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For example, when I was in high school military training, I just met my classmates, and I looked at a girl stupidly and felt that his grades should be very average, and then I found out that he was actually a top student.
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When I was in junior high school, I liked to speculate about other people, because I didn't know this person well, so I thought what kind of personality she should be, and how to get along with her.
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I speculated about my homeroom teacher, and I thought he was a person who worked for overtime pay, and finally I realized that he actually violated our college entrance examination results, and I felt very guilty about the college entrance examination results at that time, and I shouldn't have speculated about him like this.
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The so-called human nature refers to the behavioral characteristics and laws of people in social life and interpersonal interaction, and the understanding and grasp of human nature affect people's communication, interaction and cooperation, affect people's health and happiness, and affect people's happiness and success.
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For example, in some unfamiliar environment, there is a group of strangers around me, and they will get along with me, and I will speculate about what kind of person the other person is, and what kind of personality is probably like.
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Maybe we can't turn a blind eye, but we don't have to maliciously speculate on people's hearts, there is not so much malice in this world, it's just a misunderstanding, and relaxing your mind will make you happier every day.
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I have thought about what kind of person others think I am, whether there are certain things that others will mind if I do, but thinking too much about it will affect my mood.
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I often think about what I would do if I encountered this incident, and if the result of empathy is not good, then I will directly locate this conclusion on him.
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First of all, I will ask my relevant friends what they would do if you encountered such a problem; Then, I would silently and repeatedly think about his behavior and way of speaking in my mind. Then he would listen to other friends talk about his previous behavior, silently comparing his current behavior with his current behavior.
The heart is clear, and there is no fear of others speculating"...That's what the wise man said, and I can't do it. However, there are too many bad people now, and it is inevitable to speculate about others when interacting with people. >>>More
In the end, they broke up unhappily, because each other's personalities did not match, so it led to a very unpleasant quarrel between the two parties, and they obviously wanted to work hard to maintain this relationship, but they couldn't do it.
The key depends on you, if it were me, it would be hard to say, I probably wouldn't be able to accept it......But who knows, only then will it be known.
When I was a child, I didn't dare to tell my parents if I lost money, but the money was used to pay for tuition, because I didn't dare to tell my parents that I lost it, and the school didn't pay the money, the teacher called ** to my parents, and they went to ask me, I still admitted it at first, but they said that the school called **, and I admitted it.
Spring Festival is the largest and most solemn festival of the year for Chinese. In the era of food scarcity, many people worked hard for a year in order to have a big year, so there is a saying that "it is better to be poor for a year than to be poor for a day". >>>More