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Tips for getting along and chatting with the opposite sex.
1. Establish a topic library.
Analysis: Have you ever noticed that when you are talking about a piece of history with great interest, your brain suddenly short-circuits, and you don't know what to say! This is caused by the accumulation of too little material and no dry goods in the head.
Suggestion: a wide range of topics, topics to chat with the opposite sex, topics to chat with different groups of people, funny topics, and strange topics; Integrate fragmented information effectively so that you don't get stuck when communicating with others.
2. Consider the problem from the other side's point of view.
Analysis: In a chat, the opposite sex spits lotus flowers about the company's management, but it seems that the person sitting on the other side doesn't seem to care about the company's deception, so the person becomes self-justifying and very embarrassing.
Suggestion: Chat with the opposite sex to talk about different topics of interest, which will greatly enhance the interest of the opposite sex and you to chat, you have to imagine yourself as the opposite sex way of thinking, everything is emotional, understand the other party's feelings, stand in the opposite sex and chat with her, the topic will be opened.
Psychological suggestion: 1. Is this really the case when she is talking about?
2. What would I do if something like this happens?
3. I think it will be more reliable to do this.
Conclusion: After chatting with each other, you need to pay attention to some small details, pay attention to each other's social platforms, and it is also a good conversation point, and you should relax when chatting, and usually watch more small jokes and humorous jokes, so that the chat is carried out in a relaxed and joyful atmosphere.
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When a woman says that she can be bored, she can look at her mobile phone, look at Kuaishou, look at Douyin, and watch TV, which can solve the problem of boredom.
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Then I will accompany you to do what you want to do.
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When chatting with girls, if the girl says that it is boring, it actually contains a lot of meaning, mainly in combination with the context at the time, do not misunderstand, otherwise it is easy to have a big misunderstanding. The girl said that she was bored and should reply like this:
1. Choose like-minded things to date together
When a girl tells you that she is so bored, sometimes she is actually hinting that you take the initiative to ask her out, understand? At this time, you have to quickly turn your brain - analyze what girls usually like to do and play. For example, if this girl likes to sing, then you can ask her to go to KTV to howl together, and she likes to play games, so you can ask her to go to the Internet café together; She likes to play badminton, so you ask her to go to the gym PK; She loves to swim, so get your magnifying glass ready to look at the swimsuit ......
In short, it's just one word - about! It's best to ask a girl to do something that interests her, and if the girl doesn't have any hobbies, then ask her out for dinner!
2. Try to find out the topics that girls are interested in
In the process of chatting with girls, if you are always asking for girls' information, the daily chat content is like a running account, either asking what the girl is doing, or being courteous, then when the girl says that you are bored, it shows that you are bored.
When a girl thinks that you are boring, it is very dangerous, as an emotionally dominant creature, she hopes to be emotionally happy in the chat, and when the girl is bored with you, you have to understand that what you say makes the girl feel bored, and you have to switch the topic to talk about some girls who are interested.
3. Share interesting things recently
Since girls are bored, then you have to play the role of a good clown, tell a joke, tell a story, and talk about a joke to make the girl happy. If you only rely on telling jokes, even if it is useful for a while, it will quickly become useless, and at worst, you will become a position in the relationship between the two of you who is responsible for telling jokes. So the most important thing is to be handsome!
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1. The girl said that she was bored, it was very simple, you replied "Me too", and then the two of you were bored together, how good! Indirectly, it's two people together. After all, there are so many boring people, and it just happens that the two of you can get together.
2. Who is bored? Do you want me to accompany you to him?
3, don't you still have me, if you want to be bored, I'll be bored with you, if you have nothing to do, come out to play in the afternoon! (I'm speaking in your tone.......))
4. Girls say that they are bored, you first need to distinguish whether the girl is **! Therefore, many times girls say that they are bored, and some boys come up and say, "I'm here to accompany you"...
If so, there's a good chance you'll end up with either a spare tire or a fish.
