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Quite rightly, the family is also part of society, not a place outside the law. We must be guided by the law in everything we do.

The family is also governed by the law.

With such parents, the children are so pitiful, they are all troubled by money, the road to a well-off life is really difficult, the road to prosperity is even more difficult, life is not easy, and cherish it.

Customs clearance is indeed difficult to cut off family affairs, but it does not mean that the parents in the family can command their children casually.

I think that's true, because if there is a conflict in your family, you will definitely be punished to a certain extent.

There is nothing wrong with what you say. It's hard for a clean official to cut off family affairs. Who can tell you that clearly? Yes, it is not an extrajudicial thing to start a family. But the law on domestic violence is objective. But if there is a Cold War, it will not be possible to solve the problem with you.

For a family to live in harmony, it must respect each other, tolerate each other, understand each other, and support each other. If no one understands anyone and respects anyone, then the family will not be particularly harmonious.

You're right, it's not a housework, it's clearly defined. And marrying depends on whether you like it or not, you must stick to your own principles, and it's a big deal to go out to work by yourself.

Yes, although it is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs, if you do something unreasonable, you will also be punished, so think clearly when doing things and carefully consider that the family is one. Warm harbor, don't be your place of injury.

Nowadays, there are many people who maximize the value of their daughter's interests, that is, to exchange the happiness of their daughter's life for such a small benefit, which is simply unworthy of being a parent.

The matter you just said has involved illegal crimes, because our country stipulates that women can only get married when they are at least 20 years old, so this is already a serious violation of law and discipline, which can be dealt with by the relevant departments. This matter is now resolved, as long as you go to the relevant departments to report to the police.

This is a question of virtue. Although it is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs, this is not allowed to do whatever he wants, and those who do too much will cannot stand anywhere.

Don't think that it's okay for a clean official to decide family affairs, do whatever you want, family is not a legal matter, but although you don't have it, the constraints of the law and the condemnation of conscience.

It is difficult for Qing officials to judge family affairs, but of course it is not okay to do whatever they want, and the family is not a place outside the law, if you do break the law, you will also be punished.

Housework is not an objective and natural thing, but a matter that arises when people get along with each other, and solving housework is mainly to solve people's problems. Lai Yan headlines.

1. If the parties to the family affairs are logical, clear, thoughtful, and reasonable, they will not need to be cleared and the case will be solved by themselves. Lai Yan headlines.

Second, one of the people in the housework is nonsense, unreasonable, and does not admit mistakes, if the two parties have family affection or love integration, they will naturally choose to understand and give in. If one party is stubborn, admits to death, and quarrels beyond a certain limit, family and marital relationships will break down. Lai Yan headlines.

Third, both or more parties are confused, unreasonable, and have no life plan to get by, the contradiction of this housework will become more and more intense, and finally the change of the atmosphere of the family will lead to structural changes. Lai Yan headlines.

To solve housework conflicts, there must be legal, moral, emotional, fate, timing and other intervention conditions. "It is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs" mainly refers to the second and third situations. If everyone talks and looks inward, admits and reflects on their mistakes, and distinguishes their respective responsibilities, household affairs will not be a problem.

Qing officials "can only partially and formally break off household affairs, and most of the unrented negotiations are "natural" and "inconclusive" as the result.

As the saying goes, it is difficult for a clean official to cut off family affairs. There is also a sentence that family ugliness should not be publicized. The so-called family ugliness is the internal contradictions of the family, the internal contradictions are resolved internally, and they are not leaked to outsiders.

Family ugliness, and the internal contradictions of the family are not exposed to outsiders, which is a kind of strategic thinking.

It is impossible to live without contradictions within the family. If there is a wise parent who can coordinate the relationship well, the whole family will appear to be very harmonious. Wherever there is, those families are often the ones who are in charge, the parents or the authority of the family members lack wisdom.

Small contradictions cannot be resolved through communication and coordination, and big conflicts accumulate over time.

The family disputes mediated by the eldest brother in Hebei can actually be resolved well in the end. The emergence of family conflicts is not terrible, what is terrible is the accumulation, the inability to communicate, and the stubbornness of each looking at the problem from its own point of view. To resolve conflicts, we must listen to what the other party has to say.

