Is it possible for a divorced couple to become intimate after they each remarry and start a family?

<>I think it's okay, in advance, both sides have let go of each other, there is no emotion at all, some are only family affection, no distractions, just like the first half of my life that has been on the air recently, if Zijun and He Han are together, I think the two families can really establish an intimate relationship, because He Han and Chen Junsheng can become friends, Chen Junsheng really admires He Han, he once said that he feels down-to-earth with He Han, so they themselves have a bit of intimacy, and Zijun and Chen Junsheng are also for their son, didn't become an enemy because of the divorce, the relationship is still okay, Ling Ling, although he is very careful and scheming, but he will make sacrifices for his family, I believe she knows that Zijun and Chen Junsheng can't be together, they won't be enemies of them, I think they are really together, they will be very happy, there will be no big contradictions, of course, in the end, they don't work together, but because they have children, they will still be in touch, And Chen Junsheng knows that Zijun and He Han will be very relieved to be together, I think they will definitely become very good friends, especially because He Han loves Zijun, so he is also very good to Zijun's children, and he doesn't mind because he is his ex-husband's child, what about Ling Ling, if you know that He Han is with Zijun, I believe that Ling Ling's heart is still kind, I think they are a model that can establish an intimate relationship, so I think divorced couples may establish an intimate relationship after they remarry and start a family, of course, this is only a small part, It's relatively rare, most people will mind in their hearts, they can't never see each other, but they have children, so it's impossible to never get along, I don't think there's any need to be an enemy after divorce, no matter whose fault it is, whose reason it is, let him pass in the past.

Yes, of course, or I personally think, but also score, but ask such a question, there must be such a hope in my heart, and I have tried to think about it, not to mention who doesn't want to be harmonious, no one wants to look at people's faces, after all, they have loved each other for so many years, even if the feelings have faded, the feelings are still there, there is no need to break all the feelings without the fate of the family, but I think this should be under the premise of a peaceful divorce, because the divorce is very unpleasant, and even the court knows this, It should be difficult to do, after all, people, very grudges, such things will take longer, if it is a peaceful divorce, it means that they are very open-minded, and they are also very open-minded, and no one should leave other thoughts of unpleasantness or something, they should all hope that each other is happy, after all, they have lived together, and now they have their own lovers, families, the past is over, you have to look forward and start a new life, but it should be a little embarrassing, for your respective half, Maybe you will also be embarrassed, after all, you should not have any need to establish an intimate relationship anymore, wow, so if you have a child or something, it should be easier to establish a relationship, and it can be regarded as a bridge, and if you have always been friends, your two families have a good relationship, or you already know this way, it will definitely be more convenient, but it is just to become friends again, so it still depends on each other's thoughts, and experiences, and it is nothing to see

Generally impossible. First of all, the divorce of the husband and wife must be because the relationship between the husband and wife is not harmonious, and it is already very good for two people to be friends after divorce, especially women, if they see their former husband's current wife, they will inevitably compare with themselves, so it is generally difficult to establish an intimate relationship.

Personally, I think it depends on the situation, for example, my neighbors, they are two people who live, and it is very tight, but after the two people remarry, they are still nearby, and you are renting very close, although they have families, but they still get along very well, and the children are more sensible, but they have a good feeling for both families, and it depends on personal education.

I don't think that's possible. Divorce is divorce, and everyone should enjoy their own lives. They should not disturb each other.

I don't think it's possible, at least not for me! But because of the kids, they may still keep in touch!

For such a family, husband and wife must communicate more, give their children a sense of security, communicate with their children, let children have a sense of participation, let children learn to communicate with each other, and both parties work together for the family, so that family relations can be maintained.

Two people should discuss with each other that it is best to treat each other's children as if they were their own children, so that they can get along harmoniously.

Children should be treated equally, and at the same time, children's emotions should be observed, and family relationships should be grasped and understood.

First of all, two people must understand each other and tolerate each other, two people must create a harmonious and friendly family atmosphere, and two people must work together for their own families.

You can always find the joy of life with someone you can talk to, don't talk to that person anymore, he has to talk to him, because he doesn't understand you at all.

