After a breakup, who lasts longer, boy or girl?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-21
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I subconsciously felt that boys were more miserable than girls.

    Because I once saw such a sentence, the first week after the breakup, the girl will be very sad, will cry, will make a fuss, but the boy will not feel very much in the first week of the breakup, but once the first week after the breakup, the boy will suddenly feel that the girl has completely disappeared from his world and will never appear again, and at this time, the girl has lost the extreme pain like when she just broke up, and slowly lived without a boy and started her new life.

    Therefore, in my consciousness, breaking up will cause more damage to boys.

    I haven't met boys who want to die or live after falling out of love, but I've seen a lot of boys who turn back after breaking up, these people are resolute when they break up, but once they separate, they immediately regret it, and they ask for reunion within a few days, whether the girl agrees or not, the boy will choose to stay with the girl, the reunion is a lover, and the reunion is a friend.

    At my age, it is really common for boys and girls to fall in love together, and break up at two ends in three days. If I'm not mistaken, the following paragraph was shown to me by my predecessor, that is, after joining the work, girls will meet boys with better conditions in society, and there are more people than excellent boys on college campuses, but once boys enter society, it is difficult to meet girls who are better than the girls they meet on college campuses, and at most they can only be a tie. Actually, I don't really understand the meaning of this sentence, but I always feel that it is right, if not completely correct, then 80% of it will be correct.

    I remember at a high school reunion last year, a girl told me that her ex-boyfriend was sick. I was stunned when I dared to hear it, what disease? Can it still be cured?

    Later, I learned that this was just an exclamation from her. She said, "We both broke up, he still keeps looking for me, and even he has a stomachache to tell me, what does this have to do with me, I don't care at all", in fact, this is not terrible, what is terrible is that this boy has a girlfriend when he was in college. It seems that you are really sick, since you have all broken up, since you have a current one, why do you still take the initiative to contact your ex, you say something serious at work or whatever, I understand, you even have to tell your personal problems and private life word for word, as a person who just heard about this, how should I understand it?

    Should I understand that this boy has no way to get out of the pain of losing his ex, or should I understand that this boy will never know how to focus on only one person?

    Boys will lament that the ex is better than the current one, and girls will complain that the ex is better than the current scum.

    After the breakup, I can be friends with you, but only friends, there is absolutely no possibility of getting back together, you can tell me what you need my help with, but please don't tell me about your private life, please live your current life, the road is your own choice, please take your man's dignity and move forward bravely.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    After a boy and a girl break up, who is the most painful is mainly to see who still likes each other, who is still in love with each other, often the one who loves the most is the most bitter, because there is more to pay and more to love, after the breakup, Yu Deyoulu is very unwilling, very painful, and generally tries to save the other party.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    1. Who is more uncomfortable after a man or woman breaks up?

    Who is more uncomfortable with a breakup? Who is more uncomfortable when men and women are disconnected? 1. After the two parties are no longer in contact, the average woman will be more uncomfortable and will be sad for several days, because no matter what the result is, to understand who is more uncomfortable for men and women to disconnect, the psychology of men who have been disconnected for 10 days is like this, and they always like to sell before, and if they break up, women will also vent their own mentality.

    But the boy is different, he is very rational on the surface, as if there is nothing, but if they have loved each other deeply, then his heart will be very uncomfortable. Therefore, it cannot be used to say that no one is emotionally deep, and there is no basis.

    2. If the two are very affectionate, and suddenly they will no longer be in touch, who is more uncomfortable depends on who is sincere and profound. Generally, the person who is sincere and profound will be more painful, so there is no need to lose contact as soon as you propose to break up, it is a profound damage to the other party, why stop contacting, that is not to pay attention to your own feelings.

    Second, the psychology of men 10 days after the breakup.

    1. It must be impulsive.

    If you don't have contact with each other, it means that you are still in an unhappy state of mind, and at this stage, it is very easy for boys to add you to the blacklist again.

    Reluctance to contact the other party. It is very likely that he will have some regrets at this time, but he is also reluctant not to actively ask you out.

    2. Get rid of.

    After the guy breaks up, he doesn't contact you, and at this time they will feel guaranteed to get rid of it and gain casualness. Never mind again.

    Restless, to understand who is more uncomfortable for men and women to be disconnected, the psychology of men who have been disconnected for 10 days is like this, disagreement and mustard.

    I was able to get rid of it well.

    3. I don't want to look at all your information content.

    In the case of a man proposing to break up, he will close all the information content related to you, and at this moment the boy is about to want to be quiet with each other, to understand who is more uncomfortable for men and women to be disconnected, and the psychology of men who have been disconnected for 10 days is like this, and no one will disturb anyone if they are not closed. In fact, who is more uncomfortable after a man or woman breaks up, everyone can't assess, emotions are a matter for two people, and others have no right to interfere. It is only after seeing this kind of situation that the girl must understand that she must learn to let go, not to be blinded by feelings, not to blindly care about the reason, and how to let herself go out is a must-do.

    If only one party is involved in the emotion, and the other person is blind, then this relationship is not valued, if the other party does not contact you, it means that this relationship does not need to be maintained again, there is no doubt that there is a certain reason.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Both people will be in pain, so in general, both of them will be painful in the relationship for those who have paid, even if the person who pays the bridge is not particularly much, but to a greater or lesser extent, they will still feel some discomfort and sadness.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    After a man and woman break up, the party who pays more emotionally will be more painful and reluctant, because this relationship is the last breakup that he spent time and silver power to maintain with sincerity, and everyone will be very painful.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    After the man and woman broke up, in fact, both of them were very painful, and the two of them must have paid real feelings, this kind of feeling is real, and the pain is buried in their hearts, so the two Huikong individuals are very painful.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    After the breakup, whoever gives the most and loves each other the most will suffer the most.

