Why people who follow the rules are considered outliers

Everyone will have a position in their own hearts, people are also divided into classes, and not the comparison of wealth, but their own spiritual cultivation, some people think that I want to spend my life smoothly, he chose a universal method, and some people think that I just want to mix with society, that is, to highlight their differences, they may choose a different way of life, but in the end people are not savages, they will still enter the society, and the people and things they experience around them will change them, They will also know how to grow, and they can be properly reminded of things that do not follow the rules, otherwise they will not listen and hit a wall.

China is a magical country that values feelings, power, a lack of contract spirit, and a dislike of following rules. We all want everyone to play by the rules, and we all want to break the rules. This is a rule of Chinese survival that can never be abandoned.

On the one hand, we will impose zero-tolerance sanctions on those who seriously violate social and public rules, and on the other hand, we must still express understanding for those who do not violate social morality and do not harm third parties and continue to abide by the rules.

As the saying goes, "If there are no rules, there is no square circle", and if there are no laws and regulations in the huge China, it will not be chaotic. We should pay attention to the rules and abide by the rules in everything, China's population base is huge, and many places are overcrowded, if everyone does not pay attention to the rules, it will cause a lot of unnecessary trouble.

For example, many vehicles pass through a narrow intersection, everyone rushes up and does not give way to each other, the result can only be that they can't pass, if they line up in turn, it will soon pass, and sometimes "humility" is also beneficial to others and themselves.

In this world, there is no shortage of people who do not follow the rules. When crossing the street, someone ran a traffic light. Buying something, someone cutting in line.

In the place of work, people who do not follow the rules. Even in places where children play, there are many children who do not follow the rules. What do you think?

Let's be calm. In everything, you can't force others, you can only be yourself. When crossing the street, you obey the traffic rules, and what you cherish is your own life.

Even in many places, if those who don't follow the rules, and it seems that those who have benefited, but in fact, who have also benefited, can people who have benefited from the rules be able to do well in every place?

You will be considered an outlier in a group that does not follow the rules, but you are of the same kind in a group that follows the rules. Because you're not like them, you're definitely going to be sidelined. As the saying goes, people go to high places, and water flows to low places.

I don't understand the rules, I don't understand it, and I'm not afraid of rampage, and I can't eat it at the moment. There are still some people who think that they have mastered the rules and can dance on the tip of a knife, but since they choose to dance on the tip of a knife, they need to put in ten times more effort than those who follow the rules, and those who abide by the rules only need to follow the rules, and those who dance need to be cautious at all times, and if they are not careful, they will fall. Those who follow the rules will not be beaten, and those who dance will be doomed if they make a mistake.

If you want to live a steady life, if you want to go down solidly, you must abide by the rules. When you want to dance on the tip of the knife, please think about whether you are capable enough, whether you have enough energy, and whether you can always be careful. When you have enough energy, you should also think about whether it is cost-effective to put all your energy here, because you need to dance and give up your hobbies, your leisure time, and whether it is worth spending time with your family.

Finally, you must always have the consciousness of turning down and falling to death. Finally, decide whether you want to follow the rules or walk on the tip of the knife.

When a group of people run a red light and you follow the rules and wait; Job seekers who compete with the company win you through so-called relationships; When the low-wage unit purchaser watches his old colleagues eat kickbacks and your meager payslips flutter in the wind, will your own psychology be distorted Why!

Because too many people who follow the rules end up losing.

Such people tend to be considered fools. A person who can take advantage of the trick will be considered capable.

Good is rewarded with good, evil is rewarded with evil, we must abide by the law, good people have their own good rewards, people ignore the rules, and the benefits are temporary, and the evil consequences are behind, and there is no Manjushri in the south.

People who follow the rules are not only not despicable, but respectable. You're talking about people who are looked down upon, people who lack positive energy. If society wants to progress, it cannot do without law-abiding people.

You're talking about immature people. Some people don't follow the rules, they think it's cool, they think they take advantage of it, but they never think about why it exists. Almost all the rules are in the service of profit, and they lose this.

People who don't like to follow the rules.

They are all low-quality people, and it is even more vulgar to look down on those who follow the rules.

In fact, the boundaries are very clear, and a cultivated person, at any time, no matter how big or small the power is, no matter the level of the position, everywhere he goes, understanding the rules and abiding by the rules must be his first choice.

People who think this way are at work with privileged thoughts, and most people don't think like that.

Regardless of the country, following the rules is a good code of conduct and will be respected.

