Should I get married, my boyfriend s brother s wife is very fierce

Updated on society 2024-04-09
42 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You are married to your boyfriend, and you are not his brother or his brother's daughter-in-law, the key is how your boyfriend treats you.

    How good is your relationship?

    is saying that marriage is a matter of two people, what does it have to do with his brother and daughter-in-law?

    Why do you care so much about what his brother and daughter-in-law say?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    As long as your boyfriend loves you a lot, that's fine. His brother-in-law is not good because of her own quality, and I hope that your own happiness will not be affected because of her relationship. If you love each other very much and feel that it is a good fit for each other, don't get too caught up in the unexpected world, after all, marriage is your own business.

    In the future, you will also live in the city, and there will be fewer opportunities to meet your brother and daughter-in-law, so now you just need to meet in person. There is also the problem of children, it is better not to give birth first! The old people are patriarchal, what if it's a daughter?

    Will they kick you out of the house? I still hate your boyfriend to discuss it and drink it together, and my parents say! Hope you can be happy!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you live together as a family, see your brother and daughter-in-law every day, your marriage is estimated to be long, and if you live separately, you will live in an outside house by yourself. If you can't see them, then at most when you go to your relatives, you can be angry, and it's not a big problem.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hello! First of all, I don't think it has much to do with whether or not you get married and how the man's family members are!

    Although many facts have proved that family members are also a significant factor in the quality of marriage!

    Will you live with his parents in the future?

    If you live alone, the impact will be smaller, and even if you need to endure it, just get through it.

    If you are together, then talk to your boyfriend about how to solve this problem, don't let him perfunctory, otherwise you will suffer in the future.

    If you want him to come up with a plan, it's up to you to decide now.

    Wishing you happiness!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The appearance of this problem has led you into a misunderstanding, and the analysis is 1. Since there is such a precedent around you and you want to live a normal life, then don't consider other factors to go your own way; 2. Since the old man said to buy a house, it is the relationship between you and your object and the old man, not the relationship between you and your brother and daughter-in-law, to be secondary; 3. Do you pay attention to the house, what is your own opinion on life and financial management, so that you are the backbone of the family, for your marriage, including the family and us, are references, what do you think of your brother-in-law, no matter what kind of personality she is, she can't send you here in terms of seniority, what do you think?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In fact, it is not necessarily true that marriage is a matter of two people, it is a major event of the combination of two families. No matter how much outsiders feel, they are not as good as what the parties think. You're hesitating, hesitating, wondering if you'll really fit into your boyfriend's family.

    Then you should think about your feelings for your boyfriend, and if you really love it, you won't be afraid of this obstruction. Some problems are in a passive state, often controlled by others, and only in an active state will they strike first.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's so troublesome, my advice is to break it, marriage is meant to be for the future.

    Each other can be happy together, not worry about how to deal with each other.

    If you don't do things that are not guaranteed, you are afraid that you will not be able to get married, and the idea of keeping a child is correct.

    Feel like they're trying to use you as a tool for a fertility machine, and they're not married and want children? They still have the face to say, it's really tasteless!

    Why are they scolding you? Is it to live with your boyfriend, and not to marry his mother's family?

    Don't believe anything, as long as there is love, it will be good, this society is realistic, and you will be breathless.

    As the saying goes, "poor couples are in decline".

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It seems that you have only one way to tell your family about the situation and what you are thinking about getting married, and it will be beneficial for you to know more about it in the future. Don't hurt yourself for the rest of your life.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Are you in love with his brother's wife? Forbidden love, there will be no good outcome ......

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The point is who are you marrying, and what is his brother-in-law's position on disagreeing with marriage?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Do you live separately from your husband?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You hang his brother and daughter-in-law.

    Which green onion is she??

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Can't get married Originally, I would rather demolish ten temples than one family. Sometimes I believe that fate difference 6 is the most inappropriate. There is too little news, and we can only use the methods of the ancients.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Personally, I don't think it should be knotted.,Because of the age difference and there are still so many women and men.,This will be troublesome in the future.。

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Grievances The beauty rolls the beaded curtain and sits deep on the eyebrows.

    But when I saw the tears wet, I didn't know who I hated.

    If you ask this, in fact, you really like him, but I think that the age gap, women are the most concerned about this. Whether or not to get married is something to consider, but from three aspects.

    One, Is your boyfriend mature in heart? If it's ripe, it should be knotted. If you are not mature, you may have consequences.

    Second, is your boyfriend's family against it? If you don't object, that's fine. If you oppose it, try to separate the family in the future, that is, there is no major event to stay away from your in-laws' house.

    Third, and most importantly, is your relationship mature? Has it reached the point where you can teach your husband and children and raise your eyebrows? You must know that women are older than men, and in general, women have to accommodate and take care of men, and most of them are like this.

    So be mentally prepared. And be tolerant of some men's petty tempers. These you have to pay attention to.

    If you can do the above, there is no problem at all, and you are definitely a good couple.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Knot it. Just feel good about each other.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You love him for real, he loves you for fake, if he loves you, he won't marry his wife, and he won't keep his wife and be reluctant to divorce. He is greedy for wealth and wealth, and he deceives you in a fake and bloody way, this kind of man, pretending to be pitiful in front of you and pitiful in front of his wife. You'd better live your life and don't look back.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    He loves you so much, so why isn't his bride you?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Don't want this kind of man, he doesn't deserve you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You're stupid, a man's mouth deceived you...

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It depends on whether his family recognizes you. If you are engaged, you go, and if you are not engaged, forget it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Then let's not go, I'll take the time to take a look after the New Year.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Go ahead, maybe you have wronged yourself, but your boyfriend must be very happy.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Let's just go, after all, we haven't seen each other for a long time.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Why are you doing this, is it interesting?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You should go, it's nothing, don't think about it, your mother is right, you have to participate happily, and you are worried about the rest.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    First of all. Consult your boyfriend. Give or not go. The usual answer. Let's go together. Then you ask rhetorically. You should ask your mom and dad first, and they will agree with me or not. Everyone was happy. Sweet.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Are you stupid?? Should go. You should bring your and your boyfriend's blessings, others have asked you and said that we are also soon, you don't think too much about nothing.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    After all, you live with your boyfriend instead of your mother-in-law, as long as the other person is good and you have been talking for so long, you should be able to get married. And the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can also get along slowly after marriage. I hope it can help you, and I hope to adopt it.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You are marrying his son, not his mother-in-law, and you will learn to get along after marriage.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You have to see for yourself what your husband's attitude is towards this matter. Time is not short, think about it for the future.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be improved, cherish the people who love you!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    First of all, it depends on who the boyfriend values more?

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    No, after all, it was given before marriage, and besides, you can ask your mother-in-law what the local customs are.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Ask your husband if there are any customs in his hometown.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Just take him for the day first.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    The cunning fox can't fight a good hunter, how long has your brother-in-law and your brother been married.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Brother and sister....This is really not a mess, it is recommended to talk to your brother about it.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    There are too many such people, and it's no longer strange to see them, just get used to it. In the past, it was necessary to be kind and honest, but now it is not good, and it is always this kind of person who suffers. I think it's okay to be a man now, that woman's scheming is a little poisonous (admiration) If I were Dai, I would have a cage relationship with her and learn from her.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    You don't need to worry about your parents... It's not your and your husband's business Your husband's brother and brother-in-law are outsiders to your parents Why let your parents go There is no such thing at most you and your husband will go.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    It depends on the local customs, or whether your in-laws move around a lot.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    According to the Shanghainese locals, there is no need to go.

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