Which is more fragile in the face of family affection? Why?

It's hard to choose between both, but if you really have to choose, I think it's more fragile. <>

Maybe it's because of the influence of traditional thinking, but I think I'm a more traditional person. In the past, I quite agreed with the customs of the older generation. Filial piety comes first, this is the traditional virtue left by the ancestors, no matter what you are doing, what happens, if you choose between family affection and others, you are willing to choose family affection.

Maybe you choose the relationship you think is right, but who can be sure. Maybe it's just a short-term beauty, but family affection is different, family affection can accompany you for a lifetime, on your long road of life, you will meet many people, they are just passers-by in your life. When you are in trouble.

They may be able to sell a helping hand to help you get through the storm temporarily. To this is not without a price. When you accept the help of others, you owe a favor.

When someone else needs help, you have to repay the favor. Now it is a society of interests, no one has to help you, if you help you, it is called righteousness, and if you don't help, it is called duty. But your family affection is different, no matter what difficulties you encounter, they will help you unconditionally, no matter what kind of blow you encounter, they are a harbor that you can dock at any time, they will listen patiently to you, will comfort you, and know that you are out of the shadows.

This is something that no one can do. The family affection that blood is thicker than water cannot be dissolved. <>

Maybe you will say that I am very pretentious, do you still want to find a girlfriend with your kind of thinking? I admit that I'm a little selfish, don't you, those who say that feelings are more important than family affection, do you really think so in your own hearts? Or do you really know how to behave?

A popular question a while ago, "I fell into the river at the same time as your mother, who do you save first?" "It's a question a girl asks a guy. If you save your girlfriend, your mother will die; If you save your mother, your girlfriend will die.

It's a hard question to decide. Of course, the girl wants you to say that you will save her first, but some people say that they want to save their girlfriend first, but they still want to save their mother. I'm not denying this kind of coaxing girls, it's normal, girls want to be the only one for each other, but I think it's exactly this kind of thinking.

Others say something even better, "I'll save my mom first, and then jump into the river and die with you", which is of course beautiful, but when it comes to action, the devil knows. Once you don't have a good problem, you will face the possibility of breaking up. But what about when you ask a girl this question?

What will she do to you? Think for yourself. I have said all this to make my point of view and not to mean anything else.

Affection and family affection are equally important, and no one wants to choose until the last resort. But when it's really time to decide, which one to choose? I chose family affection.

Which is more fragile in the face of family affection? This question, in fact, for people nowadays, there are two answers, some people think that family is more fragile, but some people think that feelings are more fragile, each party has its own reasons, in fact, I think as long as it is as little hurt as possible that is the best decision.

Some people think that family affection is more fragile, and when people fall in love, they think that we will always be together, I really love him, and nothing can stop us from being together, so even if the parents of both sides oppose it, saying that you are not suitable, but you still have to be together, and even some young people solve the problem by elopement, in their point of view, feelings are above all else, parents may be angry for a while, but they are their parents after all, Someday I will forgive myself.

But there are some people who think that feelings are more fragile, and I agree with this view. Because in this world, the ones who love us the most are always our parents, no one is willing to pay so much just really for your good, maybe sometimes the form will make you a little difficult to accept, the boyfriend can be changed, so can the parents change? So if you fall in love, Mom and Dad really feel that the other party is not suitable for you, let's separate, I think as long as their attitude is really resolute, I think I will still care about their opinions, after all, we can't see a lot of each other's shortcomings in love, I think as long as we love each other, but we still have to get married and live in the future, at that time regret is really useless, no parent in the world does not want their children to live a good life, They all hope that their children can live a better life after marriage, after all, the current society is too realistic.

Of course, each of these two views has successful examples, and it is not possible to directly say which one is right, when you are really in such a state, ask yourself, are you really suitable, after being together, your life, the life of both parents, can you live happily, and then make your decision, the possibility of regret will be even smaller.

I also want to say that when you do anything, you have to consider the feelings of your parents, most families are only children now, they have worked hard all their lives for you, and the most important thing in their lives is you, so don't make them sad and sad, otherwise you will regret it in the future, love your parents well, love yourself well.

Which is more fragile in the face of family affection? I think feelings are more fragile, as for why?We'll talk about that later.

In fact, if you really let you choose between these two, it's really a bad choice, this problem is like a wife and mother fell into the water at the same time, who do you save first, you can't give up both, but you can't take care of both at the same time, so this problem is also a bad choice!

No matter which one you choose, you will lose the other, but the loss of which one will make you sad and make you sad, so I say that it is really difficult to choose one of the two, but if you have to choose, then I believe that most people will choose family affection, although feelings are also inseparable. Say a little ugly: you can find it again if you don't have affection, if you don't have family affection, you really can't find it anymore, this sentence is really unacceptable, but it's also a fact, because we only have one biological mother after all, a biological father, in this world, it is impossible to find the same person, but the feelings are different, so many years, I believe that you have also experienced, in your life, you have also experienced a lot of people, that is, your lovers, or may have changed several, so you will choose family affection, after all, no one can say anything about feelings, I don't know what the future holds.

