What is it like to fall out with your in laws because of the bride price?

Originally, when I got engaged, my boyfriend's family said that I would give a bride price of 200,000 yuan,,, but when I got married, I said that I would give 180,000 yuan,,, said that I had no money, I don't know why I was short of 20,000 yuan,,, I am also a relatively strong person,,, I don't have much ,,, I just want him to do what he said, but he didn't agree,,, and they have broken up for more than four months.

Actually, it's nothing, I just talked about a boyfriend, it's been three years, and in the end, I still broke up? The most direct reason is that our family is not satisfied with his family, and then asks for a bride price, and then her family is not even seen in person, and finally I heard such a sentence, my parents disagreed, no matter how useless you are? I'm really cool and cool in my heart, do I mean that I'm not worthy?

Am I not worth it for you to fight for me and your family? I don't know how to compare it to your family? This kind of pain is really unbearable, but when I think about it, I also understand that if the future doctors are like this, it is better for Hua to separate early, after all, the loss is smaller.

The two of them are together to support each other to live, why should a man buy a house? The bride price money is even more nonsense, and after getting married, they all live alone, and the elderly don't have to worry about it.

I didn't ask for a bride price, and my husband did a lot of it, so I couldn't speak. He bought a house, and wrote my name, after all, he hasn't obtained a certificate yet, and it belongs to his personal pre-marital property. My mother originally wanted 60,000 to mean it, and after getting married, she would add 20,000 to me.

This disrupted the steps, and my mother didn't mention the bride price anymore.

I live in an old house with my object, and the two families discussed that each family would pay 300,000 yuan for a down payment, and the meeting gift would give me 1,000, and the parents of both sides would give me 10,000 and 100 and say to buy wedding jewelry, and we would not hold a wedding to go out to play, my mother gave me 30,000, and I said to my family how much they paid, so they also gave 30,000 ......That's all there is to it, I think it's pretty good.

I think the bride price is acceptable between 100,000 yuan, no dowry, the bride price can be put in the mother's family, your own family is imported, the money is necessary, and the birth of a child is also with your own surname, it is acceptable, some people don't know what to think, saying that the woman wants a house to get married, and the bird courtship has to build a nest, shouldn't you have a house when you get married!!

I am most afraid of talking about the bride price when talking about money hurts feelings, talking about the pension when talking about the elderly that everyone is stupid and stupid, in fact, according to their own situation or should give the appropriate bride price, and not the kind that the daughter brings back, how much can be discussed, after all, most of the marriage is still dominated by the man, if there are more women, it is appropriate to compensate the man, and the parents should try to repay the kindness as much as possible