Why is it said that young love is vigorous, and mature love is quiet and happy?

Youth is a very beautiful word for us, because there are only a few years of youth in life, and when it is gone, it will not come back. Similarly, the love of youth is simple and beautiful, without economic interests, nor the warmth and coldness of the world, and some are just the original love. Youth is synonymous with boldness and enthusiasm, so the love of adolescence is also so vigorous.

Whether it is the social environment or cultural influence, everyone's perception of youth love is the same, beautiful but fleeting. <>

Adolescence is basically spent in the stage of receiving education, some in the early years, and some in the middle. Campus life is the ivory tower of that stage of life.

It's incredibly beautiful. And the love in the ivory tower is the initial attraction, which may be because the girl has a simple personality, or because the boy has the skills to play basketball, in short, it is a simple emotional attraction. A teenager without any worries wants to yearn for an unforgettable relationship, just like in film and television dramas, always longing to be able to achieve it in life.

Lack of economic base.

's young people, in the real society, hold high the banner of true love, destined to be an ethereal castle in the air, but they still have no hesitation, because it is really beautiful and desirable. <>

After the mind matures, you will find the reality of society, although the psychology yearns for romantic love, but based on reality, such a romance will not be tea, rice, oil and salt.

Wash away, it will last longer. After the two sexes mature, the three views are established, and the cognition of love will be mature and complete, less childish romance, more responsibility for love, such love can also withstand the test of life, the same, compared with the vigorous youth, perhaps the quiet and beautiful in front of you is the true meaning of life. <>

There are many lovers around them, showing off and romance without a sense of form, they only need a look at each other to know what the other party wants, and the heart-to-heart communication between two people is where happiness lies, not those young love built on the bubble of love words.

When you are young, love is not mixed with any interests, so the feelings of two people will be very pure, but the mature love will more or less have some interests, so the love that is tied to interests will become very quiet and happy.

Because love when we were young was too ignorant, and our age was too immature, we didn't understand the true meaning of love, and when we matured and understood what we wanted, our love would be quiet and happy at that time.

Personally, I agree with this sentence very much, vigorous love, the final result is mainly to break up, and those quiet love know how to understand each other, tolerate each other, and can go on better.

Because when you are young, you only need the relationship between the two to be very good, and you don't need to worry about the pressure of life, but mature love has to take into account a lot of problems.

Because mature love is considered more comprehensively, everyone is also very stable, knows how to cherish each other's fate, and is willing to live and work hard together.

Because we didn't know love when we were young, we wanted the world to know if we liked someone at that time, but when we matured, we would understand a lot of human feelings.

People are growing up all their lives, people are different in different age groups of their own cognition and desires, for example, when we were teenagers, we felt that the world was as beautiful as a fairy tale, that was colorful, at that time we may just need a good-looking toy and grow up quickly, after the light years, we want to grow taller, look more beautiful, after middle age, we look forward to a good marriage and a good job to the middle, I hope that I can succeed in my career when I am old, and I feel that health is the most important thing after I am old, because the perception of the world is different and the demands are different, so the vigorous love we yearn for when we are young has changed so much in old age.

I think everything is dull in the end, everything is like a wavy line, with its own law of development, with ebbs and flows, in a process of constant change, an 18-year-old and an 80-year-old person are not in the same physical condition, all aspects of the experience are different, when you are young, you may like those who want that kind of vigorous love, but when you are old, you can't toss, and the desire value in all aspects has also decreased, and even the most basic physiological instincts may be difficult to maintain, so that kind of too intense feelings are not suitable for the elderly, there is no too strong appeal, the elderly are more looking forward to the body can be healthy and hard to live for a few more years, to be able to have a companion by his side, this kind of love is what he is looking forward to more.

Maybe the longer people live, the more they can see the essence of things, when they have experienced the baptism of the years, look back and see how naïve they used to be, and finally learn to return to the plain, the song is sung like this: once in the dark and dark repeatedly asked, only to understand that plain and calm is the truth.

When people get old, their desire decreases due to the relationship between the body, so they don't have such a strong appeal for love, it's as simple as that.

When you are young, you want to have a vigorous love, this is because you are still young and impulsive, and when you are old, you want to live an ordinary life, which is also too much.

I have to say that the older I get, the more I hope for a dull life, and I just hope to have a partner to spend the rest of my life with, and only this kind of love will give me enough security.

When I was young, I was ignorant and felt that vigorous love was very real, but when I was older, I realized that plain love was more real, so when I was old, my thoughts were different.

He doesn't necessarily look like Pan An, it's just that the sun was just right that day, and he just happened to be wearing a white shirt that you like.

She didn't necessarily race against Xi Shi, but that day the spring breeze was blowing on her face, and she dangled her ponytail.

Then the two hearts collided, from the green years to the frost-dyed white hair, pure and flawless, there is no better story than this.

This is the best appearance of our feelings in the world.

Do you still believe in love?

This is one of the most frequently asked questions by many people in these impetuous times.

Some people say, "Why don't you believe?" Living should carry the expectation of beauty, even if you can't ask for it, and you can't meet it in your life, but it doesn't prevent me from believing that there is a real love in this world.

Love can always give people infinite reverie.

As I get older, I hear that there are people with simple limbs who sum up love like this: transfer money and marry you!

When I first heard such words, I couldn't help frowning, but after thinking about it, it made sense.

Jane Austen wrote a sentence in Pride and Prejudice:

A marriage that only thinks about money is ridiculous, and a marriage that doesn't think about money is stupid.

The so-called true love of adults.

It is not only love itself, but also the material foundation that supports love.