1. Reorganize the family, because they love each other, they will overcome all difficulties, and they would rather be troubled by their stepchildren than get married. The party with children must play a role as a link and communicate more with both parties. Avoid misunderstandings.

The so-called concern is chaos, you have to tell your children that no matter whether it is love or not, your parents care about you, and you will be anxious and lose your temper.

2. It is inevitable to encounter disputes in the family, and when encountering problems, parents should first ask themselves a question, what we want to do, is it for the sake of children? If you just want to vent your anger, don't take action. Children are innocent, especially children under the age of ten, and we can feel our kindness to children through their eyes and actions.

3. Even biological parents should manage their emotions and try not to beat and scold their children, not to mention that we are stepparents? Stepparents are not good at doing things, they want to be good to their children, and if they say a few more words, they will be mistaken for abusing their children, and beating and scolding will be scolded as vicious. Try to communicate with your child, if you can't communicate, it will be managed by the biological parents to avoid misunderstandings.

4. Before entering the remarried family, the husband and wife have established a strong alliance with their children and have a close relationship. After forming a new family, parents may worry that their children are young, fragile, and excluded from their stepparents and other relationships, and will invisibly protect their children more, and then form a sub-alliance problem.

5. In addition, the traditional concept requires stepparents to treat their stepchildren "as their own", which is also a misunderstanding. Stepparents can never whimsically "become" themselves into their child's biological parents, taking the place of their biological parents or their role.

6. There is a great heterogeneity in remarried families, and they are hidden dangers when we don't understand them, but as long as we learn and understand, we can effectively deal with these challenges and dangers; At the same time, because of these heterogeneities, we can also make good use of these reefs and transform them, and we can integrate larger resources to create more wonderful landscapes.

1. Adjust your own mentality, enter the second marriage, you must have enough mental preparation, and both husband and wife should cherish it, actively adjust their mentality, maintain the new family, and do a good job in the new role. In particular, we should be more rational and rational in dealing with the children of both parties.

2. Handle the relationship between husband and wife as an example, learn the reasons for the breakdown of the previous marriage, maintain a good mood when entering remarriage, communicate with the husband and wife from time to time, and care more about each other.

3. Create a good family atmosphere, a good family atmosphere is conducive to the physical and mental health of the children of the remarried family, and is conducive to the harmonious relationship between the husband and wife.

In reality, remarried families, especially those who have children, are mostly planning for their own children, holding their money bags tightly, for fear that the other party will have a plan.

Not to mention the super high emotional intelligence.

Most of them are divorced because they didn't handle their first marriage well, and if they have a strong ability to introspect, they will naturally grow, but most people don't have this ability at all, and it's more common to blame each other.

As for the kids, that's luck.

If you're lucky, the other person's child will accept you; If you are unlucky, if you meet a bear child, you can't beat, scold, manage, or speak.

If you want to deal with this kind of remarriage situation, in addition to your super ability, you also have to rely on luck.

Second, one party has children and the other party has no children.

Blood relationship is really a magical thing, as long as there is a blood relationship, no matter how bad the other party is, no matter how bad it is, there will be more tolerance and care.

But without that relationship, it's going to be hard.

In fact, many men and women understand in their hearts that since they have remarried, they should be kind to each other's children, so as to facilitate the harmony of family relations.

But in reality, it is far more difficult to accept the other person's child than to love a strange child.

Because the other child's child represents the other's past, seeing this child will remind the other party's former other half.

Unless you really like the child, and the child is smart and sensible, the probability of harmony is higher.

But most people are ordinary people after all, not saints, and the party with children will want the other party to treat their children as their own, while the party without children hopes that they are the most important in the other person's heart.

If they have different emphases, it is easy to contradict each other.

Especially the requirement to treat it as oneself, as I said earlier, there is a blood relationship, you don't have to ask for it, and the relationship between the two will be very close.

First of all, you must be honest with each other, and if the other party has children, you must be mentally prepared to accept the other party's children!

The way in which the remarried family handles the relationship well is patterned, it must have the ability to swallow grievances, absolute trust, no selfishness, and economic transparency.

