My husband doesn t have a job, and I m in a hurry!!

You can understand how you feel. However, things still need to be treated rationally. My advice to you is, give him a little more time, and give him more constructive advice, such as temporary part-time work, or apply for a few more similar jobs, in short, the life of the husband and wife should be discussed between the husband and wife, dear friends, don't worry, don't be afraid, believe in your husband, believe in yourself, believe in life, believe in love.

Well, that's all I have to say, I hope it can help you somewhat, if you still have questions, you can always ask questions, I believe that all enthusiastic friends, including me, will do their best to help you! Goodbye, best wishes!

In fact, it is normal to not find a suitable job within a month, he should be more anxious, maybe he has a soft spot for the company he interviewed, so he is more indifferent to other job opportunities, if you put so much pressure on your husband at this time, it is not appropriate, this is similar to forcing him to do something he is not willing to do.

If you really believe that he really has that strength, you don't have to worry about him There is an old Chinese saying that gold can shine in ** As long as he has real skills, he is not afraid of not finding a good job Maybe there will be a more suitable job in wait.

I'm thinking, you're all going back to China, are you still going to find a permanent job?

People are inert, and increasing motivation is not to threaten and backfire, but to encourage.

Yes, don't be in too much of a hurry, try more, you will always find the right job. You don't usually put too much pressure on your husband.

Then cry. Lend you a shoulder.

Over time, we can see people's hearts and know horsepower.

Let's talk to him.

Love is the heaviest, and money is second.

Resolve it calmly and don't use drastic methods.

Let him submit more resumes and try it at the job fair.

You are going to return to China, are you very sick?

Take your time and everything will be fine.

You're going to stress him a lot of money.

You have to make him independent, after all, now that he has a family, he should know the burden on his shoulders, he can't go on like this, you as a wife, you are the best persuader, so you should still communicate well.

It's not easy for two people to walk together, so don't get divorced.

He has this character, but it's good to you, don't get divorced, there are some things you can't do, it's over, you don't want to find another one, and you're not sure of it.

He needs to be trained, and you have to teach him more about how to behave and behave.

In fact, it's enough for him to be nice to you, and I think that just rushing this point can beat a lot of men.

This can only be blamed on his dad, the flowers in the greenhouse, if there is anything to deal with in the future, let him deal with it in the future, don't interfere and exercise him slowly.

If you find a strong man, you two will have to quarrel, and neither of you will obey anyone.

You won the lottery and found a family man, and you can't change your personality if you have a stereotype. If you have children, you have to bring big children and small children.

If you have a bad interpersonal relationship, you will get divorced.

You're outside the home, she's inside the home, what a good partner! Why are you leaving?

Choose your own, not to mention that these habits have already been born, as long as they are good to you, no one is perfect.

It's not easy to live in peace and learn to make him change It's not easy to be together.

As long as the money is enough, if you don't go out to work together, you take care of him.

Marriage cannot be accommodated. Leave early while you're young.

Get away for a moment and let him be independent.

Be tolerant and patient, and live a good life.

Now that you know that he is such a person, why did you marry him in the first place, and now you say such things, what did you do in the first place?

Don't leave! How difficult it is to get married!

Let him be a soldier, and he can train him.

Then you are outside the Lord, and he is in the Lord, and farewell.

You are already husband and wife, in fact, many things can be brought up to communicate well, and then you can take him around in your spare time to learn to communicate; Then learn more about yourself, enrich yourself, and then you also change the way you communicate with him. Exercise more, study more, and encourage more, so that after a period of perseverance, there will definitely be changes, although it is difficult to completely change a person's nature. You can't make a hasty decision about this kind of thing, you know best what you want, what is the current situation, think about it!

I've had a friend of mine with this question. How to say it, it is not easy to meet a sincere person who is good to yourself, and when you choose the other party, you must learn to tolerate some of the shortcomings of the other party. If you can't do this, then you teach him slowly, or you can be stronger.

I really can't stand it, think about what kind of life you need most, whether it can bring you hope. Divorce hurts each other and the family a lot, and if you can't hold on, you can only leave, and it's hard to say about emotional things. It's just that getting married has one more responsibility, think about it carefully, and good luck!

He's afraid of your situation. Love is not a worry.

Possessiveness and control are also because they care too much about you.

He is self-pitying, afraid that you will run away!

Maybe he's worried about you''If you have something, you have to say it.

It depends on his own conditions. If you don't have much education, you can do small jobs and make a lot of money, and men should endure some hardships to support their families. If you graduate from college and can't find a job, you can do sales first, this job is flexible, and the salary depends on your ability.

If you are more introverted, you can also find a clerical job, or send emails.

