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No matter how poor our parents are, after all, after giving birth to us, people must first know how to be grateful and don't hate him. As a child, there is no reason to dislike their parents, and they should be considerate and tolerant of their parents, but there should be limits to understanding and forbearance. Back to the subject's question, if a man who is a father only knows how to eat, drink and have fun every day, and does not think about his family at all, there is no doubt that this is a failed father.
But for ourselves, good parents and bad parents will not accompany us to the end, and we will ultimately rely on ourselves. If we encounter such a father who cares about his family and only cares about himself, we must be stronger and work harder than ordinary people to make ourselves better, so that we will not become a person like him.
Pity the hearts of parents all over the world.
Although most parents love their children, it is not excluded that some parents are very irresponsible.
With such a father, in addition to helplessness, he is still helpless. We can choose anything, only our parents we can't choose, when I was a child, I may be resentful, other people's fathers are so good, why do my own fathers only care about eating, drinking and having fun! Growing up slowly, I knew that there were some things that I couldn't choose or change, so I accepted my fate, relying on the mountains and mountains, relying on the flow of water, and I could only work my own!
A good life is created by yourself, and you can't have a good family atmosphere to create a good family atmosphere for your children, and you can't let your children experience their own unpleasant things!
If a father has no sense of responsibility and only cares about eating, drinking and having fun, it must be very disappointing for us, and we very much don't want this to happen to us. The role of father is a tall and mighty image for everyone, a backing existence, a father will protect us, will comfort us, will enlighten us, will teach us a lot of principles of life. I have the impression that my father's shoulders are very broad, and he can be relied on at any time and give me a sense of security.
As long as you are with your father, you won't be afraid no matter how you go. If my father only cares about himself and ignores me, I will be very sad, but I will not sit still, I will tell him what I think, if I have no way to change him, then I can only change myself, my father can take care of us for a while, but he can't take care of us for a lifetime, we still have to learn to take care of ourselves.
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Very big. Because an irresponsible father will make his daughter's life full of ups and downs, the impact is very great.
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Some children develop "fatherhood deficiency syndrome."Becoming weak, timid, lacking confidence and perseverance,Studies have shown that the long-term lack of paternal love can affect children's mental health and even lead directly to depression.
That's certainly not what we want to see.
It is our parents' greatest wish that our children will always be healthy and happy, and we cannot let our children be harmed by our actions.
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It has a great impact on the daughter, and it may affect the daughter's life, and may even affect the daughter's future education and even development.
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The impact is very large, and such a father will make his daughter disappointed in the family and disappointed in the marriage.
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Parents are their children's first teachers, the earliest and deepest role models for their children to imitate. If the father is irresponsible, the impact on the child is great. Of course, this is not a generalization, in the case of irresponsibility as a father, mothers have to pay more, care for and educate their children.
The family is the child's first classroom, and in the family, the mother is more important to the child than the father. In some families, mothers can raise excellent children when the father has problems. There are many precedents for this in the past.
However, in this case, there will always be some shadows in the child's psychology. Therefore, it is best that both parents can set a good example for their children and share the responsibility to nurture good children.
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The father's love, care, care, emotional infection to the child, and even the father's every move are imperceptibly affecting his own children, and have a unique role in the growth of children.
Dad is easy to be impatient in the process of taking care of the child, the child is annoyed, the father is reluctant to bring, and some fathers are more impatient, the child is disobedient or messy things, the father will yell and even beat and scold the child. Therefore, the father should first learn the characteristics of the child's growth and development, know that the child's cognition of the world is gradually established, many times we need to explain more, and wait for them, when the child is understood, the father's tolerance will be improved accordingly.
Because the role of the father has a great influence on the development of children, no matter how busy they are, fathers should also find time to contact their children more. Dads should know that their children's growth will not come back, and instead of their children growing up to fight with them, it is better to invest energy from birth, give children a rational and loving environment, and let children grow up well. Therefore, fathers should be actively involved in the development of their children from birth.
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There are certainly impacts, but there are positive and negative impacts.
Positive influence, the child does not want to be such a person, then he will develop in two directions with his father. He will be a good father in the future.
negatively, the child becomes the same person as his father.
Whether it is a positive or negative influence, this role cannot be missing when educating a child, even if he does not care about anything.
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The words of an irresponsible father still have a great impact on the child, because after all, the words of the parents belong to the original family, and the impact on the child is still the impact of the beginning from the beginning, right?
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Children also learn to be cynical, irresponsible, and that's the impact.
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It doesn't matter. Boys do need a benchmark, but they don't have to be fathers. Neighbors, teachers, and social big brothers are all fine.
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Very big, then this kind of dad, dispensable, don't teach bad children.
