Is there something wrong with such a mother? What s in your heart? 10

Hello, let me say something unpleasant, you may be just the one who was brought into this world by your mother. Your mother did not have an obligation to educate you and did not care enough for you.

Then I hope you can love yourself well. Get rid of such a wrong pattern.

There is nothing wrong with such a mother, except that he is competitive.

Whatever its psychology, what is its intention? As long as he doesn't treat you badly, he's still your mother after all.

It's not up to us to decide what kind of mother there is, accept your fate, it's okay if you don't do it yourself.

In real society, such mothers are really rare. Your description completely subverts the image of a strong, kind, great and loving mother in the Chinese's impression. Although you describe it in detail, even you yourself cannot understand why your mother did this to you.

I can only analyze it from the perspective of a bystander. Your mother is competitive and sloppy, treats her own children differently, and slanders you in front of outsiders. Lord**, she really doesn't like you, you can also think carefully about your style of doing things, whether you don't care enough about your mother.

Do you go back to visit your mother often during the holidays? And how the rest of your siblings did it. If you can, you can do it with your mother, face to face, talk openly and honestly, and tell your grievances, depression, and injustices to the present.

She may tell you why. If you are close to one of your siblings, you can also use her to understand why your mother treats you this way. We don't have God's perspective and we can't see the big picture.

Only like a detective, peel back the cocoon and find out the truth you want. Life still has a long way to go, and only by opening the knot in your heart can you suddenly walk the rest of your life journey openly. Although your mother is wrong about you everywhere, she is not wrong at all, she is pregnant for ten months, she has worked hard to raise you, and in the end, no matter whether the result is good or bad, please forgive your mother more.

Not all mothers are worthy of motherhood.

Hello do it yourself, protect yourself well, and the sooner you become independent, there won't be so many things.

In fact, it is not that everyone, his mother is a qualified mother, you have to learn to go. Look at these things and slowly look down. Not all families of origin can bring happiness to people.

It's not that all mothers bring the good to their children. But now that you've admitted it, then you're an individual of yourself, so you can, if they really make you unhappy. You can stay away from them.

Life is too short in life, so why not pursue the happiness you want?

Hello subject! Glad you questioned.

First of all, such a woman does not have the role of being a good mother.

A good mother will care about the reputation of her children, will not be greedy for her children's money, will not sow discord between her children, and will not distinguish between right and wrong.

In your description, she is supposed to be selfish, mercenary, with a twisted personality, who doesn't treat you as children at all, and is a very fickle woman!

Such a mother, just give basic respect, don't be too careful, otherwise you will be sad, everyone wants to have a mother who loves them, everyone longs for the care of their mother, but such a woman will only cause trouble and quarrel in your family! So you have to learn to let go! Regardless, don't expect too much!

Don't be disappointed! I hope you are satisfied with my answer! Thank!

Anyway, he is your mother, just don't worry too much about him, what he does is also for your good, I hope you understand more.

Mothers love their children.

If you encounter this kind of problem, it is recommended to repair the relationship with the mother as soon as possible, I guess the relationship between the mother and the child is very bad. Generally, mothers are more protective of their children. This is rare.

But if it is indeed the mother's problem, then the child is particularly impatient and injured.

My mom used to be like that a lot, but now it's rare. In fact, you just need to discuss and discuss with her (find a time when you are both calm and don't quarrel), and tell her: "Mom, I will be very uncomfortable if you are like this, and I will have low self-esteem."

Really, part of the reason why I have low self-esteem now is that I didn't discuss it with my mom at the time and she always used it as a foil for other people's children, so it is recommended to find an appropriate time to discuss it with your mom. Although I know that it is difficult to advise you to endure your anger and grievances in your heart at this time and not to have an argument with your mother (after all, I also have times when I can't help it), but in order to make you less upset, try to endure it. It's really not negotiable, you don't have to touch so much (easy to rub), if you really want to make yourself feel better after a fight, you can say or write sorry after calming down, and tell yourself in your heart that I've apologized, and now the only thing that's not right in this matter is my mother (I'm like this now, it's quite effective, recommended).

Actually, rubbing this kind of thing, the next day, at most the third day, the heart will not be so awkward, after all, my mother is the one who worked hard to give birth to us, after all, we have lived together for so many years, and it is difficult for relatives to have an overnight feud in their hearts, I hope you can have a harmonious relationship with your mother as soon as possible (*

Don't think so much about your mother, the heart is not right against you every day, you think too much about yourself, she has ten thousand wrongs, she also gave you life, and it was she who brought you to the world in October, is it interesting to say that your mother is like this? Mother's love is great, take advantage of her life to be filial to her parents, don't worry too much.

It's possible that you are not biological. If you were your biological mother, she wouldn't do this to you, or he might be a little insane, so take her to the hospital for a look.

Is he your real mother? If so, is your dad his enemy, he tortures you to get revenge on your dad, if it's his own mother, and there is no hatred, he won't target you like this, take her to see a psychiatrist, is there any mental illness.

Collect evidence, record a sound, get a monitor or something, and leave yourself a way out