Look at his work experience and what he wants to do, I am in personnel, and now the budget industry is very good, especially civil engineering, the work is very high, generally 3 years of work experience, there are thousands of salaries, 2 years of thousands of people. If you have no experience, you can apply for a class certificate

It's hard to find a good job, you can do it if you open a **, you can do it on the ground, the important thing is to put it down, in order to survive, face is worthless.

It's good to do it! Anyway, it's okay to be at home, it's more comfortable, no worse than going to work.

It depends on what he does, and what kind of specialty he has. It's better to look for it according to your favorite industry. It's still relatively easy to find a job now, as long as the requirements are not too high. Hope mine can help you, thanks.

How old is your husband? If you give him a job, how long will he be able to do it? If you are a college student who is about to go to college or a part-time student who is working in the summer, you should go to a hotel to work.

Going to the construction site, making a lot of money, and spending more time with you, is more tiring.

Encourage your husband to look for a job! Let him do what he does best. Do the work you love.

Nonsense, how can I have time to accompany my wife when I go to the construction site. You should ask your husband what kind of job he wants to have, and then look for it on the local talent network.

In fact, it's good to find a job that suits you, no matter what kind of job you do first, and accumulate experience.

As long as you are a hardworking person, you have a lot of ...... workBu is going to raise him, or you will regret it.

In fact, there is a lot of work, it depends on how he treats his relatives.

He will do what he will do.

With the development of social economy, people's living standards have been greatly improved, and the requirements for diet are getting higher and higher. You can choose to learn to cook.

- - Love him or not, you should ask yourself. Based on what you've described, I think you're a bit of that sign.

I would like to advise you, since the two of you are walking together, this is fate. You should communicate more with your husband and communicate calmly. Based on what you said, you give me the feeling that you don't know your husband very well!!

Most women are fragile, and it is normal to always want to find someone to rely on after marriage, but your husband can't share the pressure for you and even he may still be attached to you, but don't complain that you haven't found a good husband or divorce or something, you need to encourage and support each other, think more about your husband's good, not smart men are the most reliable, at least he will never leave you, those smart men may not be good to you, in fact, many women say where are good men dead, I want to say that your current husband is a good man, Learn to cherish !!

That I think it's because of time In fact, the landlord can carefully observe his cute side Many things in life are to understand each other You can also talk to him You must know that communication is the best way to resolve quarrels, you think it's not easy to come together Finally, it's not as good as getting married This is something that is envied by more or less people If it's really because of impulse to separate, it should be worrying.

Dress yourself up in unlimited scenery, and make sure that your husband will pour it for you, and you can do anything.

Divorce, tell your husband to eat more Wei*

In the same way, many times it feels like he is really incompetent.

I think this is a personal problem, this matter is mainly to have that consciousness on your own, now I think you can only start from the aspect of loving you, since he loves you and doesn't want you to be wronged, you can think of a way to deal with this aspect.

Tell him that if you can always have a good salary, it doesn't matter how much money you make, but you are already married and will have children soon, and if you are pregnant and can't make money, you will have a miserable life, so try to encourage him to find a job!

Communication is the bridge to solve all problems, you can try to do it with your husband on the job of this thing, no one is born to make money, since you choose to be together, you should understand what kind of person he is, kind, loyal, down-to-earth or other, all of the above you said, you can completely use the family meeting in this relaxed way to **, set goals, confirm responsibilities.

Finally, I wish you all happiness!

Since you have chosen him, you should believe in and tolerate him more than anyone else, he only has you, if you don't say it, he is also anxious, you should talk to him, and everyone will find a way together.

If I really love you, I won't be where I am now.

No one is perfect, as an independent individual, he has his own thinking, life values, he has his, you have yours.

If you can think about it from the other person's point of view, then it's even better, your husband loves you, you have a good temper, these are the advantages that you recognize, but you want him to change the parts that you think are shortcomings, and you want him to go out to work. If a person changes positively, it is usually the internal factors that are at work, that is, he himself feels the need to change, and the external factors also have a role, but only to a limited extent.

My personal advice: accept your dear husband and love him if his behavior makes you feel dissatisfied or gives you insecurity communicate with him slowly and calmly so that he understands you.

Encourage him to go out and look for a job, and talk about the difficulties you are about to face.

Then you can make money together by taking an opportunity through your choice.

It's always been like this, why do you still live with him?

In fact, life is so ordinary! Plain is true!

You are a vain partner, you have this contradiction, and if you don't solve it, the next contradiction will be sharp, and if you want to leave, what's the use of his parents being good to you? You've lived with your husband for the rest of your life, not his parents, o.

It's not worth it to be with such a husband, and there is no sense of responsibility at all.

Think clearly, if your husband doesn't work hard, according to your personality, it's a good thing to divorce early.