Divorce, children or property?

Updated on society 2024-04-26
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Children are priceless, they must have children, and they must ask the other party to pay child support. You can't be so selfish, divorce not only hurts the children, but if you give up your own children, it will be too ruthless. Money can be earned, although even if the child is not born with him in the future, there is nothing wrong with you being able to give birth, but there is only one child, and he can't make himself unhappy because he is not compatible with his parents.

    Divorce is an adult's business, the children are still young, and the love of parents and mothers is what they deserve. Some people will say that divorce requires property, take away all the money, so that the other party has no way to live, the poorer the better, but when you think about this problem, have you ever thought that your children are still following him, he suffers, and the children are also suffering, can you bear to do this? People should get by, even if the relationship between two people is not good, after all, they have really loved.

    Don't think about getting divorced and taking revenge on others, why bother.

    In fact, people who think this way hurt not others, but themselves. Children are our future, is the continuation of their own lives, they can take their children to suffer a little, but don't give up on him, because every child is their own flesh, are the heart and liver baby, if the custody of the child is given up to ask for property, it is really falling into the money heap, deserve to divorce yourself, don't want to be happy in the future, because this kind of person is the most unworthy. A marriage is finally divorced because of the emotional failure of oneself and the other party, this is not the problem of the child, the child is innocent, even if two people are divorced, the children who belong to them should love well, educate them well, divorce is not wrong, if you don't take good care of your children, it is a big mistake.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It depends on whether you value a sense of responsibility more or material life.

    If you divorce and have children, you are taking on the responsibilities you should bear. But you have to think about whether you can live well with your children. If you're a woman and you don't have anyone to help you with your children, and you don't have any savings.

    I will advise you to save a childcare fund for yourself before the divorce, and then the divorce will take care of the children for a period of time, find a job for yourself, and support the two of you.

    If you are a male, then it depends on how old your child is now. It is said that the child seems to be sentenced to his mother until he is three years old. Of course, if the child is older and can be awarded to you, then I hope you can adjust your mentality and take care of the child in the coming days.

    If you want property in a divorce, it may be easier because you don't have children as a burden and you have property to enjoy. If you're a woman, I think you might be happy at the beginning, but at the same time you'll be condemned by your conscience. In the future, you may think of your children, and when you spend money, you will also feel less relaxed and happy.

    If you're a man, it's up to you to look at your personal strength. If you have strong work ability and strength, you can choose children. Because the property is gone, you can still earn it again, and the child is gone, it may be a lifetime regret in the future.

    After all, if you are divorced, if you make too much trouble, the child may not let you watch the child again.

    In short, divorce to have children or property is a dilemma. But in fact, both property and children can be fought for, and it depends on which of you can bring a better life to your children.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Divorce is the end of an unhappy life, and for you it is liberation, and you can find your own happiness again. But after the divorce, there are many problems, such as what to do with the children and property.

    Generally speaking, husband and wife have joint property, unless you have done the property notarization before marriage, many rich people will do this, otherwise they will be divided into joint property. So in terms of property, you can get a little bit of it. If you want to have more property, then you can discuss it with your ex and ask him if he is willing to give you more, if he still thinks about your relationship for so many years, he will agree, anyway, the money can still be earned, and giving you a little more is a little.

    Parents divorce, the most harm to the child, you are all adults, enough thinking ability, but the child has not, they only know that their parents are divorced, is a child of a single-parent family, quite pitiful. The main thing is that you have enough financial means, so that you can choose to have children, so that he can grow up in rich economic conditions and do not worry about money. This is the most basic condition, without which you don't want to have children, because you have hurt him, and you can't let him suffer with you anymore.

    If you really want children, but you are not as wealthy as your ex. The child's opinion is the most important, ask him who he wants to talk to, maybe you have a deeper affection for the child, and the child is more dependent on you. You can negotiate with your ex and say that you want to take the child and ask him to be responsible for the child's living expenses every month, and you have to raise the child.

