The effects of poverty on people have been objectively proven

Poverty makes people cautious, they don't dare to fall in love, they don't dare to do what they want to do, they have to suppress their desires all the time, before falling in love, poverty doesn't have much impact on my happiness, but when I like someone, poverty makes me feel very inferior.

Because I don't have money, I can't buy anything I like, I obviously like those things, and I have to take a picture of my mobile phone to find it in **.

I don't have too expensive hobbies, my hobbies are listening to music and reading books, because only these two things are free.

I like to travel very much, and I may be very skilled at carrying that piece of things, and it took a long time to do a strategy, but in the end I still can't go.

Poverty will destroy your dreams, you don't have the courage to try, because you have no way to lose anything, once you fail, you can never get up again, because of poverty, life is limited everywhere, and you have to bow to life. Maybe you have a lot of dreams, but life will tear your dreams into powder.

It affects you not only physically, but also mentally, changing your personality and making you have psychological problems. Poor people have always had a feeling of inferiority, and many people have suffered from it all their lives, that is, your conditions have improved, and this feeling will never get rid of.

Sachs once said that most of the world's poverty is a pathology, the result of a bad life, a bad environment, and a bad mind. Being poor is a disease of course.

Poverty can cause a person to lose themselves, to be unable to help themselves, and even to embark on the path of sin. The poor are afraid of failure, they dare not try, and they cannot afford to try. Their inner thinking is, I can't afford it, I can't do it.

In fact, poverty itself is not terrible, what is terrible is the idea that you think you are destined to be poor or must die of poverty.

We must break our own cognitive limitations, try those impossible things, and decide our own lives, then no one can save you, there is a saying that is very right, what do you think you are, what you should do, slowly, you become a person.

When we are faced with an unsolvable problem, we feel powerless and feel powerless from the bottom of our hearts. ......For children from poor families, because of the limited economic conditions of their families, there will be more things that make them feel powerless in study, work and life. ......Specifically, the things that make children from poor families feel powerless include their poor living conditions, feelings of powerlessness due to lack of resources to further their careers, and feelings of powerlessness due to the inability to join the social circle of successful people.

1. Children from poor families will feel powerless about their poor living conditions.

What can make the children of poor families feel powerless, Lazao first feels powerless about their poor living conditions. ......Because the family is poor, the living conditions will be poorer. And this aspect of the factor is now unable to solve the problem, so the children of poor families will have a sense of powerlessness at this time.

This question may have an impact on the child's psychological state and even create an inferiority complex in his mind. This is extremely detrimental to the development of children.

2. Because of the lack of resources and the inability to further develop their careers, poor families will feel powerless because of this.

We often say that hard work is the only way to succeed in your career. But in reality, only when you have more resources in your hands, can your career be better developed. ......For children from poor families, the resources they have are really limited, and they do not play much of a role in supporting their careers, which will lead to children from poor families giving more in the workplace, but getting less rewards.

This situation creates a deep sense of powerlessness in the child's mind.

3. Because of his own limited conditions, the child of a poor family cannot join the social circle of successful people, and he will feel powerless because of this.

If there's one thing that makes children from poor families feel powerless the most, it's ...... that they can't join the social circle of successful peopleSuccessful people are people from wealthy families, and their social circle is not something that just anyone can join. ......For children from poor families, if they want to develop themselves, they must integrate into the social circle of successful people, but their own conditions are limited and they can't integrate at all. ......Therefore, if children from poor families want to succeed, they must endure more hardships and need stronger perseverance to work hard, so as to finally succeed and make themselves proud.

Fourth, conditional thinking. If the conditions are not ripe, do not do it. As everyone knows, creating conditions is part of starting a business. Fifth, don't think. I can't see my own strengths, and I find that none of them are better than others. As everyone knows, if a person has a special shortage, he must have a special strength.

What are the causes of poverty? Although there are many reasons, they are nothing more than these two.

