How to deal with a relationship with the opposite sex?

The school days are wonderful, and there will always be a few people of the opposite sex at the same table. As we grow older, we begin to change from ignorance to a teenager and girl who is just beginning to fall in love. Therefore, correctly handling our relationship with our table mates has become the key to our future interactions. <>

First of all, we will have three situations when we treat the opposite sex at the same table. The first is to develop an attachment to the opposite sex at the same table. Indeed, the table mate is always the most memorable and trustworthy person in our learning career.

Under the tremendous pressure of studying, we will find that it seems that only the table mates are dependent on us, and we are fighting together for our goals. Slowly, you will become dependent, or like each other. This is normal.

It's like when I was in high school. There is a lot of pressure to study, and you need someone who understands you to encourage you, so you will feel that the other person is good to you. But then you have to think about whether you are on the spur of the moment or because you liked the other person a long time ago.

If you are impulsive, then I think you should calm down and compare that we can't delay the good study time of two good teenagers, and if you really like her, you should think about her. Use her as a motivation to struggle, and show your heart to the other party at the right time. <>

The second situation is to love and fear the opposite sex at the same table, like because the other person is really perfect in your eyes, and hate because your reason feels that you should not delay the other person. When you find yourself in this situation, the best thing to do is to go with the flow. Time will fade everything, and over time, your feelings will slowly turn into a strong friendship between you.

The last one is that you don't know how to get along with the opposite sex, or you are often full of doubts about the opposite sex at the same table, and you don't know how to get along with each other at all.

Sharing a table is the best memory of school days, when I was in school, every student in the classroom had a tablemate, and this tablemate could be a girl or a boy.

If it is the same sex at the same table, then the two friends may be able to play together and become good brothers or sisters. If it is the opposite sex at the same table, then the two classmates may begin to draw the dividing line between Chu and Han because of discord in aura, of course, it may also breed different feelings and become a more intimate relationship.

For the same sex at the same table, there is not much consideration for getting along, whether it is playing or playing, two people can play as much as they want.

Therefore, between the opposite sex at the same table, the most intimate behaviors can only be these, because the gender of the opposite sex is different, although they can get along because of the love of the same table, but they need to maintain a degree.

The most intimate behaviors of the opposite sex at the same table are these:

There is no "Chu-Han dividing line":The so-called "Chu River dividing line" refers to a dividing line drawn in the middle of the desk. Because it is the same table of the opposite sex, if you don't get along very well at the same table, then the "magnetic field" will be different, which will lead to conflicts between two people, of course, this is just a fight between two friends.

The day before, you may still be staring at who crossed the line, and the day after you may be holding hands to buy food.

Sleep together on the desk:Because the two people are of different genders, there are still times when you need to avoid suspicion, such as sleeping on the desk between classes. Because the desk is not very large, if two people sleep together, or are lying on their stomachs, then they are bound to bump into each other.

Therefore, for the same table with a bad relationship, they are reluctant to meet together, and for the opposite sex with a good relationship, they may be willing to do this, of course, this is also a more intimate behavior of the opposite sex at the same table.

For the opposite sex at the same table, because of the different genders, there may be some things that are very common for the same sex to do at the same table, and the opposite sex is very intimate when they are at the same table. So in contrast, the most intimate behavior between people of the opposite sex at the same table may be eating together.

Let me share my experience, it is definitely the most intimate behavior I have ever done with the opposite sex. I'm a male, and I shared a table with a girl in the first year of junior high school, and I can't forget those ambiguous little things until now, and my memory is quite profound.

One afternoon after class, I was sorting out the test papers explained in the previous class, and then I didn't remember the notes of some topics completely, so I asked her to borrow her test papers for me, and she was busy chatting with the girls in the back and ignored me all the time (women are chatting well, don't bother).

I couldn't wait, my brain suddenly heated, yes, I was unconscious, unprepared, I didn't even know I had made that move.

Hands reached out and cupped her cheeks, similar to the way a boyfriend lifted his girlfriend, and then the face was so close that our noses were just a centimeter apart and completely together, so close that I could see my own face through her pupils.

Said something that I still remember (I really said it casually at the time, without any other thoughts because I was too young at the time to understand anything) "Hurry up and give it to me, I'm in a hurry." After saying this, I suddenly realized what I was doing, I was touching someone else's daughter, I was taking advantage of someone else's daughter.

After I said this, all three of them were stunned, apparently she was the most frightened, and the air was silent for a few seconds. The first one to speak was the girl who was chatting with her (because the front and back tables usually chat together about topics or something, so they are relatively familiar) She was very embarrassed and said: You ......It won't ......And then he laughed secretly.

Her face turned super red, and then she turned her back, naturally without saying a word, she threw the test paper to me and then lay on the table, and she didn't say a word to me that day.

Hold hands in class with the same table, he still doesn't let go of the kind that is super tight, and he holds it tightly when I move my hand slightly. The kind that is still coquettish, and now that I think about it, I really want to give him a slap in the face. You can think of the penultimate scumbag in the class, who works against the teacher every day, and then comes to me to be coquettish...

Pouting and telling you to pull it, it's okay. Then he will drag you away by the hand while you are not looking.

The most intimate behavior at the same table is probably inadvertently crossing the 38th line and accidentally touching the other party's elbow.

The most intimate behavior is probably to inadvertently touch the little hand, and then the two of them retract with a red face, pretending to be fine.

I used to compare whose legs were thicker with the same table with the opposite sex.,The kind that used your hands to compare.,Touched each other's legs.,But at that time, it was very simple.,I didn't think about anything else.,It's just that it's simply thinner than someone's legs.。

I once held hands with the opposite sex at the same table when I was bored in class, and finally the teacher found out, and the result was that I invited my parents to go home and reflect.

Let's rush to the cafeteria to eat at the end of class, the classmates at that time were very pure, they just studied hard and struggled, and they didn't think about anything else.

It should be a casual little friction, just a fight, and in the eyes of others, it feels like the most intimate behavior.

When I was at the same table and I was talking to a topic, I felt a little intimate because I was very close. In retrospect, it was really cute to be at the same table.

We touch our elbows when we write, shoulder to shoulder during class, and rest with our heads resting when we are tired.

I was sleepy in class and slept directly on his arm.

That could be sleeping together.

I'm at the same table as a guy (of the opposite sex) and I get along well with her. Go to the podium and take some chalk and grind it to ash and whiten it