How to forget someone you love but can t

Updated on psychology 2024-04-13
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Silently bless him, hoping that he can find someone better than himself, so that slowly there will be no place for him in your heart. Or exalt them too much, belittle yourself, you can't be with the other at all, and you will give up. "Experience".

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There is no special way to forget a person, this is a psychological reason, no one can explain it, it varies from person to person.

    The way I forget a person is not to think about his good, only to think about his bad, if he really doesn't have a little bit of badness, then think about what problems he will face if he lives with him in the future, and it is a bad problem, and there will be more options to leave him.

    And so I forgot about him, and very quickly.

    I don't know if it applies to you!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Alas! In fact, you already know that it is a person who cannot be loved, but why do you still love him? And still in love?

    Hello paradoxical! Why can't you love? Does love need a reason? If there is nothing, you will love it happily!

    However, you know that you can't love, so you have to let go! What is the point of deep love?

    Do you want to see a lose-lose situation in the end? Don't lose your EQ and IQ when you love! You have to understand and be clear about the outcome of your love!

    Let it go when it's time to let it go, and don't cower!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Find someone you can truly love, to take his place in your heart ... No matter how beautiful your memories with him are, they are only once! ]

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Time is fine, so is pressure.

    It's a long time.

    But if you are stressed enough, it is not difficult to forget about someone.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Give up, cut off contact.

    Time will take care of the rest.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hate, hatred can make you forget everything.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Time can make you forget! Turn this love into a memory!

    That may be the happy ending.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The best way to love someone is to give him happiness, since you can't love each other, bless him in your heart!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Time Time can really change the way everything was originally happy.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Time is the best medicine.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    What you can't forget can only be put in the deepest part of your heart.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Ever heard of monkeys in the Himalayas?

    No one can deliberately forget what they see.

    When everything goes with the wind.

    After several ups and downs. and vanished.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's impossible to forget, it's just ...... can't remember

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I'm here to see the answers.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Can't forget a person who can't love is your obsession at fault, if you put your obsession smaller, you won't forget your desire to give up the first time, and time is the best way to dilute the memory, and you will definitely forget him for a while.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Question: This girl is my high school classmate, I don't feel like love, but I like this girl very much, but I don't feel like he and I will not be together, because we are both afraid of not contacting each other after a breakup, but when I see her playing games with other boys, I will be very jealous, is there any way to make me less sensitive to such things?

    Question, but when I see other girls, I feel like I always see the shadow of this girl, and I feel that I can think of her in everything, do I need some psychiatrist help...

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Love is a norm, you will meet a lot of people you want to love but not everyone who loves has to work hard, people will love a lot of people in their lives but there is often only one distressed, only the person who is worthy of your distress you need to work hard to fight, if every person you love you go all out, you do not have so much time, this is what you need to be clear, when you are clear about this, you can calm this emotion in your heart.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Believe that time will take everything away and that time will make you forget who you want to forget.

    You can leave the city with this person, go to a city very far away from him and start over, go there to start your new life, meet new colleagues, make new friends, maybe there will be better people like you, and when someone likes you, don't deliberately refuse, but try to accept, sometimes sad more, when someone is good to yourself, you will let go of the one you love, and fall in love with this person who is good to you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's sometimes hard to forget a person, but as time goes by, there will always be a day when you forget, and then try to try the next relationship, if this relationship makes you feel sweet, over time your heart will be filled with sweetness, then you won't remember the previous her.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    First of all, you have to tell yourself that the other party doesn't love you, that it doesn't matter where you are, and don't always think about the good of the other party, every time you are sad, think about your inappropriate points, or the shortcomings of the other party, and then have more contact with other boys, and you will find that there are good things in others.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's better not to live in the same city, how can you forget if you don't look up and see you down? Go to a strange city, contact with strange people and things, then slowly and naturally you can forget, after all, time is the best medicine, after the baptism of time can forget everything.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    What you have to do is not to forget, but to let go.

    Human memory is the most involuntary, it will not listen to you, the more you want to forget, the clearer it is.

    Leave it to time, the hourglass of time can bury it all, and one day, you will need to rummage through the boxes and cabinets in your memory to remember that person...

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Since the other party doesn't like you, why should you be persistent, think about his indifference to you, feel cold all over your body, how can you not be sad, or don't think so much, go out with friends more, chat, you will forget after a long time, think about your closed door and eat enough, think about this has to let go.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you can't get it, you can say goodbye with your heart!

    This is the last sentence in Liang Shiqiu's "Sending Me": "I don't want to give it away, and I don't want people to send me, for people who are really reluctant to leave, the moment of parting is like an operation, and all the occasions for surgery should be used as a normal one first, so that the patient can spend the pain in the fog, so the pain of parting is best avoided." A friend said, "You go, I won't send you, you come, no matter how windy or rainy, I'm going to pick you up."

    This sentence perfectly explains how to say goodbye.