    He has this responsibility and obligation, so he will usually send you money, and you just need to raise the child well. Although it will be tiring to raise a child alone, being a father and a mother, but for the sake of the child, I believe that you will feel that it is worth it no matter what, and you are willing to give it all for him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It needs to be decided based on your own situation.

    If you are a strong woman, capable enough, making a lot of money, and a little older in age, at this time, it is recommended that you have children. Because strong women don't seek to support their children, they are not afraid that they will not be able to give their children financial satisfaction. In addition, after all, the age is a bit old, and if you have another child, there will be a certain danger.

    If you are just a woman who works as a casual worker and has problems supporting herself, in this case, it is recommended that you choose property, because a person who has a problem even supporting herself, plus a child, will undoubtedly increase the burden on herself, and you will not be able to give your children a happy life.

    In fact, when it comes to divorce, if you only have one child, the court will decide who is more suitable for you to award the child according to your own situation.

    When choosing between children and property, it is indeed difficult to make a decision, because after all, children are a piece of meat that falls from their bodies, if you want to achieve both children and property, friends should maintain their families well, divorce is not a good thing, and it has a great impact on the future of children.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Child, I don't know what others would choose, but if it were me, I would definitely choose my child.

    Divorce is a great harm to a family, and the children are actually the ones who suffer the most. I don't want my child to grow up without me, I don't know what he will go through, but I know that without me he will lack a lot of love, which is maternal love.

    I believe that there is only one person in this world who can give children all the love, and that is the mother. If there is a divorce, I don't believe that the father of the child will take good care of the child, if he finds a stepmother for the child, what will happen to the child? Isn't it that he has been wronged and tortured?

    If you don't have money, you can earn it, and if you don't have property, you will treat it as if you never owned it. But if the child didn't have it, maybe I wouldn't have him again in my life.

    Child, he is a person, all my hard work and love, if even I don't want him, I believe that no one will really love him and care for him. Although money is very important, it is really nothing in front of children.

    Everyone has a point of concern, as a mother's biggest concern is her own children, I think any woman will choose her own children, put this concern by her side.

    What's the use of asking for so much money if you can't even protect your own children? Will this make up for the damage your marriage has done to you? In this way, will your child not be in pain and sorrow?

    Children can bring me laughter, warmth and care, and can give me life to rely on and sustenance. I can also bring a lot of support and help to my children, so we are inseparable.

    No matter what the future holds, I will always be by his side and never leave him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    After divorce, the joint property of the husband and wife can be given to the children. Marital property is an important property system that covers a wide range of objects, such as the ownership, management, income, use and disposal of marital property, the settlement of marital debts, the bearing of expenses for the family life of husband and wife, the liquidation and division of marital property at the time of termination of marriage, and external property liability. According to Article 1087 of the Civil Code, in the event of divorce, the joint property of the husband and wife shall be disposed of by mutual agreement; If an agreement is not reached, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of the property and in accordance with the principle of taking care of the rights and interests of the children, the woman, and the innocent party.

    The rights and interests enjoyed by husbands or wives in the contracting and management of family land shall be protected in accordance with law.

    Article 1087 of the Civil Code? In the event of a divorce, the joint property of the husband and wife shall be disposed of by mutual agreement; If the agreement fails, the people's court shall, on the basis of the specific circumstances of the property, make a judgment in accordance with the original rules for taking care of the rights and interests of the children, the woman, and the innocent party. The rights and interests enjoyed by husbands or wives in the contracting and management of family land shall be protected in accordance with law.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Divorce can be done as long as the children do not have property. The two parties can negotiate on the custody of the child, if not, the two parties can sue the court on the custody of the child, and the court will make a judgment according to the actual situation of both parties, such as living environment, working conditions, economic income, educational background, age of the child, etc.

