How to grow as a man, how to make a boy grow?

I guess your so-called friends are pretending, and what a real man needs is connotation...

It still takes years to hone it, and I think at this age, I still have too little understanding of the word man. You might also like to take a look at a poem written by Nobel laureate Rudyard Kipling to his 12-year-old son:

If you can be calm and calm instead of following the crowd when there is no master of the six gods;

If you are suspicious and suspicious, you can be confident and not debate in vain;

If you can not forget the form in success, and have the courage to chew the bitter fruit after the disaster;

If you see that the beauty you are pursuing is shattered into a pile of rubble, you will not say give up;

If you have worked hard and achieved fame, you will still take risks for a new goal, even if your fame is in vain;

If you talk to the villagers without being humble, and walk with the prince without showing flattery;

If the love of others can't sway you;

If you're in the company of anyone, you'll be able to stand out;

If the harassment of the stupor doesn't shake your will, you can wait for yourself to be at peace.

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Then, your cultivation will be as broad as heaven and earth, and you will be a real man, my son!

With the passage of time, you will grow into a man, you must have a sense of responsibility, you must be able to take things and put them down, don't drag your feet and be indecisive, it is important to talk together with friends, but you must also have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong. To be a man, you must dare to do it. We must know how to be filial to our parents, do more things for them, share housework and other things that can be shared, use the winter and summer vacations to work, earn some pocket money by ourselves, and no longer reach out to our parents to ask for money to spend, which is also the beginning of growth!

Of course, there are many more, and you have to go by yourself, no one can grow up overnight. Hope you can walk out of your own wonderful path in life! Be a real man!

Heh, I want to be a mature man?..The main sign of a simple, mature man is rationality and responsibility.

If you're going to be a dad. Then your mind will not be so presumptuous, you will know how to restrain yourself and free yourself, you will know the priority of the family, you will have measure, you will know the advance and retreat, you will have the goal.

If you want to mature, you must first know what you need, what you want to do?..Do you want to be a dad?..

Take care of the elderly, the weak, the sick and the disabled.

Helpful. Help people like me who are lacking molecules. Alive.

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Society and time will hone you into a real man!

Don't pretend to do anything, do it solidly.

You can't be immature if you want to be in the future. Only 18. What are you anxious about?

Putting aside most of the extreme antagonism on the Internet, this issue can be analyzed from two aspects.

The first aspect: love is a two-way street, not a person's protagonist.

If you are similar in age and youth, then your love is a process of growing up with each other, in the time of each other, it is not about who grows up with whom, it is more an independent individual who met somewhere in the corner coffee shop one day, you fell in love at first sight, you began to drink coffee, looked at the scenery outside the window, talked about the joy of life, you agreed to drink coffee together next time, until two independent souls intersected, and you began to go in and out of this coffee house together. Started your own journey of love.

If you define your relationship by "growing up with a boy", then you will not have the first sight love that you met in a coffee house before, because you feel that the other person is immature and not a person to rely on, if so, how can you still meet him next time to have coffee together until you enter a relationship?

In love, you are going both ways, don't continue the relationship with the idea of growing up with him, if you are not careful, you will put yourself in the position of the savior, always like to start preconceived ideas about what to do, you will unconsciously want to take care of him, you feel that he needs you for everything, and is no longer willing to consider the other party's feelings, whether the other party is willing to grow.

In this state, you will be very tired, and the other party will also consider accompanying you to go on, you know, it is difficult to play the protagonist who is the only one in love.

The second aspect: love is a companionship, not a transformation.

Many people say that the best love is companionship, which is true, but in the process of getting along with love, the original intention of companionship has been transformed and replaced, and the reason why I say this is because in love, you want the other party to grow up, and you will naturally have all kinds of expectations for each other, and you will want the other party to do things according to your expectations.

For example, his career development is not very good, and you want him to become a successful person, you will keep urging him to work, and constantly remind him over and over again what the consequences of working hard will be, if the other party wants to get your approval in the short term, he will naturally work hard, but what?

After a long time, you will get tired of it.

For example, you want him to play fewer games for you and cook for you what you like to eat, but he only does it briefly and does not insist, because he feels that you are transforming him, but you still feel that you are accompanying him to make him better, when you are in the mood to transform a person and be with the other party, you have to bear the fact that he may never satisfy you, and the other party has to constantly struggle with yourself painfully, between being yourself or unwilling to meet your needs.

So is it this person you love, or is it the person you want him to change?

Whether an individual will grow or not depends only on whether he wants to grow, and your companionship has nothing to do with time, so how can you really "accompany" a person to grow?

In a word, it is to grow together.

Here's an answer to that question for you. First of all, it's not difficult to wait for a boy to grow up. The difficult thing is that you should not meet at the age when we should not meet each other, and at our best age you have the choice to leave.

First of all, why did Qingqi say not to grow up with a boy. Because men's minds mature later than women, this is why people say that girls looking for a husband should find someone older than her. Actually, it's not that exaggerated.

Secondly, growing up from a boy to a man is a difficult journey, how much does a woman have to pay, a man is a child who does not grow up, when he grows up one day, it is a journey to meet a towering tree, you have to look up, and his vision is broadened to see the endless forest in front of him is not easy to control.

