It s almost 40 and you re not married, isn t it embarrassing?

Updated on society 2024-04-27
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's not embarrassing to be almost forty years old and not married, which means that you haven't met fate yet, and if you meet fate, you will get married soon.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's embarrassing indeed! If you don't work hard, the boss is sad! But if you work hard and work hard when you are young, you can't live like this. Work hard to support yourself now!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Although you are not married, there is nothing remarkable, it may be that your fate has not arrived, and it is very comfortable and happy to be alone without marriage, so don't think so much, there is nothing embarrassing, no problem.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's normal to be 40 years old now and not married, like now it's the norm to get married at the age of 40 in this society, so there's nothing embarrassing about this, I can only say that these are relatively elite people.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I'm almost 40 years old and I'm not married, I don't think it's embarrassing, it's a normal phenomenon, so don't feel embarrassed.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This situation must be relatively embarrassing, because at this age, it is very troublesome if you do not have a certain career and a certain economic foundation.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you say that you are 40 years old and have not yet married, it is really a little too late, but it cannot be said that it is embarrassing, you can only say that you have not met your own suit.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Nowadays, there are many people who do not get married, this is not a shameful thing, and don't feel embarrassed, there may be some people who will gossip and want to ask about some of your emotional state, the most important thing is that you have a good attitude to find the state you want in life.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It will definitely be a little embarrassing, but there is no way, I haven't met the right person, so I can only work hard and make a career on my own.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    40 years old, you haven't met your confidant's favorite person, you haven't got married, you don't feel embarrassed about such a thing, you have to release yourself well, to make yourself excellent, you will definitely be able to meet your confidant.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's embarrassing, but it's better to solve the problem from your own point of view.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    A 40-year-old man is not married, is there any hope?

    Then there must be hope, 40 years old is now the year, people can still get married at the age of seventy or eighty, what is 40 years old? It's okay to be confident.

    A 40-year-old man is not married, if you are excellent and confident, then it is no problem to find a partner for marriage, I don't know why you are 40 years old, you are not married, and I don't know what the reason is, if the family conditions are not good, then you have to improve your talents, girls looking for a partner is generally not to have a family property, or to be talented, these two things are what girls like.

    I hope you get off the list soon.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you are not married at the age of 40, you have to reflect on your own problems and then make targeted changes. For example, economy, temperament, personal character, etc., if you want to get married, you can go on a blind date, go to a marriage agency, if you don't want to get married, a person is quite good, free.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you are not married by the age of 40, you should reflect on your own problems and then make targeted changes. Economy, temperament, personal character, etc. Since a person can be single for 40 years, then he must have personal problems that are not accepted by others, and only by solving or alleviating these problems one by one can he have a chance to achieve the ultimate goal of success.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you are not married at this age, you must work hard to improve your personal ability and make yourself better. Only then will you have a chance to find someone, so make sure you work hard.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Age is not a problem, as long as you don't give up, and you can continue to improve yourself through your own efforts, adjust your lifestyle appropriately, and believe that your other half will appear at a certain moment, it's just a matter of time.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you are not married at the age of 40, then it is generally difficult to find a person to marry, so you can find a divorced person to get married.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you haven't gotten married at the age of 40, then I think well, the words in your life have already ended, so much, you haven't met the right person, and you have to be prepared to not get married.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If there is no result at the age of forty, you should find out what your reasons are.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I can't help it, I didn't meet the right one.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I don't know what the reason is, I'm already forty years old, and I still use others to count, maybe that's why I'm single.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    When a person reaches the age of forty, whether he is poor or rich, he lives alone all his life, returns home, and then faces the slow aging, the temples have long been frosted, and the parents who are more than sixty, or even in their early seventies, this feeling is probably Chen Ziang's "Song of Dengyouzhou".

    The recitation of "Thinking of the world and the world, alone and weeping!" "That's it.

    How sad it must be to be in such a state of mind.

    A person, especially a man, who is not married at the age of 40 soon, to put it cruelly, generally begins to have no desires and is used to being single. After that, I became more accustomed to this kind of scene of "one person is full, and the whole family is not hungry", and I am lonely and old.

    Through further chatting, I learned that this netizen also talked about several girlfriends in his youth, but for various reasons, in the end, he did not change from girlfriend to object, and from object to wife. In this way, it swayed until the tail of the thirty-nine-year-old.

    The most terrible thing is that, especially at the age of thirty-six, I gradually feel that a person is very good, simple, free, no one is annoying, and the only trouble is that when facing my parents who are getting older and older year by year, there is a sense of guilt rushing to my heart.

    However, if he really made up his mind to know, understand, familiarize himself with and try to get along with a woman, and even enter the palace of marriage, and even have children and raise children, he never dared to think about it. I always feel that it is too complicated and too troublesome.

    I'm afraid that his kind of thinking represents a large number of people who have reached forty but have not yet entered into married life.

    The idea of people who still live alone.

    In fact, the age at which a person, whether a man or a woman, wants to fall in love and want to get married, is the age of puberty, and when he is about 35 years old, this is almost a person's best youth and youth. Once you pass this age, falling in love, getting married, and even including physiological impulses, etc., will gradually disappear and become a habit that is okay without it.

    Then, what's even more terrifying is that you will slowly feel that it's good to live alone, and it's good to be single. You don't need to be responsible for the life of two people, or even all the troubles, anxieties and responsibilities of a family of three or four, let alone worry about it.

    In this life, like this, I am quite happy. When a person is happy, it is also happy.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    A person has a person's way, and when he encounters the right one, he must dare to pursue it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There are times in life when you have to have it, and there are times in life when you don't want it.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    When we are young, we may miss out on love. When you are 40 years old, will you regret not being with the person you once loved, different people have different states and choices. ......Specifically, this question needs to be analyzed from three aspects: one's current life state, one's own life experience, and one's own perception of life.

