What is it like to find out how good the other person is after a breakup?

After the breakup, I felt that the other person was fine, but I didn't want to get back together again.

Among the boyfriends I dated, there are two, and I think the other party is very good in retrospect, one is that I dumped him, and the other was that I was dumped.

Let's talk about the boy I was dumped on

He has the same characteristics as most lions, he is arrogant on the outside, but he is soft and fragile like a kitten on the inside, he pays attention to feelings, and would rather have an empty window for many years than have an affair with anyone. And he will cook a good meal since he was a child, and when he was there, others basically intervened, in his family, and his father has always been cooking, after his father was not in good health, he took over this job, since he was 18 years old, very filial piety, very warm, right. My ideal type is this kind of man who loves to cook and can cook.

And the appearance is also good, 180+ height, strong figure, taking out is also quite windy, and very affectionate, his buddies are more than 10 years and 20 years, a lot, the joys and sorrows of friends, he really sends out his heart happy and sad for him.

Although people are not perfect, when they are dumped, they are annoyed by him, angry with him, look at his various faults, pick the door, have a delicate heart, have an average economic foundation, and are. But after many years, in retrospect, he is really still a pretty good person, and if he can find a suitable person, he should be a perfect husband.

He is a Leo, I am a Taurus, born with 180 degrees is not the most incompatible among all the zodiac signs, and I am helpless if I can't go against God's will.

Let's talk about the boy I dumped

He was 7 years older than me, when I just fell out of love a few days, introduced by a friend, I was in a mood and sad, on the second day of getting along, I couldn't control crying, and told him my mood at the time, saying that I can't forget the previous one, and the current emotional state, I can't like him, but he not only didn't run, but also comforted me and enlightened me, has been with me through the most difficult 3 months, and in such a depressed mood to feed me 10 pounds... In the past 3 months of getting along, I have been communicating with him that I don't like him, but I am willing to try it with him, who is so good to me. We didn't have physical contact until we broke up, and he wouldn't ask for it, just kept giving, giving me gifts to make me happy, knowing that I was hungry for four meals for each meal.

Play mahjong with me, and take me out to play every weekend with a different trick. I'm really, really grateful for his presence, otherwise I don't know how that time would have passed. Later, I really couldn't like him, and I didn't want to continue to hurt him deeper, so I ruthlessly proposed to break up.

But it's been four years, and when I talk to others, I will say that he may really be the best man I have ever met in my life, and whoever marries him will definitely be happy for a lifetime, but I don't have this blessing to enjoy.

I really wish those boys who have loved me to be happy all the time.

When you have it, you can't see the good of the other party at all, and when you lose it, you will know that the other party is very important to you, and the other party also takes special care of yourself in life, but you take these things for granted.

Because after Pai Xuan broke up, these brothers would feel that the other party would not be by their side in the future, and they would recall the time when the two of them were envious before, so that they could appreciate each other's goodness.

Because when two people are still together, they always take each other's good for granted to them.

People who really live well are forgetful, who no longer pay attention to each other, who are busy with their own happiness, rather than busy showing happiness to anyone. Haha, maybe someone is talking to his current girlfriend, look! This is my ex-girlfriend, how does she look, she doesn't look good like you!!

I guess he wants to see if you will have a miserable life without him, and balance his own heart!

There must be a win or loss between lovers? There has to be a party in charge? If you love, tell him boldly, and if you don't, smile smartly!

Life is short, don't do things that you regret! If it is really unforgettable for you, there is no way to forget, then put everything away, work hard, face it bravely, fate is a very wonderful thing, sometimes you really need to grasp it, sometimes, a turn, is a lifetime!

Since they have all broken up, why tell him, it doesn't matter to him whether you are doing well or not, it means that you can't let go of him in your heart, right? Otherwise, you wouldn't want to tell him, just treat him as an ordinary friend, I had a two-year relationship, and after the breakup, I regret it very much, and I will think more about her good. After losing it, I know the value of what I have, and this is not false at all.

Even ordinary friends will want to know how each other is doing after breaking up, let alone men and women who have loved each other.

Don't say it, it's all over the page, don't look back when you go forward, don't go back if you're wrong, leave yourself some dignity needless to say! It's enough to show him! Try to live your life!

He's already an irrelevant person! If you give up a crooked neck tree, you'll find patches of forest! It can be seen from your words that you are not letting go.

There is no winning or losing in the relationship, only letting go or not letting go. It can be seen that the other party may not have come out of this relationship. Love is like a tornado, when it comes, it is out of control, and when it goes, it is silent and catches people off guard.

This may be the charm of feelings, which makes people wonder through. Love is like a tornado, when it comes, it is out of control, and when it goes, it is silent and catches people off guard. This may be the charm of feelings, which makes people wonder through.

In fact, you still have each other in your heart, if you still love each other, I think you should get back together with each other, communicate well, and don't let yourself regret it.

You can communicate with your ex-partner's friends and ask about the other person's current situation through the other person's side, so that it will not be too embarrassing.

You can make contact, come out to eat and chat with your friends in the name of your friends, and you can also find out how he is doing now through his friends.

