What kind of sadness is it to not be able to love the person you love the most?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-03
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Love that you can't love is often very painful, because you love each other, but the other person doesn't love you, and that feeling can really make people crazy with jealousy.

    If you can't love the person you love the most, it will often be very painful, because the person you love, he doesn't love you, he loves others, even if you work hard, you change yourself, and then go to the appearance of the person he likes, but the other party just doesn't love you, maybe you change your personality, image, or even tone of voice and temperament for him, but in the end you can't get the love of the other party.

    Because he doesn't love you, so he said he likes girls with long hair, you keep long hair for him, and when you think he will like you, he just likes someone else, and that person else has short hair, he said that he likes ladylike girls, your man's personality began to change, and he changed himself to the soft-spoken, ladylike appearance, but he fell in love with a cheerful person with a man-like personality, how uncomfortable should you be.

    In fact, he just doesn't love you, it's not that he doesn't love a girl with short hair, it's not that he doesn't love your character, he just doesn't love you, if it's someone he falls in love with, even if it's a short haircut, even if it's a man's personality, he loves it, so his rules and regulations have become nonsense, because he likes this girl, not you who are limited by the rules.

    So you will be very painful, sad, you obviously worked hard, but in the end the other party still doesn't want you, doesn't like you, at that time your sadness may only be known by yourself, after all, he doesn't care, he doesn't care, what he wants is not you at all, so he doesn't care what you do, he only cares about the feelings of the person he likes.

    You tried your best to please him, but he tried his best to please the girl he liked, so in the end, the person you like became the one who hurt you the most, and you belong to the lowest person in this relationship, which will make you feel why you are inferior to the person he loves.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's like you can't get that kind of taste, it's painful, heart-rending pain, but it will fade over time, and this pain will also motivate you to move forward.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I feel very painful, I lose confidence in my feelings, I lose motivation in life, and I also complain that I am not capable and capable.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think it's a very sad feeling, because you will have regrets in your heart and you will be a little lost in life.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's a pity that the person you love the most can't be loved, and your heart is also broken, and you feel a lot of frustration and heartache.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think it's an indescribable sadness, because you love him very much, but you can't be with him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There is no favorite person to get married, only the right person. Many couples have established relationships after marriage, but people with good tutors worry less when they are together, and they are a little tired when they are with people who don't have a tutor!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There are too many such phenomena, I fall in love with someone, but he doesn't love you, but you can't get it, it's like I like a certain star, I love him very much, but I can't get it, it's sad and painful, be realistic.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    1.Love someone but can't.

    It may turn into a crush.

    Then it will be tangled for a while.

    A period of time can be months.

    It could be a few years or even a lifetime.

    2.Something smarter.

    It's to divert yourself.

    Strive to increase the level of career success.

    It's best to rely on your own charm.

    Draw the other person in.

    This is the ideal solution.

    3.In this way, even if the other party does not come, they will meet a better half.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    That is, the scenery outside the window, you like it very much, but you can't take it away, it doesn't belong to you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I can't do anything, I want to give up but I can't do it. But in the end, I can only let go and move on.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It is extremely painful, and it involves love, and it involves asking for nothing.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The feeling of love without regret and heartache.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's a feeling that the heart desperately wants to get, but it's very powerless. There is nothing more painful in life than this: some people abandon it, and some people ask for it. And those who are abandoned by others are the ones who ask for it but cannot get it.

    So it is doomed that the root cause of suffering cannot be solved. Therefore, people are very contradictory animals, knowing that others don't like them, but they are still willing to wait. Love but can't do it, that's why it comes.

    If you turn to other lovers without getting a response, there won't be so much pain and unwillingness. Of course, the difference between humans and animals is that humans have emotions, and animals can change mates at will.

    Therefore, no matter whether a person is successful or not, no matter whether he is rich or poor, or where he is, in terms of feelings, relatively speaking, it is still relatively fair. At least compared with other aspects, it is still more indiscriminatory.

    Some people will say that if you have money, love will be very smooth, you will choose what you like, and the other party will also like you. That's just your personal thoughts, who told you that the love of rich people will be smooth sailing? How many good men and women will experience setbacks and trauma in terms of feelings, no matter how successful people are, they will inevitably lose to reality.

    Of course, the love of ordinary people, in the oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, will also be foamed and stay together until old age. Can you say that there is no love between them? Having to love is the most painful, and the most uncomfortable thing is that you know it's impossible but you don't want to let go.

    I thought I would move the other party, but in the end I was the only one who moved.

    The love of a one-man show will only end in loneliness in the end. Therefore, in the face of asking but not being able to, let go appropriately, it should be all about letting yourself go. The pursuit of peaceful love is also a commitment to oneself and life.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

    Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

    How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

    Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

    When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

    Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

    Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

    The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

    There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

    He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's painful, he doesn't love you, there's no need to force it....Love is a matter of two people....He doesn't love you, even if you do a lot of it, he won't be moved, so why force someone who doesn't love you to love you?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If there is no pain in loving someone, I think you may just like them.

    It is because of deep love that there will be painful feelings$$

    Fear of separation, fear of tomorrow, feeling that everything is so fast, so unreal.

    But only love can really make people feel happiness and pain.

    The pain of love is sometimes happiness

    It is because of your love that there is a feeling of pain.

    However, don't pay too much attention to this pain, perhaps, he is the witness of your love.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Love is the happiest.

    Love and be loved if only one-sided.

    Then it's not happiness.

    It can also be painful.

    I choose to be loved, so that the person I love will also meet the person he likes, and the person who loves me will feel happy.

    If I choose the person I love and he doesn't love me, then how tired my love is, in the end, it hurts three people, and it's better to be loved.

    If I had to choose, I would choose to be loved, because being loved is happiness, if you don't love him, feelings are slowly accumulated, and getting along slowly may be better than going to yourself, if you choose what you love, maybe you will be tired, you choose what you love, you will take care of him for a lifetime, if you choose to love you, he will take care of you for a lifetime, just like the old man before, he was not loved and did not love his person, and then people are not also a lifetime of code spine, some things are fate, Because even if you choose Lu Shi, the one you love is not necessarily late to seep together, maybe you choose to love you, you may be together, people are destined, not who says who will be together, I wish you can find someone who loves you and the person you love.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Is it worth it? Why don't you try to let go? One-sided love will only make you more balanced and painful, so let it go! Open your heart and bravely try to fall in love with other people, and then you will find that the world is still quite beautiful.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It is painful to love someone, and it is happy to be loved by someone, so the best way to be righteous is to leave him and find someone who loves you. Take a step back and open the sky.

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