The biggest cause of poverty is probably not spending money. If you don't spend money, of course, you can't change your way of thinking, you can't change your way of thinking, so there is only Meng Kun, the last sentence is poor.

What do you think makes money now? You will definitely not be able to make money on your own, and you will definitely have to rely on others. As long as there is someone else, then you have to spend money.

For social reasons, as well as their own reasons, ordinary people are half-dead like this.

1. Know your strengths. Advantages will make a person feel confident, make a person straighten their back, and impress others; And poverty will make a person pay special attention to the opinions of others, and the affirmation of others will be his self-confidence**.

2. Learn to face the facts. Psychology says that if you want to live with a negative emotion, the best thing to do is to face it, face the reality that you are in, face the fact that you can't change it, and then move forward, without having to let the past be shackled.

3. Accept the facts. Learn to face, then accept, accept poverty, accept the situation that poverty brings to you, accept your situation to change your state of mind, accept your eagerness to change your heart of poverty, and accept that you can truly change after acceptance.

4. Although money is important, it must be taken in a proper way. It is often said that breaking the law because of lack of money outweighs the loss, and the poor cannot be moved.

5. Knowledge changes fate. Now there are too many impetuousness in society, but fate does not allow us to follow the trend of impetuousness, we must calm down and obtain the giant wheel of change in the ocean of knowledge.

6. Enrich the spiritual world. We can't choose material scarcity, but we can choose to enrich our inner world and enhance our spiritual strength, after all, there are still countless battles of life that need us to blow the horn of victory.

Poverty is the original sin but it is also life, and it is completely unnecessary to compare with each other, in the survival of poverty.

The poorer you are, the more you have to learn, don't think that the money you exchange for time can make your life secure, only the acquisition of knowledge and connections can calm your heart and stop worrying about life. The purpose of learning is to make money, not for hobbies and hobbies.

The poorer they are, the more they are afraid, afraid of taking the risk of failure, so they dare not take responsibility, let alone take the first step. To overcome this, in addition to counteracting the fear of failure with more success, it is more about being able to face one's own failure and have the courage to put forward one's own requirements.

People are not machines, let alone survive to get rid of poverty, there are many things and things that can be cherished in people's lives, and the beauty is there waiting for you to discover. When you focus entirely on poverty, you will only be left with poverty in your life.

Communicate with others more, don't think crankily alone, take your own evaluation as the only truth, and influence yourself to compromise with fate and not be able to change. Look at the people around you, life is never easy, poverty is just a small point, it does not need to be magnified.

Look at the older people around you who don't mix well, don't look down on them because they don't have achievements, there is not much gap between people, and it is impossible to fail in life because there is no idea of getting rich in your mind. Failure is the mother of success, and others will not tell you the experience of success, but the experience of failure can prevent you from taking detours.

The poorer you are, the more you have to go out and see the world, there are many things that cannot be measured by money. When you become a slave to money, you can't see the colors of this world. Everything is gray and black in your eyes, lifeless.

Poor people because of labor intensity and time muscle soreness, poor people in middle age joint is easy to get disease, joint pain, overwork also hurt internal organs, poverty may make people often in anxiety and get anxiety disorders, poverty may make people in jealousy and unfairness, poverty will make future generations have no money to go to college, poor will have no money to see major diseases, and the most critical impact is the psychological level, in ancient times, small landlords could not enjoy the treatment, modern people can enjoy, and compared with the rich gap is still very large.

I believe that everyone does not want to be born poor, but if poverty does exist, it will also have some impact on our lives.

1. Low self-esteem.

Because my family was not rich when I was a child, and even considered poor among all my relatives, my personality became particularly inferior. I don't want to take the initiative to talk to others, as long as someone is good to me, I feel that others must be doing it for a reason, and I feel that I am not worthy of others' good. Don't say it's confident, even when talking to others, you don't dare to look up at others.

Although I know it's not good to do this, my innate inferiority complex has been with me for so many years, and it is no longer something that I can change if I want to.