When the girl waits until he grows up, when he matures. However, she also grew up. It was a big gamble for her to spend five years growing up with a boy.

Play a youth and time, the courage to love regardless of everything. When a five-year-long expectation is disappointed, how cruel it is for a girl.

I hope I can help friends in need.

Learn to encourage and guide. Let him be influenced by your words and deeds, and gradually move towards a mature and steady bridge. But the process must be slow, with a great deal of patience.

Give him some encouragement for his mature performance. Everyone has to move from naivety to maturity, and this process must be driven by others or the environment. As a girlfriend, you should give unsparing praise when your boyfriend is amazing, so that the other party can feel the pleasure of being affirmed and build more self-confidence.

It is said that good men are praised, especially when they are not very mature, and they are not clear about what they really want to do, and they cannot recognize their personal abilities and values. Being able to get praise from those closest to you can increase their motivation to live or study, and they can be more proactive in every step of life. We may not be able to really help them do specific things, but we can help them and show our support in the right place.

Use yourself to guide the other person to become mature. If you want your boyfriend to become mature and stable, you have to start from yourself and change each other under the influence of your ears and eyes. For example, make some long-term future plans, and often discuss the outlook with the other party, and give feedback on progress while practicing, so that he can see a certain possibility from Brother Queling himself, and then arouse the interest of the other party, and change his rather simple ideas.

And many boys are not unwilling to be aggressive, but they just haven't realized the importance of something. Therefore, when you see your boyfriend immature, you must find a way to tell him, and often convey your thoughts and emotions to increase the other person's understanding of you. Knowing your needs, he has the direction to make efforts.

In addition, it is very difficult to change a person, and if you don't have a good sense of proportion, it is very likely to backfire and cause the other party to resent it. Don't rush it, but adopt a more gentle attitude and choose a way that is more acceptable to the other person.

Introduction: What are the manifestations of mature men? Nowadays, many women want to marry a mature man, but it is difficult to find a mature man with a lantern, what kind of details will a mature man perform, how to become a mature man? Here's what you're up to!

Mature man performance one: calm1) Don't show your emotions casually.

2) Don't tell people about your difficulties and experiences.

3) Think for yourself before asking for someone else's opinion, but don't talk about it first.

4) Don't nag your grievances at every opportunity.

5) Try to discuss important decisions with others, and it is best to release them every other day.

6) Don't be flustered when you speak, even when you walk.

7) Confidence is good, but don't ignore anyone's ideas.

8) There is no height in people, don't look like a drag, don't be polite to people and things. You are no better than anyone else.

Mature man performance two: careful1) Always think about the cause and effect of what is happening around you.

2) For the problems that cannot be done properly, we must explore the root crux of them.

3) Suggestions for improvement or optimization of the accustomed way of doing things.

4) Develop the habit of being methodical and orderly in everything you do.

5) Always go to a few faults or drawbacks that others can't see.

Mature man performance three: courage1) Don't use words and phrases that lack self-confidence.

2) Don't always go back on what you have already decided'Affair.

3) Don't be unassertive when people are arguing.

4) When the overall atmosphere is low, you should be optimistic and sunny.

5) Be mindful in everything you do because someone is watching you.

6) When things don't go well, take a breath and find a breakthrough again, and end cleanly.

Mature man performance four: generosity1) Don't deliberately turn people who may be partners into opponents.

2) Don't take other people's small mistakes and mistakes seriously.

3) Be generous in money and learn the three charities (wealth, law, and fearlessness) 4) Don't have the arrogance of power and the prejudice of knowledge.

5) Any achievements and achievements should be shared with others.

Mature man performance five: integrity1) Don't say what you can't do, try to do what you say.

2) Don't talk about false slogans or slogans.

3) Stop all "immoral" means.

4) Be clever, or not!

Mature man performance six: responsibility1) When reviewing any mistakes, start with yourself or your own people.

2) At the end of the matter, the fault is examined first, and then the credit is listed.

3) A plan should be coordinated and planned for the future.

4) Have the courage to take responsibility for the losses caused.

Mature man performance seven: connotation1) Learn all aspects of knowledge and observe the things around you with an open mind. Broad horizons.

2) Understand yourself and cultivate your own aesthetics.

3) Laugh at life. Laziness is a must. Develop healthy lifestyle habits.

4) Don't do anything blindly. Have a goal.

5) It's not just about inner beauty, it's also important to be on the outside.

6) Don't spend all day in front of the computer and playing boring things.

7) Rational judgment and learning to control emotions.

Boy, no matter what the period, in front of his lover is to show his retarded side, because he likes you, so he will not cover his wounds and bad habits too much, this is his willingness to face you calmly, what you think is ignorant will only be seen between you, boys must be rational, his sensibility will not be easily shown in front of strangers (even friends), this may be the immature side he wants you to see, boys need girls to be influenced for a long time.

1.He will use"Medicines for curing diseases"The same language to persuade your bad habits, I hope you can also point out his bad habits and shortcomings like him, heal each other, and bear all the problems he faces.

2.Every good person is cultivated by another good person. You need to become excellent first, not for you to change for him, but for the inevitable development of your future development.

Only if you are excellent, he will slowly imitate excellent behavior in the future life. Every successful person is followed by a partner who leads to success.