    The most painful person, that is, the one with the deepest feelings, because he felt that I had paid a lot for myself, and asked Lupi to get a special disappointment and pain from nothing.

    I love each other very deeply, but the other party doesn't have the slightest affection for me, tears will rain down, and my heart will be twisted like a knife.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In the case of most of the clear separation, a pair of normal lovers or lovers after the breakup, who attaches more importance to this relationship, who pays more will behave more painfully, and some still have to be different from person to person.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    After the breakup of men and women, it is even more painful, of course, it is the female chain, because the reason why girls are really painful is because it is difficult to bear, and girls themselves are more emotionally slow and violent.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    After a breakup, men and women are relatively more painful. Because once a girl relies on a person according to Da Zhao Oak, then she will have a greater sense of trust in the other party, and she is also the most painful one after the breakup.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The person who is broken up after the breakup will be more painful because he is forced to accept the situation.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It must all be the same pain, after all, it was the person who used to be my favorite, and when they suddenly separated, they were all uncomfortable, no matter who was the most painful, they were all the same.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The party who is reluctant to break up is the most painful Men and women break up, mainly because the relationship is broken, and one party still wants to continue to maintain and is unwilling to break up.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    After a man and a woman break up, I think it's the girls who are more miserable. Generally in love, girls will fall deeper. It's harder to extricate yourself.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Whoever gives more affection suffers the most, and it is not necessarily fixed that the man or the woman suffers. Between the two of them, they only need to talk about Biqing, the person who has more affection, and he is the most painful person in this relationship.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The person who loves to talk about the town is the most painful, so there is no difference between men and women. As long as it is affectionate, the breakup will be very sad.

    Therefore, feelings or regrets should be cherished, don't wait for the loss to regret it, which is harmful to both people.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    After a man and woman break up, there is no one who suffers the most, but the more a person invests his feelings, the more painful he will be, because he puts too much energy on it, and when the stomach can match the fine dust and stop the loss in time, he will be very injured.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If the most painful thing after the scattered man breaks up with this woman must be that he has paid a lot in this relationship, and then he can't get the other party's understanding, and the other party loves the other party and cherishes this kind of person is the most painful.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Who is the most painful after you break up, this does not mean that the man or the woman, it mainly depends on who wants to break up resolutely, who is passive, who takes the initiative to break up, his pain will be less, and the pain of the passive side will be very great.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Under normal circumstances, after a man and a woman break up, it is said that the girl is more painful, and the boy is more rational and wise, and it is easy for Huai Wu to come out. Some people will soon find a new love.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    After a man and a woman break up, whether the man is more painful or the woman is very painful. There is no answer, it depends on your role in the relationship.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    After a man and a woman break up, in fact, women are more painful, because men are quickly able to put an end to all these feelings.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I feel that after the boy and the girl broke up, it was the girl who was hurt, Pi Yan, because the spring lease boys were more open-minded, and they were more broad-minded. Girls, they are more cautious, so girls are more painful.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Men and women who are the most painful after breaking up. , I think after the breakup, the child before the girl group will be more painful, because the girl will pay a lot when he is with you, and he will be very sad if he breaks up.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    After the two quietly break up, they will feel very painful, because love will have love and hate, since love, you will feel the pain it brings to Qifan Slippery You, and both people will feel the pain that love brings to them.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Because girls are more delicate in their feelings, such a major event as a breakup will appear immediately, which will affect the hormone secretion mechanism and lead to emotional loss.

    But it will take a while for the impact of the breakup on the boy to become apparent, and the group attendant may be like a spirit. The impact of the breakup on the boy is hindsight.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's hard to say. Look at how many La's are you guys @? It's possible that it's painful to stop the sale. It may be that it is just one person who suffers, and there is no such rule that it is who suffers.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Who is the most painful after a breakup between men and women, it depends on who proposes to break up, and the person who passively breaks up must be very painful, because he didn't expect to break up.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's hard to say who is more painful after a breakup, it depends on who gives the most in the relationship, and the one who can't bear to let go is the most painful.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If you are a boy or a girl, after a breakup, who will regret the pain the most? I think that after the boy and the girl break up, of course, it is the one who invests the deepest in feelings, the most painful and grinding posture, and I feel that whoever votes for whom is deeply emotionally invested, and who is in pain?

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    After a woman breaks up, the person who suffers is not necessarily a man, nor is it necessarily a woman, it mainly depends on who pays more feelings between the two people, and who is the most painful.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Generally speaking, this situation occurs because the girl pays more, the girl is boy-centered, or the girl cares too much about the boy so much that she forces the other party to "breathless".

    After this relationship ended, the first intuitive feeling for the boy: finally no one cares about me, I can relax to my heart's content. But once the indulgence period is over, the boy will begin to get used to not nagging himself around him, and then start to reflect on the girl's goodness.

    Coupled with his feelings for girls, there will be a feeling that the boy is uncomfortable when he first breaks up, and it will become more and more uncomfortable after a long time.

    For girls, they are the one who pays, and it will be particularly uncomfortable when they first break up, because they don't understand why they broke up after giving so much, and they can't give up their feelings for boys. But after a long time, I also thought about it, and I felt that I didn't need to spend time on people who didn't cherish me. So it won't matter.

    Finally, I wish you a happy life, and finally be able to find your favorite other half of the brother you imitate <>

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