Who should be invited to dinner, and what should others bring to dinner

Is that what 100 bucks are like?! If I want, I will find a colleague who is more active in the field, give him money, and let him (or them) go out to buy some fruits to the unit, including the leader, everyone can taste "fresh", so that I can not only get a name but also deepen the relationship with colleagues. Sometimes don't take the problem too seriously, it's good to be free and easy!

I interned in a factory, and was later rated as an advanced individual in the internship, originally I didn't care about this honor, the advanced individual was in the form of self-recommendation, I did not recommend myself at that time (college student enterprise internship is squeezing, wasting time), until the certificate arrived in hand, and at the same time there was a hundred yuan in hand. It's because of this 100 yuan that I still have to bring up this issue to bother everyone. Question one, how did I come to be an advanced individual?

My name is not on the list on the internship team leader's report, and the person I replaced is not at fault, everyone is leisurely; Is it because of the recommendation of the director and the foreman (I got along well with them during the internship), or because I am a member of the life committee of the internship team (personal inclination). Question two, a large group of people called for a treat, I really thought about it, first of all, the person who was replaced by me, has been invited, which should be; Secondly, I bought fruits, cigarettes and drinks, and some people said that half of the 100 yuan was not used up, and it was too underwhelming; There is also the leader of the internship team and the other advanced one, and they are also cheeky to ask Lao Tzu to treat him, do I have to pay him unexpected income tax! He and I are in charge of the internship group, during which he is everywhere B, I am afraid of many things, I am a man with my tail between my legs, there are many people who recommend advanced individuals, and the last ones who are reported are close to the group leader; , I'm not a landlord and a rich man, I don't need them to pull a pole to fight the landlord, and friends and brothers are willing to eat and pay money, but this time it's not as simple as making friends and having a meal, I don't know how to say, I don't want to make trouble with anyone, and I want to do things a little smoother, I don't want others to treat me as a big head, and I don't want others to think I'm stingy, slapping a swollen face and being fat, etc., please come up with ideas for my little brother, thank you.

As follows:

1. If it is a group activity, party or party, where many people need to liven up the atmosphere, you can bring some alcohol products or drinks.

2. If it is a small gathering of girlfriends and a homely conversation, then you can bring some desserts and drink tea and eat snacks while chatting.

3. If you are an elder, you can send some nutritional products or health care products.

4. If you go to an unfamiliar home for the first time, sending flowers or red wine is a good choice. However, you should carefully look at the type of flowers.

5. If you are a guest at your boss's house, you should pay attention to the selection of gifts, not too shabby, too expensive and not good. It's better to do what you like.

6. If you are a very familiar friend, you can be casual, such as fruits, of course, it is best to be more popular, suitable for all ages.

7. If there are children at home, you can bring things that the children like, such as toys, snacks and the like.

8. If your friends and families are relatively wealthy, you can bring more high-grade gifts, such as high-end gift boxes, such as tea, red wine, tea sets, etc.

The key depends on what is going on:

If it's okay, then you don't need to bring anything, anyway, you can pay him back once;

If it's the other person's birthday, then buy something practical as a gift for him;

If it's the rest of the festive events, you need to wrap a red envelope!

I went out to dinner with my colleagues in the department at noon today, and I felt that the overall topics of conversation were familiar.

If the person at the dinner party is a colleague, then he will talk about the company, the department, and the colleagues, specifically the history of the company, the history of the department, the flow of personnel, including some interesting things about the company.

If the person at the dinner party is a classmate, then they will talk about the school, the major, and the classmates, specifically the recent changes in the school, the professional entrance examination, the doctoral examination or the job, and what new events are there between the classmates, such as who is married, who is going abroad, and so on.

Eating, there will definitely be some food-related things in the process, such as what special snacks are in Beijing, hot pot is spread from **, the practice of glutinous rice cakes, the difference between pancakes and pancakes, etc., this is a common topic of conversation. It is often regional, for example, whose hometown is from Inner Mongolia, then there will be more snacks in Inner Mongolia.

A question that colleagues often ask is, where is your hometown, and then on this topic, such as kites in Weifang, Shandong, what cultural traditions are in Inner Mongolia, such as what are more distinctive things in Ningxia, etc. It's also almost a must-talk topic.

In addition to the above three items, if there is a recent hot event, or something unexpected during the meal, there may also be a series of conversations about it.

In short, the chat during the dinner party is either real-time gossip or real-time events, and everyone can talk about it together if they are interested or not, but there are some topics that are often talked about: things between people at dinner, food culture, regional culture, and some hot events and emergencies. When talking about something that everyone is not interested in, or it is difficult to explain clearly, I will quickly skip it.

The overall chat atmosphere is relaxed and pleasant. Just like the last time our company team building, there was a bride-to-be who shared with everyone the process of preparing for the wedding, especially the choice of wine, everyone was very interested, and gave a lot of suggestions, and the bride-to-be said that the groom was very fond of a Bameng**, there are all kinds of famous wines to choose from, and there are related rights and interests to receive, it is said that there are diamonds, income or something, and many colleagues searched on the spot. How harmonious, everyone shares happiness and enhances their feelings at the same time.

Someone else treats someone to dinner. It's best to bring two bottles of wine. Or take two boxes of cigarettes. The best. In this way, you will not lose your identity and you will not eat in vain. There is face again.

When others invite guests to dinner, you must keep in mind these "three don'ts", otherwise it is easy to lose popularity.

If you are an adult, you usually eat with a bar, and everyone can toast each other at the dinner table.

First of all, when you invite someone to dinner, be sure to think about who you are invited. To put it simply, who the host and guest are, as the core figure of the dinner, the host and guest must be the "person" who asks for help, or has an unusual relationship with this person.

Everyone understands that there is no such thing as a free lunch, and the other party is often cautious about the first meeting to avoid falling into the trap. Therefore, when inviting guests to dinner, you must accurately tell the other party's motives, but the reason must have nothing to do with the request, and find a more reasonable reason, such as tasting the food, and others asking for it on behalf of you, can reduce the probability of refusal.

To put it in other words, the invitees will have the following concerns:

1.The inviter's identity, status, relationship with himself, whether there is an interchangeable value, and whether it is worth interacting.

2.Whether the inviter is tactful, will he suddenly make a request at the wine party, so that he cannot accept it.

3.Whether there is a conflict between the place and time of the invitation.

If these three problems are solved, basically the guests will consider going to the appointment, and the success rate of the drinking party you organize will already be 80%, and then according to your reasons and relationship with each other, you will decide the formality of the reception or the informality of the sensitive, the level of the banquet, the amount of expenses, and so on.

If you meet for the first time and are only trying to communicate, you can invite them formally first, and then invite them informally after getting acquainted with them, so that they can appear cordial. If you have known each other for a long time, the invitation still seems very formal, which will give people a sense of strangeness and is not conducive to communication.

If the invitation is successful, be sure to reconfirm it the day before the dinner in case the other person has other things to attend to or forgets your invitation. Be sure to clearly inform us of the time and place of the invitation, and who will sit with you. If the person invited is not very familiar, you can call the corresponding intermediary and ask him to convey it on your behalf, so as not to be cold due to strangeness.

Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, you and the other party is a very good relationship with relatives and friends, then invite the other party to dinner, you can maintain your relationship very well, talk at the dinner table, you can enhance your relationship, oh, two, if you have a request for each other, then you can also invite the other party to dinner, this will show that you are very literate, very good at doing things, oh three, please work colleagues or partners, you and these people are people who are in contact at work, eating together will enhance your relationship, can be more trusting of each other, and is conducive to work. This is mine. I hope it can help you and I wish you a happy life.