What are the taboos about attending a funeral? What are the taboos for attending a funeral?

1. Haircuts should be avoided. If someone in the family dies, family members or men are not allowed to get a haircut or shave their face for a month. When the elders die, most of them are adhered to by the younger generations, believing that the hair is subject to their parents, and the first relatives have died, and the hair is left to express grief, filial piety and longing.

In some areas, it is believed that the haircut is changing one's appearance so that the spirits of the dead cannot be recognized, so as to avoid disaster. In addition, there is a saying that babies should not be able to get a haircut until 100 days after birth, otherwise they will die.

2. During the period of filial piety, children should not wear brightly colored clothes. After the death of their parents, children should keep filial piety for their parents, and in ancient times, filial piety was generally observed for three years. The modern time is shortened, but it should not be less than a year. During the period of filial piety, children are taboo to wear brightly colored clothes, wear heavy makeup, and drink for fun.

3. Do not bring children to the funeral, especially those under the age of six. The folk saying is that children are innocent in nature, and sometimes they have not been closed, or have not been closed completely. Under that kind of feminine aura, crying and crying, the feminine aura is relatively thick, and the atmosphere is relatively gloomy.

It is also said that if the child goes back, has an unprovoked fever, and then has symptoms similar to losing his soul, is not concentrated, and cries in the middle of the night, he may have seen something.

Generally speaking, there is no taboo to participate in the funeral, but the customs and habits of each place are different, in our place to participate in the funeral is solemn, and after participating in the funeral, the whole body must be bathed, to be rinsed the whole body, so as not to wash away the evil spirit, and there is a kind of newlywed period less than 100 days, if there are wounds on the body that have not healed, they can not participate in the funeral.

Death is something that everyone has to face eventually. When you receive obituaries from relatives and friends, go to the funeral, and mourn the deceased and their families, you must know in advance that there are many of these particularities. Participating in funerals is more important, one is to show respect for the deceased; The second is that in the folk saying, avoid the matter of touching the head.

1.Dressing: Attend funerals, do not wear colorful clothes, do not wear sportswear, casual clothes, men and women should choose black, gray, blue and other simple, dark style clothes. Ladies should avoid excessive make-up and try to wear plain jewelry.

2.Manners: When attending a funeral, avoid loud noises, laughter and play. Whether out of curiosity or for other reasons, don't look at the family of the deceased. Don't cry loudly, the funeral should be a calm and solemn final journey for the deceased.

3.White Dinner: After attending the funeral, the relatives of the deceased will usually arrange a white meal to thank the guests.

If there are no special circumstances, try to participate, first, the funeral is generally held early in the morning, and after the funeral, I am already hungry. The second is to eat white food, remove bad luck from the body, and avoid "working in vain".

4.Funeral car: use the car to help relatives and friends go to the funeral, generally the other party will give the fare, the folk saying is called "buy road money", if the other party does not understand, you can ask for a cigarette, avoid "busy work", remove bad luck, and be sure to wash the car when you come back.

5.Cemetery burial: From the funeral home, when sending the ashes of the deceased to the cemetery for burial, try not to stand in the shade, and secondly, according to the folk saying, do not let your shadow be mapped to the tomb, in case you are buried with the deceased, which will affect your luck.

6.Coming back from the funeral: When you come back from the funeral, take off the clothes you are wearing, wash them, and take a shower to remove bad luck.

Funeral is a solemn and serious matter, participate in the funeral, express the remembrance and nostalgia of the deceased, but also remember a lot of particulars, to avoid destroying the funeral atmosphere, disturbing the deceased, affecting the mood of the deceased's family, and their own luck. Every life is great, and it is our attitude to revere life and respect the deceased.

Don't go straight home. After the funeral, don't go home as soon as possible, you can go to the street, or go shopping, or eat, in short, don't go home directly, do something outside and then go back.

Don't visit friends. Don't visit your friends after the funeral, because at the funeral, you may meet friends who have been very good before or haven't seen for a long time, and visit them at their home after the funeral.

Generally, it is necessary to pay attention to four aspects: clothing, demeanor, funeral accompaniment, and return after the event.

1. Clothing wearing. When attending a funeral, it is not advisable to wear colorful clothes, shoes and hats, or sportswear and casual clothes. Both men and women should choose simple, dark styles of clothing, shoes and hats such as black, gray and blue.

Ladies should not wear heavy makeup, and can choose to wear plain jewelry. No pets, no red bags, scarves, gloves, masks, and the colors should be plain and elegant.

2. Demeanor. The funeral should be a calm and solemn final journey for the deceased. At the funeral, after meeting with the family of the deceased, you should shake hands politely and comfort the family members with appropriate language. Whether out of curiosity or for other reasons, the family of the deceased should not be looked at.

1. Don't call yourself or others by name (for fear that they will follow you back). 2. Do not say disrespectful words to the deceased. 3. It is better not to go to people with low luck.

4. It is best not to take children (easy to be frightened, children do not understand and are easy to talk nonsense). 5. Don't whistle. 6. Don't ask where the toilet is.

7. Flip through the farmer's calendar, it's best not to go to the zodiac that has rushed to it. 8. Before worshipping, see if you have gone to the wrong hall and recognized the wrong bereavement, especially when you want to make a white envelope. 9. I must not wear a disheveled hair at night, and I am slow to tell the taxi driver to take me to the funeral home.

10. Don't put the money you picked up on the funeral home floor into your pocket, and don't take it home to use or replace it. 11. If you can, don't go to the toilet there12. Don't say in the funeral home: Please ask where the dressing room is, because the dressing room is where the deceased put on makeup.

13. And if someone calls your name, don't look around. 14. Don't look around, like visiting the Grand View Garden. 15. Don't talk nonsense, compare randomly, and criticize randomly.

16. Don't walk around or sit around, especially in the hallway that resembles a hospital bed. 17. Don't be smart and chanting the scriptures in it will attract begging merits.

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1. Don't go home directlyAfter everyone attends the funeral, don't go home as soon as possible, you can go to a place like the temple to get rid of the bad luck on your body, and then it's not too late to go home, if you don't like to go to the temple, you can also go to the street for a stroll, or shopping, or eating, in short, don't go home directly, do something outside and then go back, so that you can also clean up the bad luck on your body.

2. Don't visit friendsDon't visit your friends after attending the funeral, because at the funeral, you may meet friends who have been very good before or haven't seen for a long time, and go to your friend's house to visit after attending the funeral, so you may bring the bad luck you carry directly to your friend's house, which will affect the feng shui and fortune of your friend's house, so you should avoid going to your friend's house.

3. Avoid visiting the old and weakThe elderly and children are more sensitive to some unclean things, so we should not meet the elderly or children directly after attending the funeral, the bad things on the body can easily affect them, so we should also pay attention to it, especially if there are elderly people and children at home, their physique is relatively weak, and they are easy to be affected by the bad luck on everyone's body, sick or bad situation.