What s the most self inflicted thing you ve ever experienced?

What was the thing you had been amorous about in the past, it was also a kind of falling in love.

Seeing that others are working very slowly, I think I should help him, but people don't appreciate it at all. Say you can do it.

When I was in college, I liked a girl for a long time, but she only took me as a friend, and after chasing me for a few years, it ended hastily.

In life, we can judge whether we are self-inflicted by our contact with each other. For example, when we are in contact with the other party, if the other party does not reject us, it means that the other party has a little status in our hearts. In addition, if the other party takes into account our feelings in some things, it also shows that the other party cares about themselves very much.

How can you tell? Is it self-inflicted? It depends on whether there is any interaction between you and the other party, and whether the other party responds to your overtures.

It's not about judging for yourself, it's about judging based on the other person's reaction and facts.

Because the two are indispensable.

So, it's not like who says it's like that, but it also has to be based on facts!

You can see if others have some reciprocating behavior when they are good to others, if not, it is self-inflicted.

You can look at the other party's attitude, if the other party has a perfunctory attitude, it must be your own sentimentality, and you should be restrained.

In our daily life, there have been glorious brilliance, as well as carelessness, and embarrassing moments, but have you ever encountered a moment when you feel that you are self-inflicted, you are worried about someone, so you go to help him, and then in the end you find that this matter does not need to be helped at all, and this matter has been handled by many people, and you find that you are self-inflicted. I'm sure you've all had similar experiences.

It's like, suddenly walking on the street and someone calls you, you still look back stupidly, who you know, only to find that no one calls you at all, it is your own passion, then you feel that the eyes of passers-by are all on you alone, as if you are looking at a fool. This is one of my delusions, and the other is that I feel like a guy is watching me all the time.

For example, on the basketball court, on social software, on the street, it seems that there is a handsome guy watching him, and he feels that he is the most beautiful boy in the world, and anyone will bow down under my pomegranate skirt, which is my illusion two. The third point of the illusion is that when others are discussing a topic, they only don't discuss it with you, as if they are scolding themselves, and when they are ready to compete with each other, they find that this is not the case, and there are countless greetings in their hearts.

I believe that the majority of sand sculptures in the country will generally appear in the psychological belief, there must be more than one me, now I think about it is really embarrassing to throw home, those clumsy like actors, it is simply ridiculous, these are just a few of them, I don't know what else you have interesting? Just

You are a sensitive person, at least emotionally.

As a young person, it is understandable that you want to be more conspicuous and want to be outstanding, obviously, you don't understand and are curious compared to girls of the same age.

However, girls of the same age are more mature than men.

So, to give you a suggestion, if you are eye-to-eye with a girl, just think about it psychologically, don't analyze it calmly.

There is no need to analyze, reason can't suppress the mania of adolescence, this period will be difficult, if a girl likes you, she may be very clingy to you, and she may hate you very much.

So you guess and guess, it's really not necessary.

Of course, sometimes I think that a colleague is very good, very suitable for making friends, and cares about and takes care of him, but he may not appreciate it, but will laugh at you.

Often! For example, others are actually listening, but you think they are talking to you, and you only find out that you are being amorous after you respond.

Yes. I feel like I'm helping someone else or something. In fact, it's just nosy, and others don't appreciate it.

Yes, my colleague is uncomfortable and warm, and I feel that others are a little annoyed and feel that I am doing too much.

That's normal. Almost everyone will encounter it.

It's normal, everyone should have it.

People are very narcissistic, so they all like to idealize something, it's human instinct!

Men are always amorous at night and especially drinking.

I did a lot of things for each other, thinking that the other person actually liked me.

It's a feeling of being powerless, and I don't want to be amorous, and I can't help it.

I feel very good, but in the eyes of others, it may be just a joke.

It's embarrassing to think I'm important, but I'm nothing.

Very embarrassed, feeling so tired and depressed.

When he looked around, he thought he was looking at me.

One of the three major illusions in life: he likes me!

My heart is very sour, everything I do is for you, but you say that I am self-inflicted.

I was very distressed and felt very tired.

Every one of her words, I thought it was sent to me.

I once waited for her in the winter car for three hours, bought bread and milk tea, she went to the movies with her friends, and went back with her friends when it was over, I called ** to ask what was going on, she said, it's okay, you can go back by yourself, so I found out that I was a spare tire, but I was too self-inflicted.

Many, the most impressive is the third year of junior high school, when the class and class faced the high school entrance examination, living outside, many girls play together, sometimes washing clothes and washing the clothes that others want to wash, one day a girl was eating and had a headache, I said you rub your temples hard, and then I wanted to reach out and show her, but she slapped her hand back, the feeling at the time, I remember it for a lifetime, and later, when I went to the toilet, she and her previous class (before the merger was also a class) girl, I went in and said that being good to others has a purpose, maybe I was more sensitive at the time, and I felt that the words were talking about me, because the whole toilet was only me except for them, and then I thought about it later, in fact, it is not necessary that you are good to others, others will be good to you, on the contrary, people will think that your purpose is not pure, at that time we were only 16-7 years old, rural schools, how can children think so not pure, in fact, we are good to others for a purpose, because we hope that others will be equally good to us, more than ten years have passed in a blink of an eye, I don't know if they're good now.

