I m a girl who was changed to a boy by my biological parents since I was a child, should I look for

Updated on society 2024-04-30
73 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you have been raised by your adoptive parents since you were a child, I don't think you need to go to them anymore because they are not so welcoming to your arrival and even send you out.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It is definitely necessary to recognize your ancestors and return to your relatives, even if your parents don't like you as a girl, but in your heart you must want to know or want to find out who your biological parents are.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In your situation, you can communicate well with your adoptive parents, tell them how you feel, and say that you really want to see what your biological parents are like, so that you can see without regrets, and I believe that your adoptive parents will not stop you from seeing your biological parents.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Of course, you have to look for them, no matter what, they are your own biological parents, but your search for them does not affect the nurturing grace of the adoptive parents who raised you. **A set of TV programs is waiting for me, dedicated to helping people find their relatives, you can go there to sign up and see.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You are a girl who was swapped out by your biological parents since you were a child and returned with a boy. You are now at the home of your adoptive parents. After you know about this matter, you should actually find your biological parents, after all, your life is given by them, so that you can come to this world, this is flesh and blood.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It mainly depends on your personal thoughts, if you can forgive your biological parents, then you go and find them. If you can't get over this in your heart, give up.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you want, you can go to them, after all, they are biological parents. If you have concerns, it's not bad not to look for them. My advice is not to find.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There's no need to look for them. Well, it's okay to take good care of your adoptive parents and repay them well. Well, if you laugh, they will come to you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think if they voluntarily replaced you, then you may only be related by blood. If you don't want to recognize each other, as long as you provide certain proof, it should be okay.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't think there's any need to look for them, why should they look for them when they abandoned you and disliked you for being a girl? There is no need.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In fact, the grace of parenting is very great, if the adoptive parents are very good to you, you should honor them well, as for your parents, you can also find them if you want to, after all, they are biological parents.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    But if you are still born to a boy by your parents' adoptive parents, then you must go back to find them, after all, he is your biological parents.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It depends on whether your adoptive parents treat you well or not, which means that your biological parents themselves don't like you very much, so why should you go to them.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    This is patriarchy, but everything is over, and it is estimated that the parents also regret what they did at the beginning, if you want, you can go to see your parents.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think since you are all boys who teach bad people, what are you going to do with them, they don't want you anymore, why do you have to eat strawberries anymore, I think you should live with your parents and kneel down with love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Parents like you don't have to look for them at all, don't care if they live or die.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's up to you to think about it, if you don't look for happiness now, forget it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Since they don't want you, what's the use of you looking for them? There's no need for it anymore.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If your current adoptive father and adoptive mother are very good to you, I think you can find it if you don't look for it, and it will be very troublesome in the future.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you are a girl who was replaced by your biological parents with a boy from your biological parents, then you should not look for them because they are patriarchal.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    At the beginning of people, nature is good, everyone wants to find their roots, this is normal, you can look at their appearance, but if you are not financially independent, it is best not to look at it now, although they also want to see you in their hearts, but maybe they have an agreement when they exchange children, do not look at each other, once you break this agreement, I am afraid it will not be beneficial to anyone, if you have the right to economic independence, have your own job, you can not be controlled by your adoptive parents, the situation will be much better. Let's see for yourself.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I don't think it's necessary at all, if your current adoptive parents are very good to you, you should treat them as your biological parents and honor them well.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If your adoptive parents don't blame you, you can take a look while your parents are there, at least without regrets.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you are a friend girl, you have been raising your father since you were a child, and you will change to a boy, I think you want to find them, see what they look like, or look at your own heart! In all fairness, if you want to go to them, go for them.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I don't think it's necessary, why would you go to them since they don't look for you? Are your current adoptive parents treating you badly? If they treat you badly, well, there's no need for you to go to your biological parents.

