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In fact, when a girl really likes someone, she doesn't care too much about the gap between them, but if you want to go on with her for a long time, I'm afraid few people can be content with an ordinary life all the time, even if she doesn't care about herself, but what about her parents, if she compares with her classmates in the future, external factors will gradually wear out love.

I think it's the solution to your long-lasting love. 1. Your parents and one of her parents have money and can pull you along.

2. You either work hard for her to seek promotion, or start a business for development.

Of course, if you want to live an ordinary life and have her for a long time, I personally think that the prospects are not very optimistic, but I still wish you happiness.

Neuropathy! People are busy making money these days, and you still write a lot about such childish things, I think you can jump into the sea, no,! The sea is too tolerant of you, and the stinky ditch will do. There are not many women and men in the world, and they are mentally retarded!

People live to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for? In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values. Life is very tiring and hard Because society is very unfair, life is very helpless Sad and sad to cry, find something to do, it is not boring Because life is like this No one's life is smooth sailing As long as you work hard, it will be wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart. Just remember: don't give up this second, there will be a miracle in the next second Life is inevitable to fall and wait Be brave to look up The sunshine is always after the wind and rain!

I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ...... 3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.

Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects.

For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.

Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand.

For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy.

Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Go for it! Finally, I wish you a happy life!

In life, there is always desolation, despair and joy, hope at the same time, they are the background color of life, when the cold background occupies most of the time, we should think that as long as we live, there will be a turnaround.

A person does have to face a lot of pressure alone on the road to growth, we can't give in so easily, be defeated, but to be a real strong, in fact, the real strong is not to be overwhelmed, but not to be overwhelmed by everything.

Don't always look back on the bad past and the tears left behind, but see the shining side that we have now, the blows that the shadows of the past have brought us, but also give us the courage to fight next time, I think, on its scales, they are equivalent.

I hope you can regain your own bravery, your own self-confidence, and find the way ahead.

I also hope you can remember this sentence: there is no mountain higher than people, there is no road longer than feet, after the wind and rain of life, hanging on the background of life is always the rainbow of happiness. Come on!

It can be seen that you are very painful out of confusion, and you want to get rid of it but can't get out of the hut in your heart.

You think too much, thinking is really important, and it is very necessary, but what you think about is not the problem, you are just limited to the problem, the more you think about it, the more chaotic it becomes, and you get stuck in the mud, and you get deeper and deeper.

Just stop thinking about it, do what you can do, do what you should do, communicate with friends, do more meaningful things, and participate in some activities.

When you look back in a few years, you will realize that it is just the so-called "mediocrity disturbing yourself", starting from what you can do, open your heart and communicate with others.

All will pass, friend!

Find something to do! Admittedly, it is indeed painful ,...I just read a post that says "it takes more courage to live than to die", what's the hurdle you can't overcome? What are we afraid of?

Frankly speaking, I'm in that state now, and I'm nervous, and I can't understand the enthusiasm and emotional ,... of others,... like the walking dead every dayHowever, I have already made up my mind a few days ago that although it is a bit difficult to study in this state, I am still willing to study, and when I think back to my former self, I am definitely no ,...worse than anyone elseSo, believe in yourself, you will definitely clear the fog, the fourth floor is right,...It's also a "special" experience for you.

Abandon? Okay, let it go, and you'll know that you'll regret it when you're old.

Why don't you go around like this, visit your former confidants and friends, the people who have helped you, and those monk temples, and talk to the old monks inside, the old people can also be, they are people who have a deep understanding of life. It should be very rewarding for you.

Raw, easy, live, easy, live, not easy.

That's true for everyone!

Leave everything to time, he is the best healing medicine, no matter what, you must be strong, there is no unpassable cut in this world.

Not to give up, not to give up is the right thing to do. Everyone has a sad time, and there will always be a time when the rain is clear.

You don't have to have someone to love, but if you have someone, you must love him well!

When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;

The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.

Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!

No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?

Love is not possession!

You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.

In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you must love him as he is, love his good and love his bad:

Love his strengths, but also love his shortcomings, and never open your eyes to the fact that you can't hope that he will become what you want him to be, and if you can't change it, you won't love him.

You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.

The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!

knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;

Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.

When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".

In love, one thing is said and another is done;

The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......

Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.

Think about your childhood ideals and pursue the original beauty, and you will know your direction.

Man is a complex animal,

Life is really hard, hey! There is no way, what to do.

Find some inspirational books to read, maybe you will be inspired. If you are confused about the future, set a direction for yourself or pursue a dream. As for work, you are already happy to have a job, keep working hard and keep improving, and you will always succeed.

It's really not good, it's a big deal to change jobs, the main thing is to love it.

What to do? --Eat well first--- then gradually eat well.

I'm pressed by life, I also have such thoughts, I have tasted the bitterness and sadness of life, and I really want to stop at some moment.

Everyone will have their own emotional depression period, and they will also have their own lost stage, I don't know if the feeling of confusion will be, and the personality of each person will be different, but I think confusion should be a lonely state of suddenly losing direction, losing purpose, losing confidence, losing a sense of security, not knowing what choice to make, and not knowing what choice I can make. Maintaining this state for a long time will miss a lot of opportunities and fate, so we need to recover quickly is what we need to do. When you are confused, it is easy to have negative emotions and make people lose confidence, so to get rid of confusion, you must overcome your negative emotions.

Look at your confusion rationally, analyze the reasons for your confusion, find a breakthrough in confusion, and get rid of anxiety.

Confide in those close to you and listen to reasonable suggestions from others.

Maintain a regular work and rest habit, be optimistic and positive, and better think about ways to get out of confusion.

I believe that each of us will have times of confusion, and there will be different confusion at different stages of life; You may have been confused when you were in high school, you don't know what kind of university you want to go to, you don't know what kind of career you want to engage in in the future, you are always worried in your heart, and the whole person seems to be in a fog and can't find a direction. We may feel lost when we are about to graduate from university, we don't know whether to take the graduate school entrance examination, or to step into the society and start working, we don't know whether to go back to our hometown to develop, or to go to the big city to explore it, and we don't know whether we want to stick to our existing relationship and relationship; We may begin to feel confused after working in the society for a few years, whether to continue to adhere to the current industry, or to make a new choice, adhere to the existing industry, it seems that there is no hope for the future, and if we choose again, we seem to have no confidence to do a good job.

In short, life will produce different degrees of confusion at different stages; People who are confused are impetuous, and their hearts are unsteady; Some can't study steadily, some can't work steadily, and some can't live steadily; People in a period of confusion seem to need a mentor to guide the maze, to guide the way ahead, to clear the clouds in front of them; However, only we know our own state of life, only we know our truest thoughts in our hearts, only we know what we want in life, and what we want in the future, and no one can help us make a choice.

If you are in a period of confusion, then all you need to do is two words, and that is to calm down; You need to calm down first, calmly analyze the current situation, grasp what you have now, and any change needs to be prepared in advance. People in the period of confusion generally stay in an environment or a state for too long, need to make some changes, need to try new things, this is the normal psychology of people, but when we have to be clear about our own psychology. We should not focus too much on what has not yet happened, and focus all our energy on thinking about the future, but ignore what needs to be done in front of us.