How lonely are you without roommates?

One of my roommates moved out a while ago because she had just been found to be pregnant. In her hometown, she had to take care of her for the first three months of pregnancy, and then she went back to her hometown first. I feel quite lonely in this rental house now, and sometimes I feel very scared, I used to lock the door when the two of us were together, but now I lock the door when I sleep.

I spent a period of time without roommates when I was studying, I was about to graduate, and my roommates were looking for an internship in the unit, because I found it very early, because the unit required me to wait until I got my graduation certificate before I could go to the internship, so I spent a month alone in the dormitory, at that time, I played games almost every night, slept during the day, and called takeout when I was hungry, and I really said two words to the courier brother every day, the takeaway brother: "Hey, your takeaway has arrived, come down and get it". Me:

Okay". After getting the takeaway, I said thank you, and almost a month passed like this, and it was really good at that time.

Graduation is approaching, my roommates have all gone home, some are busy with work, some are looking for jobs, now I am alone in the dormitory, living in a big house alone, I feel that it is okay, I don't have to think about what time to turn off the lights, or who to make a noise

It's not that I don't have roommates, I'm ostracized by my roommates. I'm a bit withdrawn, I don't talk much, I don't like to mingle with everyone, I just don't know how to fit in with them, so that everyone may hate me more and more, and then they make excuses to let me move out of that dormitory, maybe they finally got rid of me.

Usually they think they are noisy and noisy, but once they are alone in the dormitory, the feeling of loneliness and emptiness will be very obvious. No one to help you, no one to talk to you, and even miss their noise. It's a lot boring to play games.

So we should cherish the time with our roommates and compare it to a short happy time.

I was bored at home during the Chinese New Year, and I went back to school a few days early.

I was the only one in the dormitory, and I didn't feel much interest in playing with my phone, so I kept wandering around the dormitory, constantly asking when they would come back.

I played a game by myself at night, and I was a little anxious to lose, and I wanted my roommate to help, but my name was called out, and no one looked up.

I usually think my roommates are quite annoying, but once I didn't go home on National Day, I stayed in the dormitory alone, and the first two days were fine, but on the third day, I started to think about them. I feel that they are still popular, and I will be confused when I stay alone.

Every day when I came home from work and came back to the rental house, it was all deserted and there was no anger at all, which made me feel very lonely.

Now, when I get home, I put ** as soon as I get home, so that there is still a sound in the house, so that it will not be too lonely and lonely.

Isolating roommates is a bad behavior that can cause great distress and harm to others. I used to isolate my roommates, and now I regret it, and I now reflect on my actions. Elaborate on the reasons for isolating roommates:

1.Personal habits are different.

If you and your roommate have different living habits, such as work and rest schedules, hygiene habits, etc., it may cause discomfort and conflict with each other. At this time, you need to communicate with your roommates and find ways to solve the problem rather than isolate them.

2.Personality incompatibility.

If you and your roommate don't have a good personality, such as being reticent, liking to be alone, etc., it can make the relationship between you strained and unfriendly. This is a time to try to connect with your roommates, learn about their interests and ideas, and try to find common ground.

3.Emotional issues.

If you have emotional issues with your roommates, such as jealousy, distrust, etc., it can make the relationship between you and your relationship strained and unstable. This is when you need to have an open and honest conversation with your roommates to address the root cause of the problem and eliminate any misunderstandings as much as possible.

If you've ever isolated a roommate, it's a good idea to apologize to your roommate and try to connect with them to understand their thoughts and feelings, and try to change your behavior. At the same time, it is recommended that you participate in more social disturbance activities to expand your social circle and improve your social skills and emotional intelligence.

In conclusion, isolating roommates is a bad behavior that can cause distress and harm to others. If you've ever done something like this, you need to reflect on your actions and try to make up for your mistakes as much as possible. At the same time, it is recommended that you strengthen your social skills and emotional intelligence, and learn to live in harmony with others.

Why are more and more students dropping out of school or committing suicide because they are isolated and violent? Some people say that it is because this person is too good, there are other reasons, first, whether you often show off your snacks in front of your roommates and are unwilling to share them with others, whether you will unintentionally (in fact, intentionally) leak the privacy of your classmates, second, whether you are lazy and never go to clean the dormitory and are often fined by the dormitory management teacher because of you, whether you are more unconscious and often listen to songs until late at night, Do you like to complain to the teacher, all these behaviors may be fine in your own home, but living a group life is to be missed, generally speaking, people who do not fit in are selfish people.

Isolated roommates are the reasons for the discord of the three views, different life schedules, different topics, etc., these are all reasons. In fact, there is no such thing as letting the code slip in isolation, which is actually a truth about living with strangers.

Communication: Maintain open and honest communication to resolve issues and grievances in a timely manner. Try to avoid holding it to your heart, and instead resolve conflicts and misunderstandings through dialogue.

Share responsibilities: Share household chores and responsibilities with roommates, and ensure that common areas are clean and hygienic. Develop a fair rough division plan to ensure everyone is held accountable.

Common interests: Find common interests or activities that promote friendship and unity. Participating in activities together or making rules together can increase mutual understanding and interaction.

Respect for differences: Everyone has different lifestyle habits and preferences, and respecting each other's differences is the key to building a good relationship. Learn to be tolerant and understanding, and try to avoid being overly intrusive or critical.

Resolve conflicts: If conflicts or disagreements arise, try to resolve them in a peaceful and rational manner. Seek compromise and consensus to reach a mutually acceptable solution.