5. Girls say they are bored, and boys need to understand what girls mean before replying. The first one, she may not really want to say that you are boring, it is similar to the kind of disdain, most of the time she thinks you are cute, I think boys can continue to pretend to be cute and arrogant, for example: Hmph, I'm bored?
Obviously you don't understand! Or go on (this is for boys who don't have a strong desire to survive hahahahahaha).
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Hello, if a girl says she's bored to death, you ask her if she wants to go out and play, or if she has time, and play games together.
The premise of going out is that you have money, like this girl, and you have time.
Questions. She doesn't play games and is far away from me.
Hello, at this time, the girl just wants you to coax her, chat with her, or make her happy, you can tell her interesting things.
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When a girl says it's boring, it doesn't have to be really boring. This is the time to show your high emotional intelligence, not why you are bored.
You can chat with her, go shopping, play games, and discuss lipstick numbers. The boredom of girls at this time needs your company to be patient. Not casual perfunctory and indifferent.
If you really belong to the type of straight man of steel, then don't say more, put patience and companionship into practice. In this way, the boredom of girls will be solved. If you're considerate enough, then I'd suggest you take more girls to try something new.
This freshness relieves the loneliness of boredom. To sum up, in practice, companionship is the most affectionate confession!
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The woman has a weak appearance, but her mind is reticulated and sensitive. Imaginative and suspicious. Sometimes it's hard to tell whether it's a dream or a reality, and the transition between happiness and crying is a blink of an eye.
So, men can't understand how women behave in a fight:
I like to turn over old accounts so much, and I can think of such vicious words. How did the ladies of the past become in the blink of an eye?
All I want is a little tenderness. You don't agree to this, and I'm too shameless. Admit your mistakes, as long as you admit your mistakes, I will forgive you immediately.
And women can't understand what men behave in a quarrel, women always think wishfully:
Although I like to compare you to others, it's not because I like you. Otherwise, how could I be nice to you! You don't love me at all.
And the logic of men is: You say that others are good, so why do you want to follow me? Since you don't trust me, why do we need to talk about it?
Since you are in charge of everything, every time you are in front of your friends, I can't get off the stage. What does it mean for us to be together? It is true that the longer the lovelorn is, the more painful the man becomes, and he cannot start a new relationship for a long time.
Let's assume such a situation, suppose a woman what she will do if she falls out of love, she will cry, make trouble, find all her friends to confide in, feel that she is extremely painful, but if a man falls out of love, most of the time we will not be able to see it, that is, he will not say that he will not make trouble, nor can we see him crying, at most smoking and drinking. It is easy to have the impression that women are actually very nostalgic and very emotional, and men are a little wolf-hearted and a little indifferent, but if this thing goes forward, you will find that half a year later, the women who were crying and can't live can not live, she quickly fell in love with a good-looking male colleague who came to the unit, and then the two of them happily started a new relationship! And this man still looks like nothing has happened, and the silence is golden, but he has never entered a new relationship!
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You just reply to the meme.
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If a woman says you're boring, it may be because she doesn't find your words or actions interesting or attractive, or she feels that you lack the ability to pay attention or understand her discreetness. In response, you can consider the following:
Listen to her thoughts and give them affirmation. You can say, "Thank you for your feedback, I'd like to hear your thoughts." Please tell me what you think isn't interesting enough or that could be improved. ”
Provide more interesting topics or activity suggestions. You can share something that you find interesting or bring up topics and activities that you think will be of interest to her. This can lead to dialogue and increase the enjoyment of communication.
Try to understand her interests and needs, and give her more attention and support. You can ask her what she's been up to lately or what her favorite things are to get an idea of her needs and interests. And try to understand her as much as possible, give her more attention and support.
Think carefully about your own words and actions and see if there is anything you can improve. Maybe it's because you need to be more proactive in trying new things or pay more attention to the other person's feelings and needs.
In conclusion, you can respond to her words with a positive, understanding attitude to promote better communication and mutual understanding.
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