivating his learning thinking and mastering the learning methods of various disciplines, especially focusing on cultivating the coordination and concentration of vision + hearing + thinking, with these solid basic skills, the child's learning efficiency is very good, when he is in the same class, he does not spend much time on learning, and there is a certain amount of rest and entertainment time outside of class every day. I always emphasize that you have good study habits and living habits, which is the foundation for you to maintain good grades, and we put our efforts in the process of self-management, and the results will not disappoint you.

Therefore, children always maintain a certain degree of satisfaction with their results, sometimes the test is not ideal, will do a post-test analysis, and do not forget to summarize when the test is satisfied.

Why is it that most children are so stressed when they are in junior high school? Because now there are many parents who are very strict with the management of their children, and they will also find that some children who are in primary school have a lot of cram schools, which is something we couldn't think of before. In the face of these pressures, children can only be difficult to go up, and you will find that our country attaches great importance to education, so many parents will be more strict with their children's learning.

First of all, junior high school is going to take the high school entrance examination, and the high school entrance examination is also a small turning point in life. If the children's high school entrance examination results can be better, then they can go to a good high school, and the child can pass the education of a good high school teacher, and then go to a good university. This is one thing that many parents want to see, so many parents will be more strict with their children.

We need to pay attention to the fact that when the child is in high school, the mental pressure is very high, in order to avoid the phenomenon of the child having a breakdown. When children are in elementary school and junior high school, we should be too strict with our children. Although the high school entrance examination in junior high school is indeed very important, we can't go too far with the child, otherwise, the child will feel very uncomfortable.

Although there will inevitably be some setbacks in life, this setback should not crush the child, there are many children, because parents give too much pressure, causing the child to become mentally broken, and I think this is a thing that many parents do not want to see.

We must achieve happy education, combine work and rest, and let children know that learning is a very happy thing, rather than taking learning as a burden. I hope that all parents can treat their children's academic performance in the right way, and do not always take their children's academic performance too seriously.

Because the pressure of many junior high school students is implemented by parents, in fact, it is also because parents never consider the growth of their children when educating their children.

Because many children will encounter a lot of problems in junior high school, and the final grades are not particularly high, but parents will put a lot of pressure on the child when the child is hail in junior high school, and it will also make the child have a particularly anxious mood.

Because when I was in junior high school, I was facing the high school entrance examination, and the children felt that the high school entrance examination was also very important, and if the high school entrance examination was not good, they would not be able to go to a good high school, so the pressure was greater. Be careful.

No way, the stress is all self-generated.

Let's just take it myself, I have sweaty palms when I take English class now, and I feel like I'm prostration, you know?!

Why is it because the teacher reads the grades again and again.

This is praise for those good students and encouragement.

But what about people like me is the pressure of the mountains!

No matter how you study, you can't learn it well, and the workbook is done, and everything you memorize is done, so why is it still not good.

What does it mean that the teacher goes from criticizing to not saying every day? Abandon.

Parents sigh when they get the grades, what does it mean? Disappointed.

The pressure is all given to you by yourself, and it is also given by external pressure.

This is Chinese education.

Nowadays, the pressure of learning is very high, the pressure of employment is high, the competition is high, and the pressure of comparison between people is increasing.