How can we get along with each other to make love last longer?

Love is inclusive rather than indulgent, love is caring rather than pampering, love is intermingling rather than unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness. True love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others But the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other is to make each other's lives better and silently dedicate This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts True love is when you can love, know how to cherish True love is when you can't love, know how to let go Because, letting go is to have everything....Please love well when you cherish it When you let go, bless it well....True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm.

On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words. Feel it with your heart Be tolerant, caring, and leave a private space for each other Be honest, think about your own badness first if you want to quarrel It should be no big problem, but it is difficult to do.

The way couples get along is very important, and it has to do with the question of how far apart they go together or how quickly they separate. Below I will talk about the following three aspects of how to get along with couples in order to go far.

1.Respect each other.

The most important thing for couples to get along with each other is to respect each other. Respect is not only in words, but also in deeds. The following analogy can be used:

If two people are two ends of a rope, then respect is the foundation of this rope, and without respect, the rope will break. For example, when one of the parties puts forward their own ideas and opinions, the other party listens carefully and gives affirmation or advice, rather than directly denying or ridiculing the other party. At the same time, we should also follow the principle of equality and mutual benefit when dealing with problems, and do not let one person always compromise and pay.

2.Grow together.

Couples should also have goals and plans for growing together. These goals and plans can be small things in a relationship, or long-term life plans. The following analogy can be used:

Couples are like two seeds that need to work together to thrive. For example, you can support each other in their studies and work, learn new knowledge or try new skills together, and explore future directions and plans together. This will not only enhance the relationship between the two people, but also cultivate a more energetic and pursuing relationship.

3.Good communication.

Finally, couples need to have good communication channels and ways with each other. Only through good communication can we better understand each other's ideas and needs, solve problems in a timely manner, and avoid breakdowns due to certain problems. In communication, we should pay more attention to doing what we say, and we must do what we promise to do.

It can be used as an analogy: a couple is like a river, it needs to be smooth and orderly, otherwise it will be clogged. For example, you can communicate regularly, and the content of communication is not limited to daily trivialities, but also includes each other's feelings and ideas, and solutions to common problems.

To sum up, the mode of getting along with couples needs to be based on mutual respect, mutual growth, and good communication. As long as both of them can abide by the above principles, they can go further and roll their love into the dust to the end.

1. Ignore the other half and never take the initiative to contact the other party.

There is a conflict, many people refuse to communicate, preferring a life of sulking. He also ignores his other half and never takes the initiative to contact the other party, which will only deepen the conflict between the two people. Originally, the two of them were angry, and everyone made a love and ignorance look, so such a relationship will eventually be shattered.

2. I never thought about communicating well, let alone communicating with each other.

Good communication is the foundation of a good relationship, and only communication can promote a closer relationship between two people. Once there is a conflict or misunderstanding between lovers, some people always like to think that they are not at fault, and the fault is with each other. If you don't want to communicate well with each other, and you don't want to communicate with each other, then such contradictions and misunderstandings will never be resolved, and will only get deeper and deeper.

3. Refuse to change your shortcomings, get by, and fool your life.

Some couples, both parties will not think about each other and refuse to change the shortcomings they both know, thinking that the other party can't accept their own shortcomings is not loving themselves, and they must accept their own shortcomings. Turning a blind eye to their own shortcomings, getting by, and fooling life. Then such a relationship is a needle-to-needle relationship for both parties, and it will not end well.

4. I'm like this, if I can stand it, I can bear it, and if I can't stand it, forget it.

Ming quietly smiled and knew his shortcomings, and put on an arrogant face, I am like this, I can bear it if I can stand it, and forget it if I can't stand it. I believe that the vast majority of couples who have this kind of problem and put on such an attitude will eventually fall apart.

In fact, looking at the above behaviors comprehensively, we can summarize the model as: "self-centered psychology". What couples need is communication, not stinky shelves.

Whether you really love each other or not is not to put yourself in the center, but to put the other half in the center. I found the contradictions and problems between the two people in daily life, and quickly communicated to avoid the deepening of the misunderstanding, which is indeed my own problem, and I quickly corrected it without the other party raising it, so that the other party knew that he loved him and put him in the center of my heart. In this way, whether it is a couple or a husband and wife, with sufficient communication and putting each other in a position that is enough to restart the mausoleum, then many problems will be solved.