What should I do if I am a person who is emotionally irresponsible?

A lot of love now is real, because there are too many social factors in it, I think you shouldn't hate her if you don't know her, because you don't know that being a girl also has her own hardships It may also be because of money, but you have to know why she hurt you three times, which means that she still values you, otherwise, will she hurt you three times? The woman will not take too much responsibility in terms of feelings, because since ancient times, most of the people involved in the word responsibility are men, so I suggest that you first find out why she spends so much time on you, which may also be a kind of love or test for her!

You don't have to hate anyone, just hate yourself! How can you make the same mistake three times?!

Leave her! Nabs.

Don't care too much.

Men have men's careers, so why bother!

If you really understand her, then what you say is not a problem, if when you try to understand him, you find that you can't understand it anyway (including that she can't give you the ideal answer), then you should leave her for a while and observe her carefully.

If you love her, don't let him cry! There is nothing right or wrong, so why bother about what is responsible or not?

What is the degree of damage? If it's too serious, forget it, and it's even more serious if it goes down.

If love. In pain is also possible.

But it's not good for women to play too cheaply.

There is no right or wrong in love.

Only who does not know who to cherish.

It depends on the nature of the injury, and the deceptive one must of course stay away from her.

Harm? It depends on the degree, maybe she doesn't think it's hurt? Does she really like you?

You want to win back a man who is irresponsible about his feelings, maybe because you still love him, or you feel that he has something worth remembering about you. But you also have to be clear that a man who is irresponsible about his feelings may bring you more hurt and pain. If you really want to get him back, you need to do the following:

Adjust your mentality, don't be too anxious and pessimistic, and don't be blindly optimistic and self-deceptive. You have to accept the fact of the breakup, find out the reasons for the breakup, analyze the problems of yourself and the other party, and make a reasonable recovery plan.

Disconnect for a while and give each other room to calm down. Don't pester the other party, don't send frequent messages to the other party, and don't try to apologize, cry, threaten, etc. to make the other party change their minds. These actions will only make the other person more disgusted and annoyed with you.

Boost your attractiveness and make yourself better. During this time, you can do something meaningful, such as studying, working, exercising, traveling, etc., to make yourself happy and fulfilled. You can also show your fresh and interesting life in the circle of friends, so that the other party can see your changes and progress.

Reconnect, find topics that interest the other person, and avoid talking about feelings. You can send some simple and interesting messages to the other person at the right time, such as greetings, sharing, teasing, etc., to attract the other person's attention and curiosity. You have to maintain a relaxed and confident attitude, and don't show an excessive sense of need and dependence.

Bring each other closer to each other and increase interaction and communication. You can chat with each other through **or**, find some common ground and interests, and let the other party feel the tacit understanding and similarity between you. You can also invite the other person out to meet and create some pleasant and romantic moments that will make the other person re-attracted to you.

Express your thoughts and seek the possibility of reunion. When you feel that the other party has a certain degree of affection and trust for you, you can appropriately show some ambiguous and intimate words and deeds, such as using some nicknames, compliments, hints, etc. to show favor to the other party. If the other person responds, you can directly or indirectly express your desire to get back together and see if the other person is willing to give each other a chance.

The above are some ways to redeem a man who is irresponsible about his feelings12. But I also want to remind you that you may encounter many difficulties and setbacks in the process of recovery, such as the other party already has a new love, the other party does not pay attention to you at all, the other party plays ambiguous with you, and so on. These situations require you to have enough patience and wisdom to deal with them.

And even if you succeed in redeeming him, there's no guarantee.

1.Communicate well with the other person: Be honest with the other person and tell them how you feel and how you would like more love and attention. Maybe he's just not good at expressing it, or maybe he hasn't seen your feelings for him yet.

2.Give the other person some time: If you don't think the other person has enough feelings for you, don't rush to make a decision. Give the other person some time to see if they will develop more feelings for you.

3.Don't expect too much from feelings: Love is not a one-way street, and even if you think you're giving a lot, the other person may not be able to reciprocate the same amount of affection for some reason.

Don't expect too much from feeling remorseful, stick to your choice on the path of love, and trust that you will eventually find someone who suits you.

4.Stick to what you really think: Whether you choose to continue the relationship with the other person or end the relationship, stick to what you really think and feel. Don't give up your own needs and values in order to conform to the needs of the other person.

I think you should break up with such a boyfriend, and you yourself know that he has no plans for your future, right? Such a man proves that he doesn't really want to go with you for a long time. Because he didn't think about your future at all, and in his future, it will be the same with you and without you.

If you don't care about your man, why don't you break up with him? There are more men in the world, don't waste time on this man who doesn't care about you.

The premise of falling in love is to choose a man who spoils you and is good to you, and of course you have to like him. If one party in the relationship doesn't like it, and he doesn't care about you like him, there is no taste in this relationship. It's really painful to be with a guy who has no future plans, so it's hard to divide early, once a girl is over 20, the older she is, the lower the value, and you can't afford to delay.

And boys are different, the value of boys after the age of 20 is directly proportional to age, it is said that mature men are the most attractive, he has time to think about the future, but you don't.

If you really love your boyfriend, you can also try to talk to your boyfriend seriously about it, see what your boyfriend thinks, try to guide him little by little, don't you all say that a successful man has a great woman behind him, you can also try, maybe this amazing woman is you.

In the end, whether you want to break up with him or not depends on how much you love him. If you feel that he has to do it, then try to change him and help him make a good plan together. If he is still like this, your world will get worse and farther away, the two of you are no longer suitable, and there is no need to continue to waste your time when you break up as soon as possible.

You can communicate with her patiently, and if this relationship really makes you feel uncomfortable, you can let yourself go, maybe the next one is better.

So what do you think, falling in love is not responsible for you, and after marriage, it will be responsible for you? Run, break up.

Clearly refuse, if a boyfriend you like is not in charge, but if you want to get along with each other after the New Year, or even in the future life, he will not be responsible, such a person is not worth your trust to Zhongzhou.

You're doing the right thing, you're back.

But I think you don't love him more than conquer, you want to conquer him, let him love you too, so the more he treats you, the more you feel that you love him, and he? Take this love of yours for granted, and your love for him is his bargaining chip. That's why your situation is like today, let it go, let's let it go, continuing like this will only make you hurt deeper, and leaving is really the best choice.

He has no right to hate you because he doesn't deserve it, you understand? But I think if he really has the heart, he will figure it out, and he will know that he has failed you. At that time, he didn't hate, he should blame himself, blame himself for not knowing how to cherish, so congratulations on seeing the reality clearly, do you think about an irresponsible, selfish, short-tempered, and cautious man worthy of your love?

To be honest, if I had such a boyfriend, I would feel ashamed, the person in charge, but what about him? People can be selfish, but it depends on what it is, too selfishness is self, in his eyes there is only himself, how can he think of you? Be careful, how do you get along with your family, how do you get along with your friends, are you willing to lose so many friends for him?

Is it worth loving a man with all kinds of shortcomings in you?

So when it comes to the paragraph, I want to criticize you, you are also responsible for the girl's situation today, you regard love as a matter of course, it is your endurance, compromise, and accommodation that have created today's ending, so reflect on yourself.

Finally, I hope you can get out of this relationship and start a new life, and I wish you happiness.