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In this case, the daughter will definitely be very sad, but in the legal sense, he is also your father and must fulfill the obligation of support.
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I have an irresponsible parent, and when your second master comes to our class, her daughter should be self-reliant, confident and self-confident to manage herself.
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Some may affect grades and the ability to make friends. It may also affect her daughter's life, and it also depends on her daughter's ability to resist pressure, I hope he can understand the woman's heart.
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Timid.
Parents are the first teachers of children, and the behavior of parents on weekdays may lead children to imitate, and a child whose father is not responsible is also timid and fearful.
The influence of parents on children, 1. Children with loving parents have a healthy and cheerful personality. 2. Children with weak parents are selfish. 3. The premature divorce of parents leads to indifference and insecurity of children.
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Educating a child well does not only depend on the mother's education method, the father's influence on the child is also very deep, but many people ignore the influence of the father, some fathers have destroyed the child invisibly, and most of the children raised are not productive when they grow up.
Nowadays, many fathers lack a sense of family responsibility, because fathers have to focus on work, and they lose their sense of responsibility for the family.
And they think that their wives are full-time at home, and all the affairs of the family are the responsibility of their wives, but this kind of irresponsible father raises children who lack a sense of responsibility, and it will be difficult for them to make a profit when they grow up.
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Hello, dear. The impact of an unqualified father on his daughter: An unqualified father hurts more than a child from a single-parent family!
First of all, a scumbag who stares at unqualified fathers doesn't care about his children, and creates a dispensable image for his children psychologically, and even he feels that he doesn't have to pay any responsibility for the title of father since he was a child, so that he will learn from it in the future! What's more, an unqualified father beats and scolds his child for pretending, which will make him form an inferiority complex and rebellious psychology since he was a child.
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Parental irresponsibility can have the following effects on children:
1.The child is not doing well in school. Parents have been irresponsible for a long time, do not care about their children's learning, and have long experienced a decline in their children's academic performance and excessive playfulness.
2.Developmental Disorders: Parents' irresponsible behaviour may create obstacles to their child's development, and the child may lack positive guidance and support as he or she grows.
3.Psychological problems: Irresponsible parents may lead to psychological problems in children, including low self-esteem, depression, anxiety, etc.
4.Behavioural problems: Irresponsible parenting can lead to behavioural problems in children, as children may have to cope with a range of life issues on their own and face too much stress to be in control of the situation.
5.Social problems: Irresponsible parents can lead to social problems, such as frequent absences from school and social settings, or even isolation from social circles.
In conclusion, parental irresponsibility can have long-term effects on children. These are the recommendations for parents with children to recognize and deal with relevant issues in a timely manner, and provide detailed, orderly and positive guidance and support.
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1. Machismo father.
There are some dads who are too macho and too controlling. No matter what happens, I regret that I have the final say, and I despise the child's thoughts at all. If the father is too controlling, he will take away the child's good opportunity to express himself, which will cause the child to be negative and pessimistic and lack self-confidence.
The father who is too controlling is too strict, and invisibly puts a kind of work pressure on the child, and dislikes the marital relationship between the father and the child. As the child develops, the father becomes more and more a role model for the boy. The father's machismo will form a dark shadow in the boy's heart, and his own growth will be influenced by his father, and he will gradually look up to his father.
2. A father who is always absent.
Dad has formed a wrong idea about the development of the child, and the father always thinks that it is enough for the child to have the care of the mother. They only need to earn money outside, ensure their children's food, clothing, shelter and transportation, and provide their children with a better life as possible. After doing the father's mission, even now many mothers feel that this is right.
The fundamental reason why most boys lack "masculinity" today is that boys spend too little time with their fathers, and thus rely too much on their mothers.
3. An overly pampered father.
We often see the composition of a family of tiger moms and cat dads. When the child is wronged by his mother, he will run to his father to complain. But for fathers, love is level, and love for children is the same for parents all over the world.
But unprincipled love for children will make children feel that their father cherishes them very much. As long as you encounter what you want later, the first thing to consider is the father, which will be very detrimental to the development of the child. Let children develop a "personal as the core" mentality, focusing only on their own opinions, never thinking about others, and eventually developing an arrogant and selfish temperament.
Because the father's doting replaces the rational sex education, sheltering the children everywhere, and treating the shortcomings as advantages. In addition, excessive pampering can lead to a child's inability to be self-reliant later in life.
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This is a frequent beating and scolding of the child, and a frequent speech does not count, which will hurt the child a lot.
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Ignoring children, getting drunk and scolding children, always feeling that children are not as good as others, and especially like to tell others about children's shortcomings, these behaviors will hurt children.
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