I m about to go to my boyfriend s house, I m afraid, what should I do? 10

Updated on psychology 2024-04-05
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This sister, this is normal. Because you like him, that's why you're afraid. You first understand what his family likes and dislikes, and listen to your boyfriend's opinion.

    Don't dress too fancy, you have to have eyesight, and you will come to things, after all, the older generation is very old-fashioned. You have to be improvised, talk less, smile more, and ask you questions before you think about it. If you can't avoid living with his sister, it's important to praise his family and get to know his parents better.

    You can also talk to his sister about your BF. And you have to go to bed early, so that you can wake up early, after waking up, you immediately go to wash your face with cool water, to ensure that you are awake immediately, if it doesn't work, you take a bite of very spicy pepper. At the same time, politeness and diligence are inevitable, and if you ask about your parents' attitude, you can be honest and say that you respect the man's opinion first, and I look forward to seeing them.

    Do more work and be considerate of each of his family members. Okay, this is mine, sister, don't be nervous, don't be afraid, your he will do his best to assist you, I have a good premonition. Hope mine can help you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Oh, little sister! No need to worry about that! There is a saying in China: "An ugly daughter-in-law always wants to see her in-laws", not to mention that you are not ugly! Give yourself some confidence!

    As long as you love each other, most of your family members are supportive, and no one will make things difficult for you too much if you have some small problems or habits! If you love him, you have to believe in him, and you have to believe that his family is reasonable! You tell me?

    As for what gifts to buy, I recommend not spending too much, just do it in moderation!

    First of all, you are still a student, and it is not good to waste money, and of course it is not good to be too shabby! It's nice to buy some nutrition and stuff like that, and if he has a child, I mean he has a child in his immediate family, buy some toys and the child is happy, and sometimes you get unexpected good reviews!

    Face it calmly and go generously! No problem!

    I wish you all happiness!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Confident women are the most beautiful! It's okay if you're a sophomore and you're cute in bed, don't make yourself nervous. As for what to buy, this should be a matter for you to worry about Then it is best to inform your parents first, after all, you have seen your mother-in-law go to ......

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Let's go live in my boyfriend's house, and that's it. Sooner or later, you will live together, and if you live together now, it will also help to strengthen the relationship between you. The two of them can see each other every day, and the marriage is decided early.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If your boyfriend goes to live at his house, and your boyfriend wants you to go to live at his house, this is to take you to meet his parents, in this case, you must prepare well, after all, the other party's parents are a very serious matter now.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Marriage is not child's play, and we must be cautious. If you want to live together, you must also have a certain degree or a certain guarantee, because the sweetness of love is difficult to temporary, and there will inevitably be quarrels in the long days of firewood, rice, oil and salt.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hello, I suggest that you never go, it won't be as simple as he said, you can't trust a man's words too much, be cautious when you don't confirm that he is your partner for life, I wish you happiness.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Before getting married, it is not recommended that you go to your boyfriend's house to live.

    Because it's very insecure. In case you don't get married later, you will be very passive.

    I don't know if there is any talk of bride price in your family. If so, you are already living in someone's house, and your parents probably can't talk about the bride price.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The relationship has not reached that level, and it can only be done after getting married.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You could say your mom doesn't agree.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It is recommended not to go, before getting married, the man's family may want you to integrate into their family as soon as possible, and give his son a lifelong event to finish it quickly, but you live in it in a bad name, and there will be contradictions in the back will be taken out to talk about things! It's hard to say that this matter is polarizing, if you decide to go, it depends on the character of the man's family.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If your boyfriend always wants to go to your house and you feel bothered or uncomfortable about it, here are a few ways to deal with it:

    1.Direct communication: Talk openly with your boyfriend about how you feel about his frequent visits to your home, sharing your concerns and needs. Be clear about your need for personal space and privacy.

    2.Set boundaries: Clearly tell your boyfriend that you want to maintain a certain amount of independence and your own space in your relationship. Make sure you can have your own time and private life while at your home.

    3.Find a balance: You can negotiate with your boyfriend about time spent at your home and elsewhere. This balances each other's needs between you and provides a fair way to get along with each other.

    4.Explore the reasons for the call: Find out why your boyfriend wants to go to your house often. Maybe he's interested in your home environment, or for some other reason. By understanding his needs, you can better handle this Qingyou issue.

    5.Seek common interests and activities: Try to find other common interests and activities with your boyfriend to get along with you in a way that isn't just confined to your home. This opens up more options and reduces the need for your home.

    It is important to maintain open and respectful communication. Work with your boyfriend to find a clear balance between the gaps and make sure your personal space and needs are respected and met.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If a man always wants to go to your house and cook for you, it means that he likes you.

    Like the performance of a person:

    1. If you like someone, you will always miss each other unconsciously and want to see each other.

    2. If you really like someone, in addition to having strong emotions in your heart, you always want to do something for each other.

    3. If you like a person, you will figure out the other person's thoughts, and worry about whether the other party will like to bring yourself and hate yourself.