    1. Do you have visitation rights for children after divorce?

    After the divorce, the parent who does not directly raise the child has the right to visit the child, and the other parent has the obligation to assist. The method and time for the exercise of the right of visitation shall be agreed upon by the parties, and if the agreement is not reached, the people's court shall make a judgment. Where the father or mother visits Lao Liang's children, which is not conducive to the children's physical and mental health, the people's court is to suspend the right to visit in accordance with law; When the reason for the suspension disappears, the right to visit shall be restored.

    2. Characteristics of visitation rights.

    Characteristics of visitation rights:

    1.The right of visitation is subject to the parent who does not directly raise the children after the divorce, while the subject of the obligation of the right of visitation is the parent who directly raises the children after the divorce.

    2.Visitation rights are a legal right of a parent to a child after a divorce. The right of visitation is legally regulated as a right because it is not only a right under kinship law, but also a basic human right, and the affection between parents and children based on blood relations does not change because of the divorce of the parents.

    The party who does not live with the children after the divorce may exercise the right to visit the children through various forms such as visiting the children, communicating with the children, and living with the children for a short time, so as to achieve the purpose of continuing to educate the children and play a positive role in the formation of the children's values. The right of visitation should not be a minimization of rights, it is not only a right, but necessarily something outside of it.

    3.Visitation rights arise after the divorce.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    According to the provisions of China's Civil Code and its judicial interpretations, when dividing property in divorce, the property shall be divided with reference to the principle of taking care of the innocent party. According to the Civil Code, fault refers to bigamy, cohabitation of a spouse with another person, domestic violence, abuse and abandonment of family members. In the division of property, the property may be appropriately divided among the innocent party.

    Divorce judgments are generally made at the same time as the division of property. However, in some cases, such as an invalid marriage, the marriage should be invalidated first, and then the issue of the children of the property involved should be mediated or adjudicated. The so-called confirmation of ownership refers to a separate lawsuit, in which the court determines the share of the joint property of the husband and wife, and at the same time the trial of the divorce case is suspended, and the divorce case continues to be heard after the legal documents of the confirmation case take effect.

    If a dispute arises over the division of property after the divorce of the husband and wife, the statute of limitations for filing a lawsuit with the people's court is 3 years, starting from the time when the husband and wife know that their rights have been infringed. Article 188 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China [Ordinary Statute of Limitations, Maximum Period for Protection of Rights] The statute of limitations period for requesting protection of civil rights from a people's court is three years. Where the law provides otherwise, follow those provisions.

    The limitation period is calculated from the date on which the right holder knows or should know that the right has been damaged and the obligor. Where the law provides otherwise, follow those provisions. However, if more than 20 years have elapsed since the date on which the rights were infringed, the People's Court of the People's Law will not protect them, and in special circumstances, the people's courts may decide to extend the order on the basis of the rights holder's application.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's okay for a divorced financial servant to give birth to a child. However, the following statutory circumstances must be met:

    1. If it is personal property, the owner of the property must voluntarily express that he will donate the property to his children;

    2. If it is joint property, the husband and wife must agree in writing to divide the joint property to the children.

    Legal basis] Article 1065 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China.

    The man and the woman may agree that the property acquired during the marriage and the property before the marriage shall be owned separately or jointly or partly separately and partly jointly. The agreement shall be in writing. Where there is no agreement or the agreement is not clear, the provisions of articles 1062 and 1063 of this Law apply.

    The agreement between the husband and wife on the property obtained during the marriage relationship and the property before the marriage is legally binding on both parties.

    If the husband and wife agree that the property acquired during the existence of the marital relationship shall belong to each other, and the debts owed by the husband or wife to the outside world are known to the counterpart, the personal property of the husband or wife shall be repaid.

    Article 1087.

    In the event of a divorce, the joint property of the husband and wife shall be disposed of by mutual agreement; If an agreement is not reached, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of the property and in accordance with the principle of taking care of the rights and interests of the children, the woman, and the innocent party.

    The husband or wife's rights and interests in the contracting and operation of family land shall be protected in accordance with law.

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