It s been almost 5 days since we checked in and there is no feeling of happiness

Maybe it's because you suddenly accept a family, you don't fit in, your fear may be caused by the current society being too open, you are afraid of divorce, you haven't lived together (not married), what are you afraid of?

Did you quarrel before you got right?

Have you ever put your own uneasiness with him?

Why don't you ask him, who is about to be your husband, to sit down and talk to him?

It's just a very simple thing, I'm already married.

So I think I can understand some of your feelings, trust me, tell him about your insecurity, let him help you, and it won't be long before you will be very happy.

I think it's because you're not used to getting married. Maybe at the beginning, you are very concerned about getting married, and you have a beautiful vision for marriage. But once you enter the marriage, you will find that it not only requires two people to live so closely, but also to go through the torment of oil, salt, sauce and vinegar.

Life has not only not become more romantic, but has become a lot more realistic. You have to work hard to integrate yourself into it, and I wish you a happy life!

Premarital depression! It's okay after that, as long as you love him and you don't regret marrying him, that's no problem.

You're just complaining right now, just telling you how much pain you have. But behind the problem, the ins and outs of your situation are not said, how can people take the pulse and diagnose you? All I can say is that you're a bit self-centered.

Can prostatitis be treated, go to a larger hospital

Do you value this aspect?

Think about that ...

Don't make a big deal about it, it's hard to be lonely.

Moreover, you can satisfy yourself in other ways, hoho...

You just say that your parents don't agree with his illness, and wait for him to get sick before getting married, if you don't have feelings like you said, then why are you still talking about marriage? If you don't love him, let him go, really wait until you get married and get divorced? Doesn't that hurt someone's heart even more?

If you are going to marry her, you should help him even more, and you should not choose to leave when he is in trouble

Depending on the situation, you dislike his illness, right? If it's true love, is there any difficulty that can stop it? Just one "chronic prostatitis" shattered your feelings?

Then your relationship is too vulnerable, right? Since he is good to you, it means that he loves you, and you should cherish it. If you choose to give up, will you regret it?

Tell him to go and cure this disease, it's nothing.

Tell him to go to the doctor. It should work.

If you wake up in the morning and find that you can still breathe freely, you are more blessed than the 1 million people who died this week.

If you have never experienced the dangers of war, the loneliness of captivity, the pain of torture and the unbearable ...... of starvationYou're already better than 500 million people in the world.

If you have food in your fridge, enough clothes on you, and a house to live in, you're already richer than 70% of the world's population.

If you have money in your bank account and cash in your wallet, you're already in the 8% of the richest people in the world.

If your parents are still alive and not separated or divorced, you are one of the few who are in the sparse group.

If you can look up, smile, and be grateful, you're truly blessed – because most people in the world can do it, but they don't.

If you can hold a person's hand, hug him, or just pat the ...... on the shoulderBlessed are you—because you have done what God can do.

If you can read this text, then you are doubly blessed, and you are happier than the 2 billion people who can't read.

Seeing this, please say to yourself very seriously: "Wow, I am such a rich person. "Yes, think about it. What else are you unhappy about?

Life is just plain.

Those who are content are happy.

The people of Gaza are happy if they survive.

Ay. Another person whose love has become affection... You have to have children to find happiness, and happiness also depends on your own efforts.

You might as well find some time to go for a walk and have a day of fun. It's like that after getting married. Because marriage is like that!

There is a big gap between family affection and love. There needs to be a transformation process! But I believe mindset is the most important thing!

As long as you adjust well, you will be happy! Learn to use your happiness to make him infected! Everybody's happy, that's good!

Ay. Another person whose love has become affection... You have to have children to find happiness.

So did you have a failed relationship before? Once people have a very painful breakup, it is difficult to have the previous happiness when they choose love... If you want to be happy, you should leave behind the previous unhappiness and enjoy the current relationship.

I recommend you to read Qian Zhongshu's "The Siege".

It may be that because you are easily satisfied, you just take a little happiness as all, but you still have to tell you that pie will not fall from the sky, and you will definitely pay for what you want to get, but the time has not come, so please pay more attention to the things around you while you are happy, because they may be getting better and better, and they may also deteriorate. If you want to be happy all the time, please use your brain, use your wisdom, and protect this happiness, since you have already grasped happiness, don't give up easily!

I hope you can think more about men! Ordinary people have to use their family's life savings to get married. Can't you just complain?

If your boyfriend feels that he is not happy with you, he doesn't really love you, and he won't spend so much money for you! People can't be so selfish. Before getting married, which man didn't use money as paper.

But you have to think about how long people have to save that money. You can talk to him more! Although the marriage of sons in every family is like this, but everyone's family situation is different, maybe your boyfriend will have to borrow money to marry you, and people are under pressure!

Know no! Women should think about men and not use love or not as an excuse because men value money!!

Happiness is the ...... that slowly manifests itself in lifeDoes faith make him happy?

In the future, he will suffer, and getting married is "self-defeating".

Ha, that's the theory of relativity. The happier you are, the more you want to stay in that moment. When time slips by, it feels like time flies. On the contrary, when it is painful, it will feel tormented.

Remember to adopt it.

First love is the only time in life, and this only time is also invested in all feelings, so I don't feel that kind of happiness when I talk about it in the future.

Because when you are happy, you only feel happiness and you don't remember the time.

There are always times when things don't go well in life, no matter what you have to think about the good side, as long as you work hard, don't regret it. Think about the fact that the pure filial piety of many people in the disaster area is gone in an instant, and you are much happier than them. No one understands you, you can learn from introverts, don't squeak about anything, don't make a speech in the eyes of others.

Go shopping, shopping, and watch funny TV shows alone. To take everything lightly, life and health are the most important things.

Why do you want others to understand you?,As long as you work hard.,Do your best yourself.,It's something worth being happy about.,Hehe.。。 It is your luck to have someone to help you, it is a just fate for you to have no one to help you, and no one is obligated to give you anything. Grateful for the remaining things in life, it's really a happy thing to live, crying all the time, crying that they don't have shoes to wear, and there are people who have no feet to bury hail.

That's when you have too many things or people to worry about, you can put it down for a while, watch jokes, movies, etc., and do what you like, maybe it will be better.

When you are happy, there is no burden in your heart. You don't have to worry about the change of time and space, so the happy moments will pass quickly.

In this way, maybe you are too nervous to think that he is not interested in you, right?

If so, why get engaged?

I think maybe you can talk to him to make you more comfortable and calm. Don't feel embarrassed, after all, this is your own happiness, so what does it matter if you sacrifice once for your own happiness?

If the answer is not what you want, then don't be discouraged, because happiness is always reserved for those who have worked hard. If he really doesn't love you, then be generous, I know it's always easier to say than to do, but how can you feel happy in the face of someone who doesn't love you? For the sake of your own happiness, maybe you should try to change this situation.

This is just my personal opinion, and I hope it can give you a little bit of inspiration.

It's not to put it, you think about whether you like him or not, don't like to pull it down.

It's just that I'm suddenly scared in my heart, and don't think about it if there's nothing to do.

Not happy? You don't love him?? Ay.