2. Don't dare to make friends.

When I went to college accommodation, I had a very ordinary relationship with all my roommates, and I didn't have any girlfriends. When I see my roommates going out together and going shopping in the mall together, I am also very envious. I also wish I could wear nice new clothes, but because of my limited monthly living expenses, I can't go out with my roommates without buying anything, but I can't skip meals.

So on Sundays, when my roommates go shopping together, I can only choose to work and study。But I didn't want others to know about my part-time job, so I kept it hiddenWhen people ask me, I always make excuses to prevaricate. My classmates also thought that I had a bad personality and rarely talked to me, and no one contacted me after graduation.

I believe that no one wants to be born poor, but even if I am poor, I hope that I can change the status quo of my life through my own efforts, and I hope that I can live a better life in the future because of my efforts.

In fact, when everyone is mentally immature, poverty will make many people complain about the unfairness of fate. But what can just complaining about? You were born in a small mountain village, it is incomparable with those children born in a bustling city, and even sometimes you will feel very sad, because the starting point of others may be the end point that you can not reach in your ultimate life, at this time it is particularly important to be able to adjust your mentality, sometimes you really need more people who face life and destiny, and I think these things are exactly what a person can sublimate after experiencing poverty.

The most domineering sentence I have ever heard is that the prince will have a kind of Xiangning, the ancients said it is really good, you can be poor, but you must have a rich heart, the courage to change your destiny, maybe the road ahead is full of thorns, don't be afraid, even if you fall, pat the dust on your body and continue to work hard, if one day we can't change the world, then change yourself, let yourself be your own master, let your existence be able to achieve some value, whether this value is useful to us, It's still a little bit of help to this society.

Perhaps the biggest impact of poverty on me is that I am limited in my cognition and unable to seize opportunities.

Many people have heard of the Matthew effect, which refers to an economic phenomenon in which the rich get richer and the poor get poorer. This cycle is hard to break.

But in fact, the cognitive Matthew effect is far more terrible than the economic oneThe wealthy have a more complete and systematic learning environment, and most of them are also masters of time management and energy management; The poor, on the other hand, may waste their time on inconsequential things, whether intentionally or unintentionally, and thus lose much opportunity to change.

The unsatisfactory encounters in life are all due to lack of money; When life encounters a bottleneck, the first thing to think about is not to learn relevant skills to break the bottleneck, but to think that it is caused by lack of money. Slowly, this fear of not having money will monopolize limited energy, causing psychological anxiety, further causing a decline in personal judgment and making it more difficult to get out of the predicament.

In fact, most of us ordinary people are poor in soul (including myself), always thinking about the so-called overnight riches, thinking that they can get a lot of money to satisfy their desires at once, if ordinary people get a fortune, most people will definitely think about buying themselves luxury cars and houses first, because this is what our lower class lacks.

What else can spiritual poverty cause - low self-esteem?

In fact, people often think that low self-esteem is physical inferiority, but it is not. Low self-esteem is all about the soul thinking that you are inferior to others, and you feel inferior everywhere. Don't dare to open your heart, because you are afraid of being hurt, so you close yourself, for a long time, and it may cause some mental illness.

There is also a kind of poverty that is knowledge and cognition, this kind of poverty cannot be disguised, even if it can be for a long time, the cognition of this society, the cognition of knowledge, the cognition of people or things, these are all very important things.

So this is why people read more and communicate more with other people, because this world (except for solid) needs to flow, and if you communicate with more people, you can make more contacts or get some information, these are all increasing your knowledge and experience.

So what causes us to be poor, everyone should say that there is no money, right?

Jack Ma once said: Money is the easiest thing in the world to get! Actually, what he said was not wrong; It is true that money is the easiest thing to get, but there is one factor in it, and that is the question of how much.

For the time being, the wealth of a person who owns a dollar and the wealth of a person who owns 100 million cannot be equated. Because this includes the cognition of money and the concept of making money, which are all different.

So the last thing I want to say to you is, take your time! If you want to make more money on your own, you must first make yourself worthy.