What is it like to be isolated?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-27
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  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    When I used to study, there were always one or two isolated classmates in the class. They must have hated that time when they were studying. Their childhood used to be so bleak.

    None of us came to the meeting now, so I guess no one informed them. Sometimes I even want to know how they're doing. In the class group, most people can only follow the crowd, and basically no one dares to run to play with the isolated people on their own.

    No one wants to be relegated to the category of an outlier.

    I was one of them. Now this kind of behavior is considered school bullying. Isolating an innocent classmate is actually ignorant, and I feel quite helpless when I am young!

    I have a small burden, I prefer to be neutral, and I can't help me. That would put you in danger. A female classmate in our former class had ugly facial features, and her classmate nicknamed her Niubi.

    In fact, there are more ugly people than her. Her personality is a little bit old, and everything else is normal, and there is no problem with her intellectual performance.

    But even though I was one of those who discriminated against her, I felt in my heart that she wasn't as terrible as we said. The people in our class were always exaggerated, and wherever she sits, she would be a few feet away from him, and she would take a tissue to wipe down wherever she went. I even wondered what I would do if it were me who was isolated.

    A small heart, and a small age. Her father had also come to school, but the problem had not been solved.

    Well, I've always doubted that human beings are inherently good. How many childhood shadows are actually made by these children. I don't think the teacher can manage so many trivial matters, and the teacher doesn't mingle with the students every day, unless there is a special intelligence officer, no one has a clairvoyance.

    It's better to ask for more blessings, maybe this is the strange species of humans.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    When I first went to junior high school, I went to school in the city at that time, and our small village always felt that going to school in the city was the only way to make a difference, so I was sent to school in the city at that time, and I really didn't understand anything, I think that children were actually very scary, at that time it was only twelve or thirteen years old, and there was a girl in the class who also came to school in a small place, and the accent was relatively heavy, I don't know if it was a heavy accent or because of the strange tone, anyway, the classmates in the class always bullied her, and when we first arrived together, there was nothingLater, the boys in the class began to laugh at her.

    I was more stupid at the time, I just thought it was a boy's prank, that is, when I was a child, boys didn't often bully girls like this, and then that girl didn't know when we had an intersection, in fact, I really never thought about anything, I never felt that she had an accent or anything, so if you go somewhere else, your native accent is also an accent, and then she should see that I'm not like those people, and then she is closer to me, and I don't know why the boys in the class are still very good to me, Every time they laughed at the girl, I said a few words, and they stopped talking, probably because I was too eloquent, and they couldn't say it

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