What should I do when my girlfriend asks what do you like about me ?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-26
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    As a young woman who thinks she has been an ugly duckling for many years, like the subject's girlfriend, she feels that she is not a beautiful type, but she still has someone to love, and asking "what do you like about me" is actually a manifestation of not being very confident in herself, so I want to find a little comfort.

    1. Must be sincere, since frankly it is not particularly beautiful, then directly saying that it is beautiful must make people feel a little hypocritical, but if it is changed to "the most beautiful in my eyes", this will sound much more pleasing to the ear, and it is more sincere, "radish and cabbage, each has his own love", "Xi Shi in the eyes of lovers".

    2. Praise the character, naturally you can't directly say that the character is good, but fortunately? Can you be specific? For example, being friendly, gentle and generous, not careful, tolerant, etc., must be specific, the more specific it is, the more you pay attention to her, the deeper your love.

    3. I like her positive attitude towards life, which is very infectious.

    4. If neither of these works, you can also say that you like her smile, and her smile is as warm as the sun.

    5. If you like her, there must be a certain aspect or moment that touches you, and you can say that moment and feeling.

    6. "There is no reason to like it, like it is like, it is a feeling, maybe a certain scene touched me and made me fall in love at first sight." ”

    7. "Because you're kind." "It's also the most beautiful love story I've ever heard.

    8. If you really can't answer, you can also ask her rhetorically and ask her what she likes about you, so that the embarrassment will be resolved at once.

    There are so many of them, there is always a reason why you like her, I believe that loving someone must have feelings, what she wants to hear is sincere, even if it is just a moment that she has not noticed, and you remember it, she will be very moved, so, don't be perfunctory.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hello, I'm P Tuxia, you can call me Uncle Xia.

    What should I do when my girlfriend asks "what do you like about me"?

    Since it is not clear what the usual interaction pattern between you and your girlfriend is, what is your current financial situation, and whether you and your personality are introverted or lively, it seems too hasty and hasty to give only one standard answer. So there are several scenarios to ask this question.

    1. If you are usually a domineering president, when your girlfriend asks this question, you may not be able to express it in words enough, so you can focus on staring at your girlfriend, tilt your head, and knock up the wall. After all, when I asked this question, it somewhat showed that my girlfriend was a little aggrieved.

    Explanation is disguise, disguise is fact, so don't say superfluous language.

    2. If your financial situation is acceptable and you communicate with your girlfriend more directly, then when you ask this kind of question, it is most likely that your girlfriend wants to test you, so at this time, you can directly ask back, "I like you so much that I can't sleep, or I like you like to sleep." Haha what you want to buy, I'll help you pay after you pick it out." This is the most effective way, after all, there is no problem that cannot be solved by buying something or giving gifts, and if it still does not get relief, then you are giving another one.

    3. If you are usually a literary scholar, you can look at each other with pity and say to her, "The answer is very long, I have to spend my life to go to you, are you ready?" Then he took her into his arms.

    When your girlfriend asks "what do you like about me", what will you do, welcome to communicate with Uncle Xia.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't think your girlfriend is asking you this question to really answer one, two, three, four, or five points, but they just want you to say something sweet and loyal.

    Weibo has also been analyzed, men's way of thinking and women's way of thinking is different, men are rational thinking, and women are perceptual thinking, as a woman, I will talk to you about girls' emotional thinking, girlfriend asked you this sentence is actually to you coquettishly, she hopes to be able to get the affirmation of her boyfriend, hope to be able to get what you say, at this time you can take a lot of ways, directly is to list your girlfriend's cuteness, her advantages in character can be more divided.

    When a girl asks this question, it is also a manifestation of insecurity, some girls are easy to suffer from gains and losses in love, because she really loves you, and will often worry about whether she is good enough to be able to stand side by side with you, when your girlfriend asks this question, you should think about whether you have neglected her recently, a girl's perceptual thinking will cause her to be more sensitive, pay attention to details, and the things you think are unimportant will bring harm to her, at this time your best is to give her affirmation, Tell her that you love her, don't be shy, two people love each other and want to maintain this relationship, it is important to be able to boldly say what you think in your heart, and it is better to tell her directly if you put love in your heart. Expressing it directly will often give you unexpected results.

    But the most important point is that you have enough sincerity when you are there, don't be perfunctory and don't be flamboyant, girls do want you to say something nice to coax her, but no one is a fool, casual words and exaggerated love words will not have a good effect. You can have no sultry skills, but you have to have a sincere heart.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You are still more rational and understand the hearts of girls. In fact, at this time, what girls want to hear is whatever you say, as long as what you say is not so false, there is not much of a problem.

