The relationship between the material, the temper, and the mother in law make our love on the verge

Marriage is a matter of two people, and you must let your small family break away from everyone and not be disturbed by everyone. Analyze the reason for the conflict between you, if it is because of the elders, it is recommended to quarrel and forget about the pleasure, because this can be avoided, as long as you are separated from everyone. When we have a break on Sunday, we will go home to see the old man, and if there is a disagreement, it is okay to deal with it politely, Bi Jing will just stay at home for a few hours, so why not endure it.

That's how I am, I used to live with my parents-in-law, there were always contradictions, I analyzed, as long as we were independent, the problem would be solved. We paid the down payment ourselves, paid off the loan ourselves, bought a house, and now there are a lot fewer contradictions, and my mood is much better. If the reason for your conflict comes from the two of you, you need to think about it carefully.

Love and marriage need to be tolerated, two people will always have differences, just see if they can tolerate each other. It is recommended to communicate well, seek common ground while reserving differences, and tolerate each other. As for the economic issue, it is complicated to say that it is complicated, and it is simple to say that my point of view is that there is a way to live with more money, and there is a way to live with less money and less money.

Thrifty housekeeping is a way of life, living in the moment and enjoying life is also a way, the two should complement each other, and a little concession will make your life balanced. The consumption concept of our husband and wife is very similar to yours, one is diligent and thrifty, and the other lives in the moment, we will let each other go, our life is not over-consumed, and there is no coarse tea and light food.

I'm almost the same as you, my future mother-in-law doesn't like me either, doesn't accept me, because my education is not as high as her son's, my work is not as good as her son's, my body is not as high as her requirements, and my face is not very beautiful, I was going to buy a house with my boyfriend, but my is not allowed, you say that you are depressed, and my boyfriend also loves online games, and he will hold the computer every day in college, and he will not dump me, because I don't know that I have quarreled many times, but now it's okay, he works, and he comes back late every day, and he has no time to play, This contradiction has eased a little, and when I encounter these problems, I really want to be annoyed, and I hate parting, so no matter what, as long as we still have love, we have to do our best to be happy, after all, it is not easy to meet a person who knows, loves, and promises, not that you can let go, work hard, I want to open, I believe you can too!

Actually, you can also think about it, in modern society, men and women are the same, it's really not good, you can raise him, let him be a housewife and man, you go to make money, but if you are a little woman, it's better to change to a man!!

1. You can't adapt to a life without money, he likes online games and is not very motivated at work, contradictory.

2, your husband has a violent temper, and he has been patient with you before marriage, and he will explode sooner or later.

3. Your mother-in-law doesn't like you.

There is no need to save your love, and you can't get married for long.

Being diligent and thrifty, on the other hand, means that you are extravagant and wasteful, and you are lazy to eat. It's scary to get married...

Marriage is your own business, happiness is earned by yourself, as long as the two of you insist, never compromise, and unyielding, mother-in-law has no choice! In addition, the main thing is that your husband should communicate more with his mother, in addition to these, you should also do more filial piety to your mother-in-law, so that she can see that you are a sensible, benevolent, and reasonable good daughter-in-law

I don't understand what you're talking about, mother-in-law, who are you referring to, is it his mother, you are all called mother-in-law before you get married.

Of course, it is to find the reason for her objection, and then, to prescribe the right medicine.

Try to distance yourself from him, so that you and him have some space to adjust your mindset. Women are more mature and careful than men at the same age, and they are more suitable for being younger than you. And this is precisely what men will not learn and are unwilling to accept.

They always feel that they stand at 30, and they are only mature at the age of 30, and they just neglect women, so they are often like an ignorant child, surround you, and get angry with you at the same time, making you worry and be angry. Relax your heart, he will care for you if he loves you, and even if your future mother-in-law doesn't like you, he will be on your side. If he just relies on you, persuade you to give up this love without an ending, it will only be you who is sad and desperate, on the contrary, he will laugh at your stupidity, everyone must have one or two hobbies, no smoking or drinking, only like the Internet.

Why is he so justified?? Because he thinks that he is better enough than people with bad customs, why don't you learn his mentality and deliberately make a hobby to anger him?? If he cares about you, he will value himself and change himself.

On the contrary, he will not discover your hobbies, let alone persuade you. Think about it, don't regret it after you get married, when you entered his house, into a world that was not just your 2, when there were more contradictions, and there were fewer people who spoke for you

Hehe, if you look at this as a thing, it's a thing.

You're thinking too much, and you're asking for more than he can give. Girl, don't always think about other people's shortcomings, properly review yourself, and whether you need to correct it. Judging by your temperament, you two are not suitable.

You're just used to having him together. If you want to get married, both parties have to change and run in well.

Don't complain about anyone, "a hard work, a harvest, there is nothing in the world that is not earned", you don't pay just wait for the harvest, do you think it is possible, everyone's success is obtained through hard work, although you like freedom, but you can't be free every day, don't blame anyone, let alone blame anyone, you can't put everything on others, you complain about who you first check yourself. First sweet and then bitter, this is the world's hard work with the hard work of the people, so I advise you not to think about the unattainable, you first do your job well, and really make money.

Girls generally prefer loyal, honest guys to flowery ones, you know.

The first lesson is to chase girls.,Of course, you have to know the girl's code first.,Secondly,It's to have that meaning to her.。

No tricks... I'll pick it up.

That is, you can't talk about it, which means that the right one for you hasn't come out yet, and the fate has not arrived.

I've seen this too, but I'm really embarrassed, I can't remember, it seems to be "The Reader", and the movie has also been acted. In the movie version, you are talking about one of the plots, the mother-in-law doesn't seem to be dead, and after knowing that her daughter-in-law is pregnant, she was immediately discharged from the hospital and waited for her daughter-in-law. It is "The Secret" played by Sun Hao and Tao Hong.

People have a thousand faces, and it is normal to have such a mother-in-law, there are many unfortunate things in the world, how can there be a perfect thing. Your family's economic conditions are also good, and no matter how perfect the family relationship is, God will be too kind to you. I read what you said, in fact, it's not a big problem, mother-in-law is a blessing to be good to you, and it's normal not to help you, just like the cubs in the animal kingdom grow up and want to be independent on their own.

You can't change others, but you can change your mind. There are some problems, you can solve them by yourself, don't bother the elderly, the weaknesses in human nature, everyone will have them, but your mother-in-law is obvious. Your husband is a nice person, cherish it.

Money is not a problem anymore.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been difficult to maintain. There's nothing to talk about, don't worry about the mean mother-in-law, live your own life!

I'm also a married woman, although my mother-in-law is not as mean as your mother-in-law, but we will still have quarrels, but we will all learn to let each other, so that it will not embarrass the husband, I think you don't live with your mother-in-law, just live your own life, not together, there will be no quarrels, usually buy some gifts for her occasionally, what is not good to say mother-in-law. Discuss it with your husband to see if there is a solution.

After reading your story, some information is incomplete, such as: How old is your mother-in-law? Is liver disease cured? How many sisters do you have? Are they all married? Is there labor insurance? Is there health insurance? These factors are all related to what he did.

Does your husband think he has a relationship with you? How he doesn't redeem you.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult relationship in the world, whether it is Chinese or foreign. Learn to tolerate, learn to treat your mother-in-law as your own mother, learn to respect, learn to understand, allow your mother-in-law to complain, and a small temper is what a smart woman should do. When you take a baby who has been raised by a person for more than twenty years away from her, you can imagine his feelings.

As long as you don't focus on yourself, but on your mother-in-law, the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be good. After there is a conflict, the daughter-in-law should take the initiative to ease the conflict first. Dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be a woman's success.