    After all, they've already swapped you out, well, if your current adoptive parents are treating you well, why would you go to the person who doesn't want you?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you want to find them, you can also look for them. But since they can change you to a boy, they will show that they are patriarchal. If they want to find you. I won't pay you back. So, it's better not to look for it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I don't think it's going to look for it, your biological parents are not as kind as your adoptive parents, and they raised you, so I think you should treat your adoptive parents well.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It depends on your own opinion, it stands to reason that you should take a look, after all, it is the biological parents, and it was helpless to give it away at that time, but what I want to say is that you must ask the adoptive parents for their opinion, because the grace of nurturing is greater than the grace of childbirth.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    When you didn't know who your biological parents were when you were a child, and now that you are sensible, you must be looking for a chance to know if your biological parents are doing well.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Personally, I don't think you should go to see them, after all, it was your adoptive mother who raised you, and he sent your biological mother away from you since she was a child, and it's useless to see what they look like.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    In this case, you don't look for them, they don't like girls, they like boys, they will replace you, if they like you, if they like girls, they won't change them.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Respect your heart here, and if you want to know what your biological parents are like, you can go for it. But if you are very repulsed from the inside, then you can also not go to this is. Just go with your heart.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    After all, they are biological parents, you can go to them and see what they look like, but you can't snub your adoptive parents, and the grace of parenting is greater than heaven.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If you really want to find your biological parents, you can also look for them, and when you grow up and have the ability, you can find your biological parents and see what they look like. It's got your wish.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    You should look for it, although it is wrong for them to do so, but it is better for you to find it and fulfill your wishes.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I think it's actually necessary, because after all, it's your biological parents, and I think you should try to take a look, and maybe there will still be some friendship in the future.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    You're a girl, and then your biological parents changed your adoptive parents to a boy since you were a child, and I think if you get along better with your parents, you should still be able to go to them, and if you want to go, go find them.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Should be looking for them. At the very least, know what your biological parents look like.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Even if you know that you are being free-ranged by your parents, I don't think you need to go to them, as long as you are happy now, and your adoptive parents are good to you.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I feel like my biological parents abandoned you and changed you. I don't think there's any need to go to them, after all, in their eyes, maybe the boy is more important than you.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    If it was, I wouldn't have gone looking for it, after all, because you're a girl, I don't want you. Obviously patriarchal, they will only treat you as a cash cow if you go.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    If you yourself are thinking about this every day, then it is recommended that you look for it, if you only think about it occasionally, then it is recommended not to call it, because it turns out that they don't want you anymore, and now even if you find it, the feelings will not be very deep.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    I don't think it's necessary, since they did it ruthlessly, you should live a good life and live your life well.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Oh, I don't think it's wrong if you want to find your parents, and there's nothing wrong with your idea, but if you don't want to, no one will blame you, because after all, they are at fault in the first place.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    What does it matter if you see it or not? You just need it now.

    It's good to have a good time. If adoptive parents are on you.

    Well, isn't that your happiness? Even if you meet your parents, you want to say something, why did you abandon you?

    Even if you get the answer, reality is still reality, just try to live yourself well and don't let yourself come to the world for nothing. Feel useful.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    I think it's too much for you to be your biological parents, you should never go to see them, if it were me, I would never recognize them.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    It's your right, and you can go to them if you want.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Look at you, can you see what kind of parents are? But remember, Yang En is also greater than Sheng En .

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    This one is mainly up to you, if you want to find it, you can go for it.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    The world is beautiful, but I didn't meet the right people. There will still be people who will love you in the future.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Life is not all smooth sailing, and it is inevitable that there will be setbacks But don't give up and cherish the happy times you have with your adoptive parents.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    You live a good life, this is your happiness, don't think about being unhappy, no one loves you, I am willing to care about you, love you.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    What can you do wrong, don't think like that, we can't choose the parents of the family, but we have the right and responsibility to choose our own future and life. Do your best, whoever raised you is your own parents, they raise you young, and you raise them old. Don't blame your biological parents, whoever chooses will have to have a last resort at that time, after all, your mother has been pregnant with you for ten months.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    You're not wrong, adoptive parents are reparenting.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    Don't blame anyone because of your origins. Be good now. Have a clear conscience.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Just because your adoptive parents are old doesn't mean they don't love you. You're just thinking about the extreme.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    You're not wrong, it's wrong that your parents shouldn't have abandoned you.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    You should be thankful that at least your adoptive parents raised you.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    You're not wrong at all, it's your biological parents who are wrong

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    To live is to hope, and if you want to open, there are many things that are more difficult than you.

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-10

    It's not your fault that you have to face reality in life.

  62. Anonymous users2023-12-09

    It's not your fault, it may be God's arrangement.

  63. Anonymous users2023-12-08

    If no one loves you, you love yourself more.

  64. Anonymous users2023-12-07

    This is what you are wrong, your parents don't love you when they are old?

  65. Anonymous users2023-12-06

    I am also an adoptive daughter, my adoptive father and adoptive mother. There is a daughter and a son. It used to hurt me a lot.

    Having a daughter doesn't hurt me anymore. I also understand him, we are not related by blood after all. I would love to find my biological parents now.

    I was separated from him when I was three years old.

  66. Anonymous users2023-12-05

    You're in exactly the same situation as me, I'm also three older brothers, and my parents depend on me for everything, and I don't know why I'm so good, and I'm not biological.

  67. Anonymous users2023-12-04

    No, they'll tell you when you're older.

  68. Anonymous users2023-12-03

    Don't rub salt on your wounds, and if your adoptive parents and three older brothers are good to you, stay in this home with peace of mind.

  69. Anonymous users2023-12-02

    What if you know? Some pains are better not to touch, but they will only make people sadder. Isn't it good to be having a good time now?

  70. Anonymous users2023-12-01

    Don't, be filial to your parents.

  71. Anonymous users2023-11-30

    Even if your adoptive parents gave you true love, they broke the law, and they hurt your biological parents even if they left the legal aspect. No one in the world can do the right thing in the wrong way, even if the result is right, the process is wrong, and it is wrong.

  72. Anonymous users2023-11-29

    Your biological parents will definitely miss you very much, they must still be looking for you, you should go back, don't give up your biological parents on the farm because they think the living conditions here are good.

  73. Anonymous users2023-11-28

    Do you know how your birth parents feel? If that's the case, now you should at least let them know that you are still alive and that you are grown up and capable, and then honor their ......

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