    1. For people who are currently living happily in life, there will be no regrets.

    When the 40-year-old self is in dire straits, it is easy to regret the good opportunities that he missed in the past, and these people are most likely to regret not being with the person they once loved. ......But for those who are living happily now, who now have the life they want and have found the person they truly love, these people will not regret it.

    2. The richer the life experience, the less likely it is to regret it.

    People who have less life experience will have deep memories of some things in their own experiences, and if there is an element of regret in them, they will feel very regretful ......But for those who have been through more and have more experience, and therefore are more sensible, they are less likely to regret that they have lost something before. For these people, they don't regret not being with someone they once loved.

    3. People who have a deep understanding of life generally do not regret it.

    Some people have a relatively shallow perception of life, their emotions will be relatively fragile, and when they encounter some problems, they are prone to sentimentality ......These people tend to regret not ......being with the person they once lovedBut for those who have a deeper understanding of life, they see the problem more thoroughly, they can afford to put it down when they encounter problems, these people are more rational, and they will generally not be affected by this kind of problem, so they will not regret not being with the person they once loved.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The later you get married, the more sober and picky you are, and the more difficult it is to meet the right person, so it's good to live alone.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    , I believe that most people will not regret it, because not being together means that two people are not suitable, and it is normal to be separated

    After the age of 40, I will not regret not being with the person I once loved deeply, because I was separated at that time, which means that the two people are not suitable, since I have separated, I have to accept the reality and face my new life, and I can't affect my future life because of him.

    Learn to listen to your own voice and discern the difference between intuition and thinking. Be able to align with our inner thoughts when we are about to make a big decision or need to figure out why we should act. Sometimes we persist in the wrong path for a long time, and this is the time to recognize our limitations, admit the facts, and choose to give up when the time is right.

    Focus more on the things you can control, spend time on the things we can change, and try to change ourselves rather than others. Life is a piece of pizza, and if you want to eat something delicious, you must accept what is not delicious.

    Both good and bad things will happen in life, learn to accept it calmly, we are not the chief director of life, and we can't deal with the bad parts.

    Accept the reality, do not stay in the past, do not live in the unrealistic imagination of the future, the past has become a fact and cannot be changed, learn to accept and turn it into an indispensable nutrient on the bright limbs of the growth road.

    Live in the moment and cherish what we have while dreaming and working hard to complete the plan.

    Be tolerant of the fact that wisdom does not grow with age, honestly face your shortcomings, accept your imperfections, and strive to change on this basis.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I didn't get married at the age of 40, and most people regret it in their hearts, but they don't want to admit it. A person's loneliness can only be experienced by oneself.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I will regret it, I must have missed a lot of marriages in front of me Now I must regret it very much, and I can't regret it.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Does a person regret not getting married at the age of 40?

    Most people don't, 40 years old is the age of the old and the young, it is the age of struggle and climbing, many people will worry about food and clothing, how can they regret it. Some people definitely are! I don't think I will regret it, the person you love is not necessarily suitable for marriage, and the person who is suitable for marriage is not necessarily the person you love.

    If we get married in a hurry without thinking this through, then we really have to regret it after the age of 40? After experiencing more things, people are more and more discovering that some people are suitable for sharing joys and sorrows, and some people are suitable for sharing sorrows. They can be happy with us, and laugh with us in the sun; can share hardships and trek with us in the wind and rain, such people are people who join hands with us for a lifetime, and this person is often not the person we love deeply.

    We say that we want to find a loving marriage, which is of course very correct, but this is based on the premise that two people have love, it is easier to resist all kinds of bumps and bumps in marriage, and it is easier to go on for a long time. However, in marriage, it is more important to understand each other, and the accompanying support that comes from it.

    There are more people who love deeply, but how many can't understand each other, and there are more people who love deeply, but how many have serious personality conflicts, so that it is easy to love each other and difficult to get along? There are more people who love deeply, but how many intermediate resistance is too great to resist all the time? Love is just a part of life, it should be the icing on the cake for us, or it is better to give us charcoal in the snow.

    If you give up your life for love, you are putting the cart before the horse, getting sesame seeds but losing watermelons. And most people don't give up love for life, they just give up the person they love the most. The second most expensive item is not as good as the most expensive item, but it is very cost-effective and more cost-effective.

    Besides, is the person you think you love the most really the deepest? Isn't it our beautification of memory? Isn't it because we're dissatisfied with the present?

    Isn't it because we miss our youth that we love the house and the black? This world is inherently imperfect, and the lives of ordinary people are even more incomplete. Only by grasping the big and letting go of the small calculation can you get happiness, otherwise you will feel dissatisfied even if you have the world!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Will you regret not being with someone you once loved after the age of 40? I think you may regret it, but if you are 40 years old and have a marriage with a deep love, then you love her in the past, and even more, then you really need to regret it, and you should regret that you lost this innocent person around you.

    Deep love is not a state, but a level of hunger, different love, there are different depths, you are willing to create life with him has a deep heart, you are willing to integrate with him into your own blood to become a part of your left and right hand life, there is a deep soul, you treat him as a part of life without reservation open your heart and lose him, then life is incomplete.

    Some go deep into the years, you are willing to take it as a companion of time, it exists in your world all the time, and you have to walk hand in hand with you all the time, all your life. Dead and waiting for him at the bridge, regretting that he didn't keep the person he once loved, it's not a sad thing, after all, deep love is just regret, but the mood is afraid until the end of the year, that deep love has never changed, once. That's about a very sad sadness, the night is dark and I see the lonely light of the fishing lamp, and the fireflies are scattered with a breeze and waves full of stars.

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