No matter how you choose a marriage, it is wrong, and a long term marriage is wrong. 5

Don't be cannon fodder for rumors, how do you know the sweetness and happiness if you don't have it?

What kind of mentality you have towards life, what kind of status will life show you. Life is a mirror, and when you laugh, it laughs.

With true love, two people will be willing to give up one person's life and be willing to make a bet with another person to share a fate.

From now on, I don't regret it, I don't look back, I look forward, live well, and treat each other well. Be grateful if you are happy, let go if you are unhappy, everything is not as terrible as you think.

In short, when we make any decision, we must want to make life happier, and it is right to get married or divorced with this pursuit. (And don't get married for any other reason, such as being old, the worldly view of him well, he is rich, she is beautiful, etc.).

If this person makes you lose confidence and feel bad at the beginning, then don't make mistakes for mistakes, and it is difficult for a wrong start to end well. If being with that person makes you feel grounded and warm, and you want to be together for the rest of your life (at least when you are in a relationship), then be brave enough to choose marriage.

Since there is no emotional foundation, don't spend it together.

Marriage is to be managed with heart, just like your own business, if you don't have a good way to run it, then a big business will go out of business.

It's best to find someone who loves you, don't find someone you love, and think more about each other after getting married.

It's your own feeling to be unhappy. What kind of life you choose is also your own choice.

That's why finding the right people is the most important thing.

What to do and how? Look at how you treat yourself, everyone is different, and the experience is different, marriage is originally two people will live a good life, whether the business is good or not, it all depends on their own attitude. There is no such thing as perfection in the world.

Marriage is a bet, you are a winner when you meet the right person, but if you choose the wrong one, you will suffer for a lifetime. Ay.

Naturally, you can't be casual, but you can't be too careful. We can only respect our instincts and cherish and maintain our marriage in time.

It's not right to know why you want to get married.

If you don't want to try, how can you know if you are happy or not!

It's not as terrible as you say, if you find the right person, you will be happy for a lifetime.

I feel like I'm just disheartened and numb to happiness now, knowing that he doesn't love me, but there's nothing I can do.

Life is like this, reality is like this, if we don't think so much about right and wrong, right and wrong, gain and loss, don't care about giving and returning, as long as we want to love, we will love, there will not be so many contradictions.

Personally, I feel that getting married is making do. What kind of love is there? It's all for the kids.

Look for similar living habits and values (for example, if you are a professional woman, don't look for a big man, if you are a small woman, don't look for a pampered and selfish little man). Other conditions will change, such as appearance, economy, accommodation to you, etc. Think about it a little and don't really think about it.

How to choose a marriage is wrong? The most important thing is to adjust your mindset.

Everyone has this feeling, before and after marriage is different, you don't have to worry about anything before marriage, but after marriage, you earn money and spend it yourself, and you have to spend it for oil, salt, sauce and vinegar.

No, have you ever been married? Why is it said that marriage must be like this?

Only if you choose the right person, you will be happy for the rest of your life, even if your life is trivial, you can face it calmly together, and marrying someone you don't love will be like going to prison for the rest of your life.

Pro, marriage and love are originally two different things, so you can't ask for perfect love and perfect marriage, marriage has actually been interpreted very well by the ancients, and the situation and political marriage are conditionally together.

No, it's just that you didn't meet the right one.

First of all, you must find someone who is compatible with your personality and has an emotional foundation to marry, marriage is not a task, you must have feelings even if you don't have love for a long time.

At the beginning, the reason why you choose to be with each other means that you are suitable during that time, but as you get along, you will get to know each other more deeply.

I don't agree with your statement, marriage is a happy union of two people who love each other together, and it will only pass on more happiness, how can it be wrong. It's not hard to find someone who suits you, it's hard to love each other deeply and end up together. So, don't be disheartened if you don't find that right person, many times it's not that we can't find it, it's that too many things blind us, and you don't see others very happy, but you're not them, you can't understand them.

Just like us, although family life is very ordinary, we just enjoy happiness in the ordinary. Really, don't be too discouraged and don't lose your desire for a happy marriage.

Life is not easy, so be more tolerant and understanding.

This is a popular line triggered by the current popular film "If You Are Honest Do Not Disturb 2", and it is also a sentence that is appreciated and recognized by many people. Such a vernacular is obviously extracted by Wang Shuo from his own life experience, and then told the audience through the mouths of the actors on stage, which is also a common routine for Shuo Ye and Feng's New Year films to play deep with the audience.

This statement is clearly wrong from the literal logic alone. Because right and wrong are a pair of symbiotic mirror images, if there is no right or wrong in marriage, then why is there anything wrong? If everyone is wrong, you are not so-called wrong.

So unless you're unlucky enough to meet someone who is very unladylike, in most cases, the choice of marriage can't be simply judged in black and white by right and wrong. You choose an ordinary person, the right place and the wrong place are often you have me and I have you. Most people generally choose the right one, that is, the right place is more important and the wrong place is the one that they feel can handle later.

Fitting is right, isn't it? If you feel that it is not suitable when you get married, you choose the wrong person, then you still get married, how many people are married in order to get married by mistake?

The rights and wrongs of marriage are not only relative, individualized, but also dynamic. There may be some people's fatal flaws that you didn't see before marriage, or it may be the fickleness of people's hearts and the turbulence of external conditions. When I used to like someone, the wrong places were all cute, and when the close relationship was consumed by the ordinary life and even produced erection, I re-examined the person, and it may become wrong too.

Therefore, the sense of right and wrong in the process of marriage and the sense of right and wrong in the choice of marriage may be two different things because of the dynamic feeling and cannot be simply equated. This is also where this simple line is not very coherent.

So why do so many people like this line that is flawed and even a little sensational? The key lies in the four words "if you are wrong, you will be wrong". There is a law of harmonious interaction between people and people, which is to learn to compromise and tolerate the mistakes of others.

A close-marathon marriage is the highest level of communication, and although it is the most difficult, it cannot escape this rule. That's why a lot of people feel the same way.

Compromise itself is artistic, not unprincipled. We live in a jungle society where the jungle is the strongest, and it is naturally more difficult to compromise on education, but it is not necessarily. When a mediocre man is confronted with a dignified boss, a tough co-worker and a bullish client, he has to compromise, this certainly does not need to be taught.

But there are often two sides to personality, a person's inferiority complex is often accompanied by arrogance, and when he goes home to face his own wife, who he thinks is weak, he may go to the opposite of compromise. Therefore, compromise is also based on the object, and more importantly, the compromise of the weak. The same is true for women.

Of course, there are limits to compromise, and when you cross your bottom line and there is no way back, instead of making mistakes again, it is better to stop losses on mistakes, rather than making mistakes again and again.

Pro: I don't agree with this very much, so things are not absolute. You should say that some marriages are like this.

But why is this happening? It is a personal reason, and everyone's psychological quality is different. Your own needs are also different.

Marriage is a rare problem, as long as there is an answer to the question, in fact, marriage is very simple, find a suitable person for yourself. Spend a lifetime together. It's that simple, but the process is what it takes, and the effort of two people takes it.