Those who envy the rule-breakers are only a small minority, and these people will break the rules at any time if they have the conditions, which is not worth advocating.

Because not following the rules has become a habit of Chinese people.

This is the perception among children.

This is not the case in society.

Blame has two natures, one is criticism and the other is complaining. Just like the Chinese men's football team has not grown, it has been ridiculed as a "white chicken", and after being ridiculed by Huang Xi for "disbanding" the national football team, it has stirred up a thousand waves with one stone, and the reproach of the national football team has swarmed in, can it be said that the behavior of the Chinese people is stupid? Apparently not!

Of course, in real life, unwarranted blame often does not help, but proper vigilance can play the role of "never forget the past, and the future will be a teacher".

I think this phenomenon is particularly common, I once participated in the competition, because I was the class committee member of our class, so some things in the competition fell on me, I was preparing for the competition every day, and on the day of the competition, we lost, but those classes with incomplete materials won the award, which was uncomfortable.

This phenomenon is very common, especially when you are waiting for a traffic light, every time you don't have a green light, you can't go forward, but some people think that you are conformist, obviously there is no car, where are so many rules, and you are looking for trouble for yourself, so saying that you abide by the rules has become a reason for others to dislike you.

There are many such phenomena in life, a person is a person who knows the rules very well, and speaks of the rules, but there are still people in life who blame them, and they feel that when they accuse others, they don't see if they have done anything wrong and they will feel particularly helpless, I feel very helpless. Do something that knows the rules, and get scolded or some bad language from others.

This phenomenon is not uncommon, I remember when I was a freshman, there was a team building activity, and then I played games with some seniors in my sophomore year, because I belonged to a referee at that time, I scored according to the judging criteria, and at that time, the senior sister, their group scored relatively low, and they did not follow the rules, but they were also very reasonable, so they were blamed for obeying the rules, which was particularly uncomfortable.

There are a lot of people who follow the rules in life, but they are blamed, because they are very rule-abiding people. They will certainly listen to other people's teachings, but I want you to keep the principle that you follow the rules, and not to be beaten by other people's reproaches, and not to obey them.

This phenomenon is very ridiculous, obviously people have obeyed the rules, but also to be blamed, first of all, this blamed person, his idea is incorrect, did not develop a good three views, we don't want to learn like this kind of person, we have to be a good red who abides by the rules and loves the motherland.

Honest people. Stand firm. Stands. You can live for a long time and be down-to-earth. Peace of mind. Therefore, honest people are people who follow the rules and keep their distance.

Disagree. Discipline, laws and other rules regulate people's behavior, but also protect people's rights and freedoms. Only when our hearts are willing to accept the constraints of the rules will our hearts be truly free; On the contrary, if we ignore the rules and break them, we cannot have true freedom.

We should cultivate self-discipline and consciously follow the rules, only then will we be truly free.

Can you take the liberty of asking what the problem is?

Herd psychology can be understood, most people will be very blind now, just like the approaching Double Eleven, in fact, in essence, things are not much cheaper, but everyone will have this psychology. Maybe you're the one who sees it better?

This shows that the rule itself is unreasonable. For example, if we set a rule that people have to eat every day, then everyone will silently abide by this rule, because this rule is reasonable. On the other hand, if we make a rule that people have to eat ten meals a day, then this rule is obviously unreasonable, and I don't think anyone will follow this rule.

People who don't follow the rules want to take shortcuts by not following the rules, but they forget that if they want to hurry, they can't achieve it, and they often harm others and themselves.

I think it's very bad for such people, because they don't follow the rules and tend to break into something.

There are always people who are unconscious, who do not follow the rules for their own convenience, these people are selfish people, and when they see these situations, they will stop them if they can stop them.

Some people know that there are traffic rules and have to obey them, but they always do something that violates the traffic rules for their own convenience.

The moral literacy may be different depending on the education received. There are also people who are lazy by nature and do not do things that follow the rules.

Because they lack knowledge of the rules, they don't understand them, and they may also have too little self-knowledge.

Because they have just come out of society, they have no experience, they don't understand human accidents, and they don't understand social rules.

Some people always don't follow the rules and do whatever they want, which is very selfish.

If you don't like to communicate with people, others will not be familiar with you and understand you, and it will seem that you are not in the group, and it is easy to leave you alone.

Introverts are not good at expressing themselves, so they are less likely to be understood by others. People tend to be skeptical about what they don't understand.

Because I don't like to communicate. They don't think it's the same as they are.

Because they don't talk to others, they don't know each other well

Because introverts don't communicate with people.