In fact, this kind of behavior is very unnecessary, because they have broken up, there is no need to worry about each other, if you are really curious, you can learn about each other's current situation through mutual friends of two people.

If it's been three months since the breakup, and you still miss her, you should try to make amends.

If you really forget her or don't miss her much, then do your own thing seriously, don't think about it, if you still can't forget it, then go to her.

At least try to express your true thoughts, after expressing them, you will find that the result is no longer important, at least you will not regret that you didn't look for someone when you missed her so much.

If it's less than three months, stay up until three months!

Don't look at it as much as possible, because this will make him more and more important in your heart, and you will not be able to get rid of each other's life for the rest of your life.

It's not good, it's very bad for you and for him, I think you can do something else and forget about it.

You can take a look at his circle of friends or Weibo. You can also find out about other people's news through your mutual friends.

It shows that you still care about the other party very much in your heart, and you have not let go of this relationship, you should let go of this relationship and stop dwelling on the past.

You can ask the other party's boyfriend about it, or you can ** the other party's circle of friends, and you can see these questions.

You can ask some of his good friends to inquire about him. But try not to ask, it will make it more difficult for you to let go.

It shows that you still miss her, you can go out for a walk and see the scenery more often, so that you can forget about him well.

You should try to suppress your thoughts, and since you have broken up, you should not get too involved in the other person's life. This is very unreasonable.

Don't look at it, because after all, it's also in the past, and I want to go to him after seeing him having a bad time, but after seeing that he is doing well, I feel a little pity, so I should still divert my attention and eliminate this emotion.

You can check out his friends so you can find out how he's doing. But don't bother him.

You should take the initiative to contact the other party, you can greet the other party, and then ask the other party how they are usually doing.

Just take a look at it. This way you will have peace of mind, and then you will not think about your ex anymore, and you can concentrate on living your life to the fullest.

It shows that you have an unwilling psychology in your heart, so if you go out often to see the outside world, you will not have such thoughts.

Because when you are together, you take the other person's kindness to you for granted, and once you are separated, you will find that the good is only for you.

People are often like this, only after the breakup do they realize the good of the other party and feel the importance of the other party, so we must cherish the people around us.

Because many things are precious when they are lost, we don't care when we once had them.

First love, the first love, no love experience, ignorant, simple and cute enjoy the feeling of closeness between men and women, yes, anyone will be deeply involved, because of youth, so I don't know how to cherish, because of ignorance, so I don't know how to have, first love is to taste the sprout of love. When I grow up, I realize how naïve I am when I am a first-time mother or husband, thinking that I can only be with one woman or man for the rest of my life. Everything in the world is ever-changing, and there is nothing that remains the same, because people's hearts will change with their growth experiences, and their outlook on life and other three views will change, and in the end, even you will be surprised.

After the breakup of my first love, I was sad for a long time, and during the breakup, in order to inquire about her news (because I deleted my friends), I even created a small account to add her, to chat with her as a non-existent identity, to see her space, and pay attention to the bits and pieces of her life. Later, in less than half a year, she had a new boyfriend or girlfriend. At that moment, I broke down, I deleted everything related to her, and I did it so cleanly, I did it for more than a year without asking for any news from her.

From the moment I completely deleted her, it seemed that I really let go. This is something that young and righteous people will do, and I wonder if he or she is doing well lately? Of course, there are many kinds of results, so don't think about this, after all, you broke up, fate is over, and it's already a memory.

In the end, first love means to me the appearance of youth, precious and beautiful, no matter what the original result is, so there is no substitute, but it is best to let go of the present.

Rose. <> wedding seal.

Making yourself good after a breakup is an experience that makes you feel very confident and very proud.

After breaking up, you should be very happy, and you are no longer the person who is humble in love, and you can boldly start a new relationship.

Learn to be kind to yourself.

When it comes to treating yourself well when you don't experience a breakup, many people will disagree. When you have a breakup, sooner or later you will understand the importance of being kind to yourself. The four points mentioned above are actually a manifestation of treating yourself well, you have to be responsible for yourself, you are not in love, you are in love, you are not in love, you are not in love, you must be able to distinguish priorities.

After falling in love, not only should you be kind to each other and love, but you can't forget to be kind to yourself, all three are indispensable. And after a breakup, what you can do, what you should do, is to be kind to yourself. Don't disturb yourself, don't bother each other, don't be hypocritical, don't torture yourself, you are treating yourself well, you must never forget this, otherwise after love, you will only be left with pain.

You can only feel pain after a breakup, which in itself is an act of not treating yourself well.

When a love breaks up, you should learn to grow instead of holding on to the past. Only by being kind to yourself after a breakup can you learn to grow from love. If you can't do it, then you will be very painful to break up this time, and then if you break up next time, you will still have the same pain, because you have not grown, and the scar left by love has not let it scar, it will definitely hurt all the time.

There is a saying that being strong is a cocoon formed by hardships, and the same applies in love, you have to learn to grow and learn to be strong in order to be comfortable in love. If you can do this when it comes to love, then other aspects of your life will benefit immensely.