    4. In front of the people you like, you will pay more attention to your image and want to show your best side.

    5. When the other party is closer to the opposite sex than Haolu, they may be secretly jealous.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Summary. The preparation is: 1. You need to clean up your home and look clean and tidy.

    2. See if there are elders at home, and if so, you can drink tea and chat with the elders first. If you don't have an elder at home, you can arrange some activities with your boyfriend so that you don't feel embarrassed. For example, you can watch a movie together, cook something to eat, or put makeup on each other, play games, these are all relatively easy activities to do, and they will avoid embarrassment.

    My boyfriend is coming to my house.

    Hello, according to your question, you can analyze and understand it like this: 1. He is eager to get the approval of your parents, and hopes that your relationship can go further to talk about marriage! 2. Understand your family situation, no matter what the reason, it depends on whether you have a good impression of him, if you think it's okay, you can let him meet his parents at home, otherwise it's not necessary.

    3. Or if you like you, you love you, you want to go to your home every day, and if you want to see you, you want to be with you every day.

    The preparation is: 1. You need to clean up your home and look clean and tidy. 2. See if there are elders at home, and if so, you can drink tea and chat with the elders first.

    If you don't have an elder at home, you can arrange some activities with your boyfriend so that you don't feel embarrassed. For example, you can watch a movie together, cook something to eat, or put makeup on each other, play games, these are all relatively easy activities to do, and they will avoid embarrassment.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Di Sichun sent me to my lover's house once, and they were very warm to me, especially the dishes that were fried for me during the meal. I can't finish it. I'm flattered to be so rich.

    The first time I went to my boyfriend's house, I felt respected and liked. His mother called everyone in the family back. Welcomed me, talked to me, made a big meal, and felt happy.

    So what should you do when you go to your boyfriend's house for the first time?

    1. Pay attention to dress and image: When you go to your boyfriend's house for the first time, you should pay attention to your image, dress appropriately, not too grand, not too restrained and too casual, just be decent and casual, don't wear heavy makeup, just light makeup. Generally speaking, older people don't like girls with heavy makeup.

    2. Understand the preferences and tempers of your future in-laws: Before going to your boyfriend's house, you can ask your boyfriend about the preferences and temper of your future in-laws in advance, so that you will not be harsh on yourself when chatting with your future in-laws, and you will feel embarrassed if you don't know anything about your favorite things or hobbies. Once you understand each other, you can get closer to each other.

    3. Buy something, be particular and respectful: When you go to your boyfriend's house for the first time, you can't go home empty-handed, it's best to buy something, such as fruits, drinks, etc., and of course, you can also buy a dress for your mother-in-law in the future, and it also seems very wise, respects them very much, and cares about them very much.

    4. Smile politely and take the initiative to say hello: When you go to your boyfriend's house for the first time, don't be rigid, take the initiative to say hello, greet them, speak sweetly, and address them politely, which will make them very happy, feel educated, and wiser.

    5. Take the initiative to help, don't be cautious and willful: When you go to your boyfriend's house for the first time, it is inevitable that your future mother-in-law will entertain herself, cook, etc., don't sit on the sofa, watch TV, and take the initiative to help, even if you don't need to watch it yourself, you can also use chopsticks to do it.

    6. Take the initiative to be humble, don't accept expensive gifts: the first time you go to your boyfriend's house, maybe your in-laws will give you red envelopes in the future, or give yourself more expensive gifts, at this time you must politely refuse, it can be said that it is not too late after marriage, if it is not very valuable, you can accept and express your gratitude.

Related questions
6 answers2024-04-05

I want to ask you, in the four years you have been in love with him, have you understood him as a person? What is the purpose of giving up because he has no money? Is it because he is afraid that you will suffer with him or is he unable to raise the money? >>>More

25 answers2024-04-05

Don't think that jealousy is something that only women do, and there are many boys in real life who are vinegar bottles! As long as you care about your love, you will also be jealous for you. Jealousy can be big or small, and some small jealousy in life can be solved by coaxing him, but if your man is too glassy. >>>More

40 answers2024-04-05

If your love is shallow, sweet, then you might as well bless them; If your love is the deep, hot kind, then compete with her boyfriend and snatch your sweetheart back! >>>More

19 answers2024-04-05

Hehe... My experience is the same as that woman's, I have a boyfriend and another man said wait for me, I was a little disgusted at first, and then after a long time, I broke up with my boyfriend, but the other man still likes me silently, and then I finally can't bear it, try to develop with him, you don't have to do too much, you just stand aside and love her quietly, but you sometimes, intentionally or unintentionally, you have to show that you still love her, otherwise she will think that you are cold to her, don't love her, so it's not good. Come on, always support you... >>>More

29 answers2024-04-05

Hehe, feelings are consensual, and it shouldn't be okay to make a claim against him. There is always a reason for breaking up, have you found the reason, have you talked about it well, why he wants to break up, and in the reasons he said, have you thought about it yourself, and whether you have something wrong with yourself. When we were together, we also felt that our feelings were sublimated, and living together did not force you to do so, and now there is no way to break up. >>>More