Maybe it s going to break up, what to do 20

Then change your temper first Girls are not men who like to beat and scold themselves, have you ever heard such a sentence "The direction of a man's fist is not his other half, but his enemy." "And you don't have a good relationship with her father. Everyone is like this, others don't care what they do, but when it comes to their own family, even small things can become big things.

Think about it.

So why are you hitting her and scolding her? Your temper will scare her away, if you really love her, treat her well in the future, and now if she loves you, she will forgive you, maybe she is angry in her heart now, give her some time to adjust.

Let's break up.

If you love her, why do you beat and scold? Do you think it's very manly?

She has forgiven you so many times, and you should be content.

Such a good girl does not know to cherish.

It's good for her to be divided.

Let's break up.

You didn't show any love for her at all, and you said that you were very bad to her, beating and scolding.

What's the point of still being together.

No one is born a masochist.

Hehe, you have the same bad temper as my boyfriend, and I spoil him like that, and when you go out to work in society, maybe you will know what you should do.

Every time you want to hit her, you'd better hit yourself first.

Her heart has cooled for you ...

It's useless. This is the bitter fruit of your own sowing!

She cares about you ... Brothers.

It's hard to find someone who cares about you

Marriage is not easy, stop losses in time.

You'd better examine yourself.

Girls are more vulnerable than boys at the point of inclusion.

Think about your own actions.

Both of them were sad after the breakup, after all, they spent a lot of unforgettable memories together. The best solution is to get along with friends, you can do many things with friends, such as traveling together, going to the beach to relax, and seeing the scenery.

Life is more than love, although the feelings of love are also beautiful and important, but that is definitely not all, just like lemon gives you a very sour taste, but over time, you can also taste the sweetness, you still have work and family, at this time you need to devote yourself to work, to keep working hard, or you have your own hobbies, focus on your love.

You will find that you may be happier, if you love to draw, then you can spend your extra time painting, to express your sadness or to draw things that make you happy, although the sad feeling is still there, but you will also find a lot of good life.

Ways to stay happy:

1. Self-prompting.

When time is pressing, you will be surrounded by anxious emotions; In times of failure, feelings of disappointment invade them; When you are confused, you are drenched in helpless emotions, these are the basic emotions of people, and you can't escape them. At this time, positive self-prompting is necessary, you need to learn to encourage yourself, make yourself smile, and do more things you want.

2. Have your own beliefs.

No matter how life forces us to have no way out, we will have what we have always believed in, not easily defeated by life, and choose some extreme ways to cope with the torture of life. When you can't persevere, you can let yourself give yourself strength, have a belief or something worth pursuing, give yourself a goal, and don't let yourself be lost.

3. Hobbies.

1. Let yourself grieve to your heart's content

As long as you don't hurt yourself, you can cry when you want to, you can be sad if you want to be sad, and you will allow yourself to take a few days off if you don't want to go to work. Let your emotions run wild. Only when grief is seen and catharsized, can we get through this period faster.

2. Find a friend to accompany you

At this time, the best support is companionship, even if you can't be a friend by your side, you can give you strength in time, listen to your long-winded past with him, care about you, eat with you, and sing with you. This support is the best medicine. If you don't have such a friend, talk to an emotional counselor or listener.

The process of saying is the process of healing.

3. Divert attention in time

After a breakup, there will be a period of confusion. Confidence in oneself and charisma can have a certain negative impact. We desperately need affirmation from those around us.

Then take a walk with your family or pick up** to make porridge with your family, and you will find that not only love is beautiful in life.

4. Learn to let go

Whether those struggles and hesitations are still in your mind. It's time for you to treat that relationship as a piece of history. Those old plots and warmth should be preserved and grateful. Those retrospectives will make us a better version of ourselves in the next relationship.

5. Learn to grow

Don't regret it, it wasn't yours after all. Life is in a cycle called "me", and a grateful heart will allow you to be tolerated by the whole world.

Why did the breakup happen?

If you're going to come back together......

If he misses you......

Wow, that's a big consideration!

These thoughts that you can't control can make it difficult for you to focus on your work and affect your work in one or more negative ways.

There are 3 main ways to influence you.

1. Endless sadness.

You will be sad because of the breakup. At this point, it's hard to find motivation to get up and do things. So, you may find it difficult to act as usual at work, which can make you unproductive.

You even have to bring a box of tissues to work, go to your car or the bathroom to cry, or even get sick from your endless grief.

2.Can't focus on work.

You simply can't concentrate on your work. You feel the need to check your ex-social ** to see what he's doing now......He's been doing well or something. In any case, you're most likely to recognize that this is what is preventing you from continuing to work.

3.Can't stop thinking about him.

Since you broke up, you can't stop thinking about him, and this will affect your work.

The trickiest thing is if you work with him.