A person who always says he loves you very much, but can t change himself for you, does he really lo

In a word, he doesn't care about this girl, that is, he doesn't like her very much.

It's sad to have a situation like this, but there's no way, feelings are a matter of two people, not one person's wishful thinking

Some people believe that love is selfish and that the person who loves you will not change for you. They feel that they just need to accept each other's characteristics and habits, and not try to change their profile. Otherwise, such behavior can lead to maladaptation, breakup, and even betrayal.

However, in love, love and change are interconnected. Love is a complex feeling, and loving someone will make you change some of yourself for him or her, and try to better adapt to the other person. Of course, this process should be based on respect and understanding.

In a relationship with someone you love, change is not a negative or consuming act, but a positive and healthy phenomenon. This change can make oneself and the other person better, increasing human respect and loving interaction.

When you meet true love, they will pay for your change. They are not here to change your habits and character, but to love you more and respond to you more appropriately. This kind of love is natural and deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.

Someone who really loves you deeply is not easy to change his sincerity towards you casually. If a person truly loves you, he will be very honest and honest with you, and he will not lie to you. Some people say they love you, but they care about others in their hearts, thus showing that they are not genuinely in love with you.

True and perfect love is that two people can treat each other with sincerity together, and everyone never intends to hide their true experiences and thoughts from each other. A person becomes more and more insincere, he often lies to you, and he never wants to take responsibility for what he says, thus showing that he does not really love you.

The more genuinely the person loves you, the more he will maintain the necessary sincerity for you, and he will not change this casually. If a man suddenly and gradually lies to you, and it is difficult for him to spit out a word of truth, he will no longer know how to cherish your sincerity, he has been cheating on your emotions, so it shows that he has long since stopped loving you. If a man loves you with sincerity and sincerity, it is not easy for him to change his sincerity and honesty with you.

Once he lies to you, he can't help but feel guilty and blame himself.

Someone who really loves you deeply, it is not easy to casually change his confidence in accompanying you for a lifetime. If a person no longer wants to be with you for the rest of his life, and he gradually tries to stay away from you, he lacks the necessary care for you, so it shows that he does not really love you. The more truly the person who loves you deeply, the more desperately he will stand behind you, and he will not leave or leave you casually no matter when and where.

If a person really likes you, it is not easy for him to change his confidence in loving you for a lifetime, and he uses real deeds to prove to you that he is a real and reliable person. A person's attitude towards feelings is not single-minded, he has always been half-hearted with you, he is far away from you, sometimes cold and sometimes hot, he can not accompany you as always, he is really waiting for you all year round There are few days, so it shows that he does not really love you.

Someone who really loves you deeply is not easy to change your position in his heart casually. If you find that your place in a person's heart has plummeted, it is a sign that he does not really love you. The more a person loves you, the more he will put you in the most important part of his heart, once he believes that you are the person he is looking for in this life who understands you, he will no longer casually change your position and influence in his heart.

Your position in a person's heart is always up and down, sometimes high and sometimes low, and ups and downs, so it shows that his love for you is not firm enough, and he is likely to be separated from you at all times.

Someone who really loves you deeply, he has always been able to put you in the main part of his heart, and he never changes the weight of your heart casually. You find that a person no longer values your existence, he feels that your existence is completely unnecessary, he never wants to see you again, he is full of contempt or sarcasm for you, so it shows that he does not really love you, and you can die for him as soon as possible.

It will not change his sincerity to you, his love for you, his patience with you, his preference for you, and his determination to grow old with you.

It will not change its sincerity to you, nor will it change its love for you, nor will it change its thoughts about you, nor will it change its determination to accompany you to old age, nor will it change your position in his heart.

I won't give up my job, I won't tolerate you going out in the middle of the night, I won't let you wear very revealing clothes, I won't tolerate you going to nightclubs, going to bars.

Suddenly this sentence touched the nerves of the brain.

In fact, most of the time we think so: when you can't change a person, then change yourself.

I've agreed with that before. In life, when you often encounter someone who thinks differently from your own, you have an urge to change him. Sometimes I can't convince others to change, and I'm still miserable.

But when the pain still can't change him in the end, he will comfort himself and say: If you can't change him, change yourself.

In fact, many times, our so-called desire to change others has some meaning of "kidnapping". Impose your own views on others. And firmly believe that one's own is right, and other people's must be wrong.

Last night, I was stunned by the phrase "If you can't change him, just love him".

That's right, it's better to love him well than to change him. To care for him, to understand him, to truly consider him from his point of view. Of course this he can be her, he, it ......

I've watched this TV series many times. I really realized something last night.

For the male number one like a scorpion, the female protagonist did not take the initiative to change. but silently tolerated him with his love. Influence him. Treat him with kindness to everyone around him.

Even if you hurt me, I still think of you for the good. Naturally there are no requirements to worry about you.

I used to not understand the heroine's approach, and I feel that there is really no such person in reality. It's too unrealistic. But the subconscious mind is always attracted to this drama, especially when the mood is low, it always comforts itself.

It seems that I suddenly found the main reason why I like this drama. Probably something waiting for her to awaken her soul.

Isn't there a saying that if you like someone, you subconsciously want to be such a person? I think I found what I needed.

Yesterday, when I watched the sharing class of Professor Chen Guo of Fudan University, her sentence was somewhat similar to my topic today.

She said: If you want to influence a person, or say you want to change a person, then try to make yourself an ideal person first.

In fact, Mr. Chen Guo's point of view and the topic I said all illustrate a truth. Just don't say meaningless words, take action, and it must be positive action. That's what really makes a difference.