    Although your girlfriend looks average, everyone's eyes are different. You can tell her: "Although there are many beautiful women in this world, in my eyes, I just think you are beautiful, and it makes me feel very comfortable to look at, maybe this is love." ”

    I'm sure your girlfriend is still very happy to hear this. After all, you are in love now, and you also like her very much, so your girlfriend still believes what you say.

    So it's not enough to say that you think she is beautiful and that you like her like this. Because in a woman's heart, do you think that you have a crush on my appearance? What if I don't look good in the future? If you meet a better-looking woman in the future, won't you change your mind?

    So at this time, you also want to emphasize that you like her inner beauty and special character. If you like a person's inner beauty, this relationship can be maintained for a long time.

    The phrase goes like this, "I like you, not only because I like you on the outside, but I actually like your personality and inside." Because when I was with you, I was happy, happy, and comfortable. I think this feeling is love, no one else can give me this feeling, only you can".

    At this time, your girlfriend is basically moved by you, and she will not feel that you are lying or perfunctory. You give her another reassuring pill, don't ask any more questions like this in the future, what I like is you, your everything.

    That way, I think she'll ask fewer of these questions in the future, and as long as yours is what she wants, she won't ask them as often. Women are troubles, they always like to ask these boring questions, and yours must be perfect

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Girls like to ask such questions, and I once asked my husband such questions. Judging from the question your girlfriend asked, you must be the one who is better. Even if others think you are very ordinary, but in the eyes of your girlfriend, you are the best kind of boyfriend, at least your girlfriend will be moved and happy because of you.

    Your girlfriend is very similar to me, and I don't have a good figure, and I'm still the kind of girl who is fatter. My appearance is popular, and I look like an ordinary girl from the outside. Because I am not good, and I am not outstanding enough.

    If I find a more satisfactory boyfriend, I will feel a little inferior in my heart, and I doubt my ability, what attracted my boyfriend.

    I think every time I ask my husband what you like about me, my husband will tell me, and the first time I see you, I think you are the one who can live with me for the rest of my life. I can't say what I like about you, I just feel very comfortable and down-to-earth with you. I feel like I'm talking to you, there's no pressure, and I feel relaxed with you.

    Although your figure is not very slim and your appearance is not very stunning, I just feel that being with you like this, living together is the kind of real thing. Those who are good-looking and have a good body are not necessarily suitable for me. I'm just an ordinary person, I just want to live an ordinary life, I don't want to live in fear all day long, the most important thing for a man is to find a girlfriend with a good temperament.

    Don't think about it all day long, in my heart I feel that you are the person I am looking for, don't think that you are not good, and don't think that you are not good-looking and not good enough. You are the best in my eyes.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I like it everywhere, because you're the only one in the world.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello, like you, no reason.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    At this time, the boy should be smart, obviously, the girl wants you to praise her, so long to have the answer, you can say that she is beautiful, cute, loving, filial, okay. Tell me about her merits.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't want to like you, as long as it's yours, I like it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You don't need a reason to love you, or, what reason do you need to like her, and you tell her why you like her, and that's it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Like you don't ask me what I like about you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It depends on whether you like it or not.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    To like is to like, there are no specific aspects. What is said can be changed.

    What doesn't change is your place in your heart forever, not even our baby.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Answer: Me.

    Bai loves being with you.

    The feeling is very relaxed and comfortable. When I see you when I'm not in a good mood, I hear your voice and think it's not a big deal, at least I still have you. I like your eyes the most because I can see from them that you have all over me.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Love you for all! Love your shortcomings! Love your pros too!

    As long as I have anything to do with you, I like it! I don't just like the way you look! I love your heart!

    People who like you! It's that simple! That's right!

    Don't say it's too exaggerated! She wouldn't believe it then! Unless she can't help you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Although I don't understand why you ask that, and I don't understand what you're thinking, but I like you just like it, although I don't know what you think, but do you need a reason to like it?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I love your beautiful face, charming eyes, cute expression.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I like all of yours, and it's even easier to list them all, from the outside: head to toe and many, many, so many, such as: black and shiny hair, beautiful eyes, slim body, etc.

    From the inside: gentle, considerate, generous.

    It's not easy to praise people, just don't go too far.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Don't say you're empathetic.

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