    Accept that you can't get it

    In fact, every one who can't get it is a scar behind it, but you must first accept it psychologically, whether you really like it, or if you really can't bear it, these foreplays are very important, but this result is more important, that is, if you can't get it, you must tell yourself like hypnosis first. I really can't get him, it's a cruel reality and I have to face it.

    Say goodbye with your heart

    Accept that you can't get it, and then say goodbye with your heart, first of all, you must sincerely recall the beauty of the past, whether it is love or unrequited love, and think quietly about all your beauty. Then tell yourself that these good things are like the old youth, and it is difficult to come back!

    Then listen attentively to the pain in your heart, and quietly pick up your fragile heart little by little. Tell yourself that when you were a teenager, you have lost a tree, but you have the right to choose the whole forest, it is enough time to give yourself to grieve, you are going to go on the road, someone who loves you and you love is waiting for you, don't let him wait too long!!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If we want to forget a person we love, the first thing we need to do is try not to think about things related to him, which is very important, some people will find it difficult not to remember, in fact, it is not, as long as we try to keep ourselves busy, we will not have too much time to think about each other after that. For example, we can put ourselves in the middle of a busy job.

    02 Secondly, it is better for us to choose to go out for a trip, not to go to a tourist attraction where two people go together, it is better to choose a tourist attraction that is far away, you can choose to go alone, or you can choose to go out with friends, which is okay, so that we will not think about the past things in our hearts, so as to forget each other.

    03 After that, if we want to forget the person we love, we can also participate in more parties, this is a very good way, when we participate in the party, we often don't have so much time to think about a lot of things, and when we participate in the party, we can also try to make some new friends, maybe we can also find him in our minds, which is also very good, and often can quickly forget the person you love.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Make more good friends of the opposite sex, and you will feel that the person you love is actually very ordinary, try not to recall anything about him, including his appearance and name, as time goes by, you will gradually forget about him.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    For people who love deeply but can't, it's impossible to forget honestly. Because you used to love him so deeply, for some reason, you can't be together, your heart will be very painful, and it will be very sad. How can you say you want to forget him?

    This person has appeared in your world, and he is deeply in your mind. What happened to you and him is real. How do you say you forgot?

    Unless you have been in a car accident and have amnesia, you can completely forget about this person.

    The person you once loved is a tree on your way. You can't completely forget that this tree exists, you can only say. This tree you have to let him go forward.

    Time is the best medicine to heal. I don't think you need to forget this person you love so much. All you need is to slowly let go of your love for him over time.

    Maybe one day you will fall in love with someone else, then for this person you once loved but couldn't, when you think of him again, your heart is also very calm, and there will be no more ripples in your heart.

    So for this person you once loved, you just need to stop loving her, then you really let go of her, when you meet on the street one day? Looking at it, you can smile and tell yourself that I don't love him anymore, so this is the real one to forget about him. So you just need to give yourself time to slowly fade your love for him.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It is painful to forget a person, but if you don't belong to yourself, you must forget, overcome your inner sadness, and come out bravely.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's hard because you've got her so deep in your heart that you can only rely on time to heal the pain.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    There is always only one way to forget a relationship: time and a new love. If time and new love can't make you forget a relationship, there's only one reason:

    It's not long enough, and the new love isn't good enough. I haven't read this book, but when I saw this sentence, I suddenly remembered myself and the person I used to like but didn't have together for a long time, and I agreed with this sentence very much.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Of course, it is to turn your attention to other aspects of your life, such as work and hobbies. In this way, when your life becomes vibrant, you will forget the memories of your previous unhappiness.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Since you have to, don't continue to love deeply, a person's love is a one-man show, and it will be too tiring to continue. Don't deliberately forget, the more you want to forget, the clearer you remember, it's better to go with the flow, maybe you will let go of it in a moment.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I think if you want to forget about someone you love, then you can shift your attention, for example, and devote yourself to your work.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Life is wonderful enough for us to exist in the world, to grow up in the infinite universe, but our life is short, so do it and rejoice! Meeting the person you love is destined in life, but deep love needs to be shared with each other in order to bloom a beautiful future. If it is only wishful thinking, it will be planting a wasteful and life-killing flowerless weed in our short life, how can we make our short life end without regrets at the end of our short life, and die for a long time?

    I often say this to myself, let yourself get out of the past and face the future: you will always be a beautiful girl with many loving cares, you can always let yourself bloom a more beautiful smile after tears, and face your beautiful future with your smile!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Keep yourself busy, work to the fullest, or get together with friends to distract yourself.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Try to do something else, work hard or study hard. Let yourself be emotionally transferred.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Since you know you can't get it, let it go completely, so that you can love another person better.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Since you know that you can't get it, burying this love in the bottom of your heart may be the best choice for you.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    You just need to start a relationship and you can cover up the previous one.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    The best thing to do is to fall in love with someone again! Otherwise, I think it should be hard to forget, and the more I try to forget, the harder it will be.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    The first thing is to face the relationship head-on, tell yourself that the relationship is fruitless, and then use time to erase the pain.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Falling in love with another person, or doing something more meaningful than liking someone.

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