I m in a mess, it s okay to come in and take a look, please

I think if you like her and she promises to be with you, be brave enough to love her.

You may wonder if she really likes you.

I think she likes you.

But she still can't let go of the old relationship in her heart. It's an old love complex that many women have, they are used to things that are not risky, even in love, they will feel safer than new, even if her previous boyfriend has betrayed her.

So she rejected you before, in fact, generally speaking, rejection does not necessarily mean negative for a woman.

As long as you can give her the security she wants, she will slowly remember the people she used to have.

As a man, you have to be simple in what you do, especially when it comes to what you want.

Support you!

I think if you love her, you will forgive her all her mistakes, anyway, she accepts you, you will be with her for a while, if you find that she is broken from the previous lotus, it means that she does not love you at all, then what are you hesitating about, there are many good girls in the world, don't hang yourself on a tree, men should be ambitious, but if people are dead set on you, you can treat people well, maybe she has been testing you, everything is good, we can only suggest, It's up to you what to do, I trust you!

People, look forward, in today's society, who hasn't made a friend, who hasn't broken up? Don't worry about her past, don't stay in the present, the most important thing is that tomorrow your road will be smooth? You like her, you chase her.

If she accepts you, it means that she likes you too, so it's not okay? What you want.

As long as you love her and she loves you, you can be together, and if you like her, you will chase her, not to mention that now that everyone has agreed, what are you still depressed? When you say break up, don't you hurt her again? Do you like her, and you can't bear to hurt her?

In this case, it depends on her personality, if she is a very good girl, accept it of course, if she has a problem, then you still have to consider, the question is do you trust her now? If you trust, everything is easy to do, and if you don't trust, it's better to think about it

Why can't you stay with her? Wouldn't it be good to give yourself a chance too? Since she told you that it was her former boyfriend, after all, the past is over, and she is willing to accept you, so why not believe her, since you also like her, why don't you think about it instead of being together?

Give yourself a chance and don't let yourself regret it in the future. Happy to you.

If you like her, why not stay with her? You seem to be worried about something? Why?

Loving someone should be courageous, right?!Especially if you're a boy! So, my opinion is that you should be with her and see how deep everyone's fate is, this is the way, or you don't know how long it will be annoying.

As long as you don't care about his psychology and the existence of his ex-boyfriend, you can continue to date.

After all, these things will happen in the course of dating.

Love!!! I don't know much about this, so I don't have anything to suggest! But I think that if you want a good love, you have to have the courage to face it. If you want, adjust your state and remove all obstacles; Don't just go home and drink tea and read the newspaper, wouldn't you be at ease!!

Loving someone is quite painful, especially if the other person does not reciprocate with equal love. I advise you to say brother, "The sea of bitterness is boundless, and turning back is the shore." ”

I think she still cares about you, or there is no need to explain it to you.

How did I first feel that she wasn't a good girl, phew. I do not know. I mean, you don't trust him very much!

Just do what you want.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

I sincerely wish you to find true love.

Have a nice day! Thank you o(o

Do what you love. Make yourself a little happier every day.

When we are in a bad mood, we can try to regulate our emotions in the following three ways.

Method 1; When you are in a bad mood, use your consciousness to change the topic, or do something else, such as listening. Watch TV. Play. Play chess, go for a walk, etc., to distract yourself. This can lead to emotional relief.

Method 2; Tell your relatives or close friends about your troubles or even cry, or use pillows, big sandbags, etc. Venting the accumulated troubles in your heart will also be beneficial to your physical and mental health. However, it is necessary to pay attention to the object, place and occasion of catharsis to avoid harming others.

Method 3; When you want to get something like something, or you want to do something but it doesn't work, in order to reduce the disappointment in your heart, you can find a reason to comfort yourself, which can help you accept the reality in the face of setbacks and maintain a more optimistic attitude.

Give these methods a try, and you will be in a good mood every day.

Don't think about anything else, just think about your own learning, which one won't ask the teacher, you can never finish thinking about interpersonal relationships, and competitiveness will always be there, as long as you put your mind at ease, it's good, be a happy student.

It's a point of no return.

There is no one who is the savior of whom, only oneself can liberate oneself.

It's a little bit of a psychodynamic problem. And a little bit of internet addiction. Minor issues.

Get out and exercise. Running. Shift your attention and turn the blame for yourself into acceptance and letting go.