Therefore, most people will choose family affection in the choice of family affection and affection.

If it were me, although I was very reluctant to give up my girlfriend, but if there was really no other choice, I would choose my family, but I don't think I would face such a problem in the future, first of all, my parents will not embarrass me, will not let me make such a choice, my lover is also a reasonable person, so I feel lucky, very lucky to meet someone like them.

It's not that your family reputation is fragile, but that you know that your family is fragile earlier than those who know that your family is fragile.

Many times, family affection is particularly fragile, and people have to bow their heads under the eaves, and I deeply understand it.

In a person's life, family, friendship and love are the most precious feelings. ......As you grow older, you will find that only family affection is the most valuable. ......The reason for this is that the friendship may gradually fade over time, and the love may end because of contradictions, and only the family affection derived from kinship is difficult to give up.

1. Friendship will gradually fade over time.

Although friendship is precious, friendship may be separated by separation, and tend to be dull because they have not seen each other for a long time. ......In short, friendship will gradually fade due to the change of the state of interaction with each other. ......Therefore, the older you get, the fewer friends you have.

That's why friendship is less precious than family.

2. Love may end because of contradictions.

Love is romantic and beautiful. ......However, once there is a conflict between the two parties who love each other after they have been together for a long time, there may be problems in their love for each other, leading to the end of love ......The specific manifestations of this are the breakup of lovers and the divorce between husband and wife. ......Because of this, love is less precious than family affection.

3. Family affection comes from kinship and is difficult to give up.

The reason why family affection is the most precious is because it is the kinship between each other that maintains family affection. ......This layer of relationship will not change due to any change in external conditions. No matter at any time, family affection is an inseparable ......In this regard, as you grow older, your understanding will become more profound, and the feelings between your relatives will become deeper.

It is precisely because of the above reasons that the more I grow up, the more precious I feel about family affection

Family, love, and friendship are what each of us will experience when we come into this world. These three emotions run through our lives. Sometimes he inspires us, and sometimes he makes us sad and angry. But it is undeniable that they are indeed important and indispensable to us.

There is no first in literature, no second in martial arts, and the same is true for feelings. In the depths of our hearts, there must be a scale that we can measure. Which affection is more important to us. For me, family affection is more important.

I believe that many men who have girlfriends will be asked this question, if their girlfriends and mothers fall into the water, who will they save first? This is a proposition. It gives countless men a headache.

At the heart of this is the comparison of emotions. Whether to choose love or family. Even though as adults, we don't make choices, we all do.

But if this kind of thing happens in reality. A choice must be made. I believe that many people actually have the answer in their hearts.

It is our relatives who have been nurturing us to grow up and have been selflessly dedicated. They are the main help of our growth. Without them, we would not be where we are now.

No matter how deep the relationship is, in the face of decades of family affection, it is a little beyond its strength after all.

In fact, no matter how we think about it in our hearts, in the face of this proposition, the law has already given the answer.

According to the law of our country, if a girlfriend and a mother fall into the water at the same time, it is a moral obligation to save the girlfriend, and it is a legal obligation to save the mother.

So is affection necessarily inferior to family affection? Not really. After the initial youthfulness, love will eventually transform into family affection under the polishing of time.

Although it is cloaked in love, its core becomes family affection. Legally the wife and family are also equal. Husbands and wives have a statutory obligation to help.

If the girlfriend becomes a wife in the proposition, then the law will not be able to help you choose. However, although many people may still save their mothers. But if he couldn't save his wife in the end.

We will gladly move forward with our wives.

A person's life is rich and colorful, and different emotions will definitely be experienced at different ages, including family, friendship, love, etc., and the feelings in the title should refer to love in a narrow sense. In the face of these different emotions. I believe that people have different comparisons about their status in their hearts, and for me, at any given moment, family will come first, followed by love, and then friendship.

That's why I feel that family affection is more important than love. Why do I give such a ranking in my mind? I believe that after reading the following analysis, you will understand.

Family affection accounts for a large proportion of a person's life, and love can also be transformed into family affection. I believe that many people have encountered such a question, "That is, the daughter-in-law asked me and your mother fell into the river at the same time, who do you save", such a question seems to be a proposition, but in fact it can reflect the ranking of love and family affection in people's hearts to a certain extent. On the one hand, people can experience the warmth of family affection as soon as they are born, and love needs to be found in their own ability in later life; On the other hand, after experiencing the tempering of life, the love that has achieved positive results will gradually change to family affection.

Compared with the romance and freedom of love, family affection means more responsibility and waiting. The reason why some people feel that love is more important than family affection is because they only see the freedom and romance of love. But in fact, after a vigorous period of love, love will eventually return to dullness, and gradually transform into mutual support and mutual waiting in a peaceful life.

And it is the responsibility and waiting carried in family affection that makes me feel that in a person's life, family affection is much more important than love. <>