It was an ignorant age. When I came home from the summer vacation of the military school, my parents said that my relatives introduced an object, who was studying at the Normal College, and was in line with our family. My shoes were so polished that I could see the shadows, my hair was erected by the gel water, and after applying some moisturizer to my face, I walked towards my destination with my parents.

The girl is nice and generous. helped her parents sell groceries, and when they saw me, they smiled sweetly at me. This smile made my heart as sweet as honey, rolled up my sleeves and disregarded the image, helping to lift the goods, move the goods, and get on the car, and did it in full swing, for more than two hours.

Towards lunchtime, the girl motioned for me to come and talk, thinking she would invite me to dinner. Unexpectedly, she said: I have a boyfriend, and you must have a girlfriend, all in order not to make it difficult for my parents, thank you for helping me today.

Over the years, we have all started a family. Now that I think about it, I will be intimidated by my own emotional intelligence. ‍‍

As the saying goes, what is more painful than falling out of love is wishful thinking, and what hurts more than ruthlessness is self-inflicted amorousness! However, people are very easy to be self-inflicted, especially when you like someone, you can't help but pay attention to everything about her. A casual look in her eyes will make you think about it, you will speculate for a long time about every word she says to you, thinking about whether there is any other deep meaning, and every dynamic in her circle of friends You are even more out of the attitude of reading comprehension, pondering repeatedly, far-fetched to have a relationship with you.

The brain always likes to think in terms of its own benefit, and with more brain supplements, it is easy to conclude that she has also had a crush on me for a long time? Just too shy to admit it?

Is she waiting for my confession? She is fierce to you, you say that beating is kissing and scolding is love, her attitude towards you is a little more relaxed, you will be happy, she ignores you, you say that she is pretending to be reserved, waiting for you to take the initiative. Finally, one day, you mustered up the courage to confess to her, but she just looked confused, "Classmate, what is your name?"

Do we know each other? "Therefore, I would rather not understand the amorous feelings in the future, and never be sentimental. ‍‍

Colleagues went to eat together, the old colleague sitting next door has been chatting with me, chatting for a long time began to eat and put, he told me what the dish is nutritious, which dish is delicious, and finally there is a plum cabbage button meat, he said I am thinner, to eat more, and then he picked up a large piece of meat, I thought he was going to give it to me, so I quickly told him that I don't eat fatty meat, you're welcome, I'll come by myself. Unexpectedly, he said impatiently: I want to eat it myself.

Then there is one thing, my brother opened a factory, we have been working in my brother's factory, no shares, it is there earlier than the chicken, do more than the cow, come back the latest, my brother does not care about us, so always very sad, but my mother has been forcing us to do it in the factory, because we are there my mother is more assured, so this matter has been unhappy in my heart, I know that we have always been self-inflicted in my brother's heart, if it were not for my mother, I really don't want to go at all.

Once I was doing a bus, there were a lot of empty seats. A girl in the corner looked at me, and I sat down next to her without hesitation. I just wanted to talk cheekily, but people rolled their eyes and avoided me and sat aside. I'm so embarrassed.

When I was in college, I liked a boy who tried hard to pursue it, but ignored me, this experience was really painful.

I got along very well with a girl next to me, I thought people liked me, but I was slapped in the face when I confessed.

Self-inflicted affection is probably one of the most embarrassing experiences in the world, when you are in the midst of excitement and happiness, when a basin of cold water is poured on your head, you are at a lossI don't even know how to alleviate this embarrassment, so try not to be the kind of person who is self-inflicted, which will only add embarrassment to yourself and add laughter to others.

So I used to be self-inflicted, I used to study very well in the class, and it was a common thing to take the first place, so every time the exam teacher announced the results, I was very confident, looking at the teacher with anticipation, and the classmates would also look at me, they seemed to know that the top of every exam was almost the same, and I had no suspense, so I also took the first place as my exclusive thing is a natural thing.

That day, the teacher was going to announce the ranking, the third prize first and then the first prize, I hadn't read the name of the first place, the teacher said that I needed to go to the front to say two words, I just stood up and wanted to go to the stage, but at this time it was embarrassing, when the teacher read out the name, that person was not me, and I was about to walk to the podium, how embarrassing it was at that time, maybe only I knew that I was going forward or backward, nor was I blushing to the base of my neck, and I wanted to find a crack to get into.

I was very happy, but after this incident, I had a shadow in my heart, and whenever the teacher announced the results, I was very panicked and scared.

Of course, I have had such an experience, and I feel a little embarrassed, and I don't know how to answer in my heart.

It's embarrassing to say now, but at the time, I was at a loss, and I can say that I was confused.

All kinds of contradictory feelings, as if they have passed in front of me, anxious and irritable, unstoppable, helpless!

It's self-inflicted. That is. Think too highly of yourself. In fact, people really don't care very much.

At that time, he said that he would go to college with me, and I did, but in the end he held the hand of the other girl.

I feel like a fool, being played by others every day.

It's an awkward experience, you're affectionate and unrighteous, and he doesn't know it yet.

It's a little embarrassing, you have affection for her unintentionally!