1. The pattern is large, and you must have the ability to swallow grievances.

If you want to gain a foothold in the family of forming a second marriage, then both men and women must have a pattern in how they behave and do things. And, you must have the ability to swallow grievances. After all, there are many trivial things in life, especially when it comes to the children of two families, then the relationship will become very messy.

2. Absolute trust cannot be selfish.

For second-married families, both men and women must be able to deal with problems and work together for the public. Also, we must trust each other absolutely and not be suspicious. Only in this way can this family become more and more stable and stable.

In the life of husband and wife, no matter who two people are, once they have selfishness, it is easy to cause conflicts and quickly pull up hatred.

3. Economic transparency.

The economic transparency I am talking about here is not the same as paying wages. After getting married, everyone is going to run a family together, and where there is a home, there will inevitably be expenses, so the two should pay together. Both income and expenses of the family should be clear.

Since ancient times, family conflicts have been related to money, whether it is the first marriage or the second marriage, it is a long-standing problem.

Remarriage

Get married again. Remarriage in China has experienced the pre-Qin (the phenomenon is widespread, and remarriage is prohibited in Confucianism), the Qin and Han dynasties (the behavior still exists, but the restrictive thinking is further systematized), the Wei, Jin, Southern and Northern Dynasties (the laws and regulations follow the previous dynasties, and the speech is relaxed), the Sui and Tang dynasties (relaxed again), and the Song Dynasty (the fixed and less active legal provisions and the change of social atmosphere under the gradual harshness of etiquette and religious thought).

The Ming Dynasty (more lenient than the Tang Dynasty), the Qing Dynasty (women remarried to be subject to strong clan resistance, and the laws and regulations also had criminal law provisions) to the National Period (the rule that wives must complete their husband's funeral for remarriage was abolished).

First, properly handle the problem of children in remarried families. Children are the pistachios of a family, and treating each other's children can not be done overnight like the ways and methods of educating themselves. Treat your own children, introduce new families and new members to your children, and quickly let your children become familiar with the atmosphere of the newly formed family, so as to accept a new father or new mother; Be familiar with the child's temperament and talents, hobbies, communication range, etc., pour your heart to face to heart to heart communication, recall the child's good impression of you, endure the child's rebellious psychology towards you, and establish the role of the backbone of the family from the language, action, thought, education methods and methods, and the ability to deal with housework, persevere, and not slacken. Cultivate good family affection and friendship in the family, so that the older generation and the other half can rest assured.

Second, properly handle the relationship between the parents of remarried families. Honoring one's parents and supporting one's parents is a virtue of the Chinese nation. Respecting and loving one's parents is the most important part of establishing one's prestige in the family.

Don't complain in front of the other parent, reflect the problems of the child and your partner, if so, then you can only ask for your own hardship, but make yourself not a person inside and out, and at the same time leave the handle. Therefore, it is necessary to "press things" and not do anything; Bear things, not bad things; Do things and don't mess around; It's not good to listen to things. Establish an image with your charming personality, win people's hearts with your kind behavior, warm the wounded hearts of your parents with gentle language, and strive to be a good daughter-in-law (good son-in-law) in exchange for the reputation of your family and neighbors.

Third, handle the relationship between remarried couples well. It's not easy to stick two wounded hearts together. First of all, we must calmly examine each other's strange phenomena of remarried families during the period of social development, and self-analyze their own shortcomings and problems

It takes two to tango. Learn from the objective and subjective reasons for the failure of your marriage, and never shirk your own responsibility. Secondly, husbands and wives will discuss and solve problems carefully because of different views of this and that, discuss with generosity, tolerance and understanding, communicate more, communicate more, care more and be more considerate; Notarization of property in advance, disclosure of your own accounts and external relationships, let each other know what you have, treat things and things with sincerity, love and fairness, look at each other's advantages and disadvantages in a dialectical way, more trust, less arbitrary; A little more tolerance, a little less willfulness and inferiority; A little more understanding, a little less self-appreciation; Listen more, point fingers less, give more and give, and ask less.

Finally, husbands and wives support each other to succeed in their careers, set up an exemplary role in the family, establish prestige in the minds of their children, convince people with virtue and solid actions, and build a new type of family with harmony, stability and happiness.