Remember, getting along with roommates is a process of mutual cooperation and respect. By establishing good communication and mutual understanding, you can create a harmonious and comfortable living environment together.

Because everyone has opinions about her, in fact, it doesn't matter to me whether to isolate her or not, he doesn't mean too much to me at all, and it doesn't affect me anything, it's a big deal that he feels unhappy and doesn't care about her and talks to him less, but when everyone starts to isolate her, I joined them in order to appear gregarious.

First of all, it's not right to isolate and Lu roommates, but nuclear grilling is, some people are not worth really making friends, you pay me back a foot, I pay you a foot, and Gai Pengchang is not a clever trick or thinks he is very good, they are all students, they are all people, and they are all equal.

That's not called isolation, it's keeping a distance, isolation is a group of people against one person.

Young people are prone to conflict with each other, but it is also easy to alleviate conflict.

When I was in college, I often had conflicts with my dormitory classmates over various miscellaneous matters, sometimes quarreling, sometimes cold-fighting. But everyone doesn't take these things very seriously, and when one thing is in the past three or five days, it is almost forgotten.

Even if it was something that seemed more serious at the time, in the monthly dormitory party, a few people said that they would make peace, and the two of them would have a glass of wine together, and the matter would be turned over.

I think that's how young people get along, we don't have much time to remember the bad things, we just want to have a more exciting future and a better future.

I haven't been isolated by my roommates, and the average person probably wouldn't be treated like that.

I have never been isolated, nor have I actively isolated others, but I have seen people who are isolated in the dormitory. They often have their own unique hobbies or behaviors, and these things are difficult for the people in the dormitory to accept, and only in this situation can a person be isolated.

However, as an ordinary person, I don't have any special hobbies or special philosophies, and I tend to follow the crowd in the process of getting along with my roommates. I think this is also the choice that most people choose when they are young, and this choice often does not bring them the fate of isolation.

This is actually the life of ordinary people, the kind of people who have the experience of being isolated, either too good, or too bad, and as ordinary people, we are always in the middle, it is difficult to be isolated, and it is difficult to really communicate with others.

Campus life is always relatively pure, and even if the pure spine is isolated in the dormitory, this isolation is often difficult to last long. Perhaps it is only after entering society that most of us are likely to feel isolated or excluded.

It is indeed uncomfortable for this kind of thing to happen, but the world is so noisy, there are no surprises, and all kinds of strange things emerge in endlessly, and there may be no reason for him to isolate you at all. As a person who has come over, I suggest that you don't care too much, many people are passers-by in life, he is one of them, and after graduation, he will go his separate ways, and don't ask him for this next time it happens.

Uncomfortable for sure. But think about their lack of vision, and you won't feel bad.

You are just psychologically uncomfortable, so others don't want to get too close to you.

Hello subject:

Because there are other answers that give you emotional comfort, then mine is the main point. (The question conditions are not clearly stated, i.e. the default is the university).

Regarding your question, you said that you want a best friend.

First of all, you need to know that college roommates and friends are different, roommates are just classmates who are assigned to a room, there is no need to be particularly close to them, because the atmosphere of each dormitory is different, some are easy to talk to each other, but more are ordinary friendly, of course, there are also roommates who have character problems and have bad relations with others. So under this condition, you don't have to be sad that you can't choose to be friends with your favorite roommate.

In addition, friends are two-way choices, and friends must be recognized by both parties to be sincere friends. In social interactions, in fact, it is easy for us to indulge in self-moving giving, so what we need to do is to avoid it as much as possible. The example you gave may prove this.

And what you can choose is to stop the loss in time. Adults should have the right to choose and should also be aware of what they do. If you want to be friends with her, she can also choose not to accept it.

It may sound unforgiving, but that's exactly what it is.

So, how do we choose people who are easy to be friends with? That's another smart fiber problem. There is an idea that you can take the initiative to seek friends who match the three views through your personality and experience, and if you take the initiative to seek, you can choose to contact more people through some activities, and if you meet more people, there will be more possibilities.

In this case, it is more likely that others will be attracted to your confident temperament and take the initiative to make friends with you.

That's all I have to say, can it also be up to the subject himself.

I'm Jiang Jiang, and I'm glad to meet you in this sea.

I've never isolated roommates, and the roommates I've met since I was a kid have been great.

They were all very good, but I was isolated by the whole dorm and speechless.

There's nothing particularly big about it, it's just that the two of them don't talk, and life still has to go on.

Later, they also found friends who were really good to them, and slowly came out of isolation.

I don't know, many people who are vulnerable still have a hard life later.

Later, she still found a good girlfriend who could get along with her.

I've never isolated my roommates, and it seems like my roommates are more likable to get along with.

I'm an easy-going person who doesn't isolate my classmates.

It's been years since I got in touch and I don't know how they're doing now.

Just be yourself, don't be friends with people who can't be friends, otherwise everyone will be very tired, and many people will be able to get by on the face.

No one wants to be alone, not even friendship. Be yourself, and one day you will definitely meet someone who cherishes you.

In fact, as a person who used to be very lonely, let me tell you how I feel:

You are good to everyone, and you may not have close friends. Others will take your goodness for granted, and you will have no sense of existence. The best thing to do is to start from the heart and only be good to the people you admire, so that you can become friends in the true sense of the word.

You've always acted like you're alone, and you may not have many friends. Sometimes it is appropriate to show weakness to the world, to show that you need to rely on others, and others feel that they have the responsibility and value to be friends with you, then you will become very good friends.