The people you care about don t care about you, and you can t let go, what should you do?

Since the people you care about don't care about you anymore, why should you be entangled, give up early, and get rid early, so that you can tolerate yourself the most, so that you can discover a better scenery. It is painful to love someone who does not love yourself, but these will slowly fade with the continuation of time, and time is the best medicine for feelings.

If it were me, I would have been very painful and entangled, I cared so much about him, but he didn't care. After all, there is still a long, long road in life, and you should not waste time on someone who doesn't care about you in your limited life, I think you can alleviate this feeling by the following points: <>

1.Find things to do for yourself, forget about the person who can't let go in the busy, you can do some exercise, because the brain of the person will be in a state of excitement when doing sports, so that you can keep yourself in a good attitude, and constantly insist on exercising, not only the body will change, but also the psychology will change, so that you can do your best and find better things in life.

2.Buy a few books, calm down, read carefully, extract the true meaning of life from the books, find your true value, and over time, your mood will improve, and what you can't let go of and forget will slowly fade. And reading can also improve a person's temperament and ability to judge things, so that they can be well improved.

3.You can see a psychologist as appropriate.

Enlightenment, if you can't divert your attention through other methods to let go of the other party, then go to a psychiatrist for enlightenment, so that you can come out of the shadows as soon as possible and find a better life for yourself.

That can't be helped, you have to learn to let go.

I think you can try to let go slowly, instead of asking yourself how to do it all at once.

We have no way to control other people's feelings, there will definitely be the kind of self-giving, when you can't wait for a response, in my opinion, I'm not the kind of fearless person, in fact, from the perspective of a big love, I can persuade you, since you care, then pay silently, you are happy when you pay, just like the second male in the TV series has been silently guarding the heroine. I can't advise you to do that, because it hurts to do something like this, and of course you can do that.

There is also that if you can't let go of such a person immediately, then let time help you, there is nothing that time can't bleach, but you have to work hard yourself, if you have this condition, you can go to another city, delete everything related to this person, so that this person's news will not appear in your hearing range, so that this person's voice and smile will not appear in your sight at least in real life, and the rest will be left to time.

You also have to find something to do for yourself, so that you don't have time to think about those things, because if you have time to think about that person all the time, it will still be painful.

Maybe you can make more friends, or make a new partner, and the people who are close to you in your daily life will actually help you slowly forget about the person who doesn't care about you.

Don't forget that if you have tried for so long and exiled yourself for many years and can't forget that person, then you can be a person who silently guards this person.

In this case, there is always one party who has to learn to let go. If you can't control others, change yourself. I don't care about you, then you try to let go.

Maybe after you let go, you will find someone who cares about you, and you also like someone else, maybe after you let go, it will be a sea and a sky. <>

There's really no need to dwell too much on this issue. Some people may say. I really like it, he really can't put it down.

I can only tell you that there is nothing in the world that you can't put down, it depends on whether you want to or not. Each of us will experience several periods of life in our lives, twists and turns, and pain. will also encounter, in this way, tangled problems.

But sometimes we really can't get too far into it. Try to learn to let go. When you let go and look at the world later.

Something for you. Or put down the butcher's knife and become a Buddha on the ground. Sometimes we really have to learn to let go of things that are impossible.

We can't live on the tip of the horn for the rest of our lives. We can't change other people's minds, but at least we can change ourselves. Let yourself go and start over.

There is nothing in the world that cannot be done. As long as you want. The human heart is selfish.

I don't have to pretend to be great. It's like a question that classmates often ask me. Will choose someone who loves you, or someone you love.

I would tell her without hesitation that I wanted to choose the one who loved me. It's simple, because I don't want to be hurt, I want someone to hurt. In fact, there is no need to be so sadistic about this question.

If you can't get it, put it down. Because better ones are waiting for you in the back. Sometimes it's not others who stumble on yourself, and you reach a dead end.

I just don't want to come out. Wait until you understand that everything is in vain. When it is not necessary.

The only one who is hurt is himself. Maybe you're willing to walk out. At this time, everything should be open to the sky.

There are two ways, the first is to try to forget, and the second is not to forget, you can still continue to like him.

First of all, I think it's hard to forget, because a relationship doesn't mean that you can forget it, especially for love, I haven't heard of who can control their love well, so you can only do some things, try not to think about him, and it takes a long time and a lot of persistence. However, the best outcome is that one day you suddenly find that you are busy and really feel that he is not your feelings, the most important thing in life, and you can completely ignore him.

For example, you can go to a book and see those successful people, how they live, how they work, and then think about the savings in their wallets. Then let's go to the hard work. If you have a good salary bonus, you can go shopping and buy what you like.

The stress relief and release of shopping can make a person's mood happy. This is called the Stress Reduction Method. Another way is to look at the poisonous chicken soup.

You will really find that for a person who doesn't like himself, there is really no need to waste feelings, and it is more reliable to love yourself.

You can't care about what you give, because then you will have a sense of imbalance in your heart. In fact, as time goes by, there will be another person around you who really likes you, and you also like him. At this time, you will find that in fact, the feeling you have for the person you care about now is not real love, every destined person has it, and he has a fixed time to appear.

So you don't have to be in a hurry, don't restrain your feelings because of the current wishful thinking, don't deliberately keep your distance from your new friends, and believe that a love that loves you will not be absent.