Who doesn't make a little lazy... Normal. Run, kick and sweat.

Come back to take a bath and study. You're a good student.

I'd love to help you, but it's you who can really help you.

The past is gone, don't think about it anymore.

The key is to be a new self with a confident heart.

So, you go take a shower and change into a set of spiritual clothes;

Then think about what kind of person you want to be, and what you have to do to become such a person.

Write down your plan and do it right away!

Remember! The you used to be are not the you you are now! Believe in yourself!

Internet cafes will hurt a lot of children, quit as soon as possible! You'll go back to the beginning of your life learning! Otherwise, the next step in your life is slim!

I'm also in the second year of junior high school, so I feel the same way, you should restrain yourself

Junior high school is a critical time If you don't want to do what you want to do when you want to study, don't deliberately ask yourself too much, you have to grasp many things well, I believe you will pass, I am a sophomore, and I have had your helplessness and helplessness, but let yourself work hard, cheer yourself up, do something related to learning, don't relax yourself too much, and find the motivation to study.

I seem to be the same, but I don't think it's okay to look at **, as long as you listen carefully in class (I really can't make up for it).

When you're in a bad mood, you can:

1. Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, and others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2. If you think that you will be in a bad mood if you are in a bad mood, then you don't have to think about it, if you still want to, then let yourself be busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then wake up in the morning, don't fall in love with the bed, wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh air of the morning, relax the whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3. Choose a place where the air is fresh, the surroundings are quiet, the light is soft, not disturbed, and you can move freely, take a position that feels more comfortable, stand, sit or lie down.

4. Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be uniform and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel that the joints are released and the muscles are relaxed.

5. Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, and silently say "relax" in your heart whenever you exhale.

6. Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7. Close your eyes and deliberately imagine some quiet and beautiful scenes, such as the blue sea water, the golden beach, the white clouds, the mountains and flowing water, etc.

8. Do some activities that are not related to the current specific matters. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening to **, watching electric Zhaofan Vision, etc.

9. Life is easy, life is easy, but life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Go for it!

Finally, I wish you a happy life!

Taking a deep breath can calm a messy mood.

Go for a walk, out into nature.

Go vent, or go for a walk, talk to your friends, tell your friends about your worries, and you can release your mood.

It's good to find a friend of the opposite sex to hang out.

Sing and go!! Personally, I find singing out loud quite emotionally relieving.

It is imperative to eliminate irritability and establish good living habits and attitudes.

1. Life is only a hundred years, it is still easier to be a man--- don't be in a hurry, don't be burdened by trivial things, take a step back and open the sky.

2. Maintain inner peace to feel relaxed--- content, indifferent to fame and fortune, tolerant of others, and learn to be calm.

3. Be kind to yourself, you will feel more relaxed--- accept yourself, applaud yourself more, learn to rest, and vent the troubles in life.

4. To be a relaxed person, you need to learn to enjoy life.

In life, it is inevitable to encounter some unpleasant things, but sometimes you just need to look at the problem from a different angle and face it optimistically, and there will be a scene of "another village in front of you", which requires discovering and creating the beauty of life and learning to enjoy life.

Learn a little "Ah Q spirit", think more about the benefits of everything, help others, make friends, don't take things too seriously, think about everything, don't be burdened by perfection, enjoy the fun that life brings you, discover the beauty of life, and enjoy the current happy life.

Take a break from work and go out for a good time.

Hello! Anyone will have problems, some people have problems solved, and some people don't. A good attitude is destined for a person's success or not. No matter what we encounter, we should have a good attitude, actively forge ahead, be strong and unyielding.

In life, we will encounter such and such problems, the only person who can change these things is himself, only if he has confidence in himself, you can calmly complete your life road, the road ahead is very long, on the way we have walked in our life, there will be an oasis, there will be wind and sand. Bumpiness and flatness exist at the same time. When encountering setbacks, you must show your own courage and face them bravely.

When you try to face difficulties and pressures, I believe that these difficulties will one day succumb to your feet and face life with a new attitude. Believing in yourself is equivalent to having infinite power.

Also, please think carefully about what is bothering you the most now, and then try to solve them one by one, and finally when everything is solved, you will not be as annoyed as you are now, you will think, "Oh! It turns out that life can be so easy and so beautiful! ”