Get to the root of the conflict. Tell each other what they think and want. Conflicts arise between family members, and there is a kind of negotiation in addition to communication.

Speak your own demands and reach the other party's understanding. Of course, if necessary, if necessary, a step will pass.

Every human being is an individual. His experience dictates his thoughts. The angle he stands in determines his decision.

When I was a child, there was a story in the textbook about a blind man touching an elephant. At that time, it was ridiculous to feel blind. In fact, when I grew up, that feeling gradually disappeared.

In fact, every blind man's statement about the elephant is correct and relatively accurate. The problem is that the range of their tactile reach determines their description of elephants.

We humans also knew about the existence of bacteria and viruses after the invention of the microscope, with the help of which we saw bacteria and viruses. We now also know that infrared and ultraviolet rays are not directly visible to humans. Some animals, as the common people say have night eyes, have a physiological structure that allows them to feel a wider range of things than humans.

Many animals have more developed instincts than humans. For example, the eyes of eagles can see much farther than humans. For example, dogs have a much more sensitive sense of smell than humans.

Far from it. Let's come back and talk about housework. Communication among family members is very important.

However, many times for the sake of face, unpleasant things are not mentioned at all. A lot of small grievances are pressed in the bottom of my heart. Because, in reality, if you really express your dissatisfaction, it will really be considered a scheming and a small belly.

For this reason, everyone is in harmony on the surface.

Alas, to be human beings, is to live a human life. Sometimes it's not as straightforward as an animal. Directly for the sake of profit. A lot of things are good and bad. Who made you human?

If the realm of a person is too high, he is not a person. The word not human seems to be scolding. However, it sounds a little better to add a sentence. The realm is so high that it is not a human being, it is a god or a Buddha.

Therefore, it is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs. Helping the eldest brother is not an official, but they really have a set of family affairs. Give Big Brother Bang a thumbs up.

Yes, everyone has their own position, and it is very clear, but let it all be a little.

That's true. Everyone's family situation is different, so everyone's position is different. When a family dispute arises, the parties have different starting points and may feel that the other party is doing something wrong. It's hard to figure out the essence from an outsider's perspective.

Yes, the old saying is very smart!

It is difficult for a Qing official to judge family affairs, saying that the problems at home are more complicated, and it is not easy to judge right and wrong, which does not mean that it is illegal and should not be taken care of.

Yes. Because the public says that the public is reasonable, and the mother-in-law says that the mother-in-law is reasonable.

Things at home are not as easy to get evidence as things outside, because the family has a certain degree of secrecy, and both parties choose strong evidence to tell them.

Unlike other cases that focus on the truth, sometimes all that is needed in housework is an attitude and a recognition.

Bystanders are clear, which one can take a step in the housework, and the world will be peaceful. So sometimes it's best to be able to use cloth and be able to accommodate it.

Yes. It is difficult for even the most impartial officials to judge the merits of family disputes. It refers to the internal affairs of the family, which are difficult for outsiders to figure out.

Yes, don't meddle in other people's chores.

Tell people that no one is right or wrong in family life, and that family members should be more considerate and tolerant of each other, and don't be careful.

First, the judge pays attention to evidence in judging the case, and there is no evidence between family members, or even between close relatives who are not in the same family, so a situation has been formed in which the public says that the public is justified and the mother says that the mother is reasonable; Second, the legal rights and obligations are the minimum requirements in marriage and family, such as the duty of loyalty between husband and wife, the duty of support, etc., and many of them are vague, or more often ethical, so beyond the minimum requirements, the marriage and family law does not stipulate. Without a rule, the judge cannot decide the case. The idiom explains that things in the family are complicated and complicated, and it is difficult for the Qing officials to determine.

The difference between family affairs and other cases is that resolving conflicts of reason and reasoning and adjudicating cases according to the concept of justice often backfire! Dealing with cases of housework with the aim of:

To make the family harmonious, the case of dealing with family affairs often has the problem of the severity of the punishment, the punishment is light, the plaintiff is wronged, the punishment is heavy, and the plaintiff intercedes for the defendant! There will also be an end of punishment and scolding.