When you meet someone who doesn't care about you, you should really try to let go, he doesn't care about you, everything you give is meaningless to him, so why let yourself have a bad life? Of course, if you are not willing to give up, then you will continue to persevere, after a long time, disappointed, enough to save enough, tired, and naturally let go, in fact, people are often not unable to let go, but because the other party hurts you deeply enough, if he hurts you very deeply, you will definitely let go of him.

When the person you care about doesn't care about you, he ignores what you do for him, and he won't give you a response, no matter what you do, it's superfluous for him, making both parties unhappy, you can't get his response unhappy, and he thinks you're annoying and unhappy. I would like to say that everyone should love themselves a little more and not hurt themselves for the sake of some people who don't care about them, it's not worth it. <>

Feelings are very hurtful, many people give everything for their feelings, and in the end they don't get anything, it's not yours after all, it doesn't belong to you. The one who gives emotionally is always humble, and blindly paying for the other party will only make you look humble. Some people think that it's okay if you don't like me now, I try to be good to you, and one day you will see that I am good to you and like me.

Yes, this possibility cannot be ruled out, but there is also another possibility that the other party will feel annoying and get farther and farther away from you. After I broke up with my ex-boyfriend, I didn't have any feelings for him at all, and he still pestered me every day to reconcile, and after a long time, I felt very annoyed, no matter what he did, I didn't have a good impression at all, and now I don't reply to his words, and even directly block him.

So I want to advise you to try to let go of him, love yourself a little more, and don't really wait for him to hurt you deeply before you are willing to let go, then it will be too late.

This problem is likely to occur in two stages, one is when you are in a crush on someone, and the other is when there is a relationship problem in the process of love, and there are huge differences between two people.

In the early days of the crush, as soon as she appeared, your eyes unconsciously turned to him, and your heart was pounding, hoping that the other party would notice you, and you were afraid that after he knew, he would reject you, so that you had to give up your feelings. The scariest time is when I'm looking at you and you're looking at her. I want to come forward but I'm worried that if I won't succeed, I can't even have a crush.

In this middle period, it is better to get to know her first, slowly approach his circle, after you are familiar, look back at him or what you imagined, if you still like it, it is better to confess, if he refuses, he will still get along as friends, and he can also be in his nearest position, like.

When you are in a certain stage of love, the relationship between two people may be in a burnout period, or it may be a time when two people have contradictions. If after two people communicate with each other, the other party is still as inattentive to you as before, then learn to give up. The other party is a scumbag, you can't be cheap.

In either case, the person you care about doesn't care about you, and you can't change the situation after trying for a while, learn to give up. In this case, the more you pay, the more damage you will suffer in the end, it is better to know that you can't change it at the beginning of the period of time, and take the initiative to leave.

In this case, distract yourself and keep yourself busy, and when you do, you may forget the feeling that you don't get. There are so many things in this world that you can't ask for, and the people you care about happen to care about you very much, I think most of these stories happen in those perfect romance ** or idol dramas, and people who don't care about you should completely forget about it. <>

Don't humble yourself. How many people in this world have made themselves very humble in love because they can't get it, and even abandon the bottom line and principles, if the person you care about really doesn't care about you. Then you just let go and fulfill each other, why bother, you can choose to travel.

Go see the better scenery. More excellent people to broaden their horizons and minds. Slowly, you will find out how stupid and ridiculous the people you used to obsessively pursue that you can't get, there are so many beautiful things in this world that you don't see, but you cling to what you can't get.

You have to believe that there are not so many perfect things in this world, and you also have to believe that there must be someone waiting for you in this world, and this person happens to like him and he likes you, so why do you have to cling to the person who doesn't love you. They all say that such people are the stupidest, because they may think that what they can't get is the best. In fact, this is not the case, people never know how to cherish their immediate happiness.

So if the person you care about really doesn't care about you, and you can't let go of him for the time being, then stay away from him, go out on a trip, and see the beauty of this world, and slowly you will be relieved, believe me.

Love but can't give up, this is probably the crux of the emergence of a large number of infatuated men and women in the world. Greed, hatred, hatred, and parting, I believe that the drama of torturing each other and stumbling to the end is not only happening in **, but there is no shortage of this in life.

Each of us probably has had such a person in our hearts, you like him, care about him, but he doesn't know, or he already knows but pretends not to know, such youthful and ignorant feelings have been in our youth. We have also been sad because the other party doesn't care about themselves and doesn't like themselves, but we look at him every day but can't let him go, so we have to take tough measures, don't you see me, then I will dangle in front of you every day, revolve around you every day, at that time, for the person I like, I can ignore the face, how can the face be as important as the person I like?

At that time, I was also full of self-confidence, I don't believe that I can't impress you, not for a year, then two years, I will always be by your side to annoy you, make trouble with you, I don't believe you like me! I used to insist on that, I believe many people have also insisted like that, some people have succeeded, the two of them and Meimei live their own little life together, and the good memories of childhood sweethearts have also become beautiful talks. And some people fail, so they leave an ignorant love in their hearts, which becomes an eternal memory in their hearts.

I will insist like this when I am a teenager, I will insist when I am in my twenties, and I will persist in my thirties, because for love, I will never choose to retreat, choose to escape, I will not easily give up the person I like, I will try to impress him with my heart.