How to be a good person with power, how to be a good person with strength?

We are taught to be a good person from a young age, and we are constantly working hard. Sometimes not doing what people should do can lead to self-blame. And when we have been good people, in addition to a moment of joyful answers, we often fall into deep pressure.

Because good people are not so easy to do.

It is not easy to simply be a good person because the world is too demanding of good people. You need to have the ability to do good deeds, but you also need to take the risk of doing bad things with good intentions, and you have to bear the cost of being a good person, and at the same time, you have already done a good job of being a good person, and when others ask you to continue to be a good person, you can't refuse, which belongs to the potential cost of maintaining the label of a good person.

If you are treated as a good person, you have to be perfect, and people will put all the moral shackles on you. If one day you fail to achieve perfection in the slightest, your original efforts may be wasted, and you will be blamed and complained, and you will also feel that you have not done a good job, but you feel that you are very wronged.

If you want to be a good person, you must have enough intelligence and ability to match it.

In particular, the ability to discern whether the thing should be helped, whether it can be successful, and how far it should be helped.

Bootstrap the ability to change insurance, this matter has helped not to let others rely on you and moral kidnapping in the future, it is not your responsibility to do it, you have done what you should do, he still has to be very grateful to you, promote Mien, fight Mi hatred, and do not deceive me.

Self-consistency, you have helped, don't expect others to reciprocate, others appreciate you, you also have to know that you have done what you want to do, just get what you deserve; If you don't help, don't be discouraged and blame yourself, do your best to obey the destiny of heaven, plan things in people, and make things happen in heaven, no one owes anyone, and no one kidnaps anyone.

In fact, when you have given a person help far beyond the limits of the predicament, he will become numb to the predicament, and even give up the willingness to break through the predicament, become dependent on you, and turn gratitude into a matter of course.

When you stop giving alms, he will turn against you. Therefore, the highest level of helping a person is to help him become self-reliant and then leave.

Behave and do things according to the goodwill in your heart, and you are a strong and good person!

1. I think it's really not difficult to be a good person in today's society, and there are many good people. The problem is that there are conflicts of interest between different groups of people in society, which creates contradictions. Some interest groups are powerful and occupy an advantageous position in social competition, so other interest groups that conflict with them will feel oppressed.

Some people can't stand this kind of oppression and try their best to join the dominant group, so they become the "enemy" of the group they belonged to before, and become the "bad guys". Some people suffer from this oppression and feel that they are the pitiful party and the "good people".

2. As the saying goes, "Good people have good rewards, bad people have bad rewards, it's not that they don't report it, the time has not come".

However, many wicked people are still living in style, but there are many good people, but good people have been punished.

I myself am very entangled in whether people are inherently evil or inherently good.

My parents taught me from a young age to be kind to others, and to suffer from others. However, my good ones will always be bullied and deceived. Being bullied by a good friend and cheated on by a man you like.

I want to be a bad guy. However, the mind that has been taught since childhood has been imprisoned into a specific pattern and way of thinking, and it eats soft rather than hard.

It's really tiring to be a good person and be a good person who can think about others.

3. In recent years, things like porcelain touching and moral kidnapping have emerged in an endless stream. In fact, it reflects a common problem, a large part of the elderly group has become impetuous after a long time in society because of the lack of education they received in the past, and they have begun to use their status as elderly people to seek improper benefits for themselves. It's just a generational phenomenon.

With the popularization of nine-year compulsory education and the increasingly prosperous scientific, educational, and cultural undertakings after the reform, there will be more and more high-quality people in the future, and these pathological phenomena will become less and less.

One day, after eating from a restaurant with my friends, I saw a stroller falling to the ground at the door, and my friend and I turned a blind eye and didn't dare to help it! In case the owner of the car sees it and says that we knocked it down, we are afraid that we will not have the money to pay.

4. I have a scooter, and I usually drive it less, and my friends often use it to drive, and I don't care. But one incident made me realize that I can't borrow a car at will. I remember that at noon that day, she called me and said in frustration that there was a car accident, and she was fully responsible for crippling an old lady, and I was stunned.

My colleague's family was not in a good financial situation, so I ended up adding a lot of money to buy another car. Helping others is fun to polish your eyes, sometimes it's asking for trouble, I saw a ** female college student Xiao Yuan riding a bicycle and encountering an old man falling to the ground, Xiao Yuan immediately helped the old man up, and the old man then pointed out that Xiao Yuan hit himself. In the end, it was brought to court.

5. In fact, everyone is making decisions, and there is a very important dimension behind decision-making, which is the ethical dimension, that is, ethical decision-making. The reason why ethical decision-making is difficult is because there is an ethical dilemma behind ethical decision-making, which is a dilemma. What's more, no ethical approach is absolute, and no decision is unique.

I think I'll do as much as I can! Do things down-to-earth, treat your relatives and friends with sincerity, and strive to perform your best!

To be a good person, first, it is better to suffer losses than to take advantage of small advantages; It is better to pay than to live up to the hearts of the people; will not destroy their conscience for the sake of money; I will not deceive the trust of others for the sake of profit.

2. Dealing with people: No matter whether you are stupid or sweet, being kind-hearted is the capital! Man lives a lifetime:

Whether you can speak or be capable, the key is to be above board! No pretense, no perfunctory, no deception, is the truth of a person! Understanding tolerance, respect, and understanding is a person's goodness!

3. If a person loses anything, he cannot lose his sincerity; If a person has nothing, he cannot have a conscience. Be a man who stands up to the sky and is worthy of himself; Do things openly and fairly, and have no regrets. No matter what year or month, self-respect can win respect!

Fourth, be sincere, sincerity can move people's hearts! You can be rich, but you can't be invisible. People can be stupid, but they can't be cowardly; People can be a little more refined, but not insidious, and people can be lazy, but they can't be unresponsible.

Fifth, no matter love or friendship: the most afraid to pay with sincerity, but get ruthless, you are honest, everyone wants to get you close; You are sincere, and everyone is willing to have a heart with you. As a man, if you are affectionate and righteous, you can win the world and win people's hearts.

Whether it is you, or me, being a good person is not an empty word, only by doing things in a down-to-earth manner and being a fair and honest person, can you not waste your life in vain, and you will not regret it for a lifetime! I have worked hard and have